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You can call me Miss April Showers. Cute ain't it? Sure a little cliche, but isn't everything? I am 21 from a undisclosed location in the United States. Only for privacy purposes, I'm sure you all understand (: I know alot more than your average woman. Therefore, I would like to use my God given information that I have accumualted over the past 21 years to hopefully help someone else who hasn't been as fortunate as I to learn the do's and don't's of life. I specialize in relationship and parenting advice. However, any question that is asked of me I will give you the best possible answer that I am capable of giving. I would love be a popular columnist one day. Until then, you have my full attention ladies and gentlemen.

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does constantly being unhappy and lovesick increase the chance of having a heartattack or something?
cause for example when i'm lovesick i still have the butterflies in my stomach and my heart racing but not in a happy/jumpy way but in a painful way. and it's really getting to me because whatever i do, i cant get rid of it. sports sometimes help but only for an hour or so.

I've never actually heard of someone dying from a broken heart, however, it can't be good for you. It is probably taking a toll on your physical and mental health. What you need to do (even though I know it is hard) is to find something fun for you to get your mind off of the lovesickness thing. Try a new hobby, or try meeting someone new. Hope you feel better soon. If you need someone to talk with or have any more questions inbox me!

-Miss April Showers

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so there is this boy in the year above me in my school and i like really really like i might even love him i spmetimes speek to him on msn and ask the usual like how are you an stuff but as soon as i ask him wot has he been doin or something like that he nevr ansers anymore than that he is fine he knows i like him and the other day he added me on facebook as the 5th person the added wich i was made up about an now i dont no wot to do cause he wont say anymore on msn but i dont wont to keep annoying him because he might get abit pissed off with me wot should i say to him

You need to be more original. The "what's up? How are you?" Questions are pretty played out, and let's face it, EVERYONE says asks them. You need something that stands out, that makes him want to have a conversation with you. If you insist on talking to him on MSN then start off by saying "so that jacket you were wearing today was really hott." or something along the lines of that. Guys love a girl with confidence in herself. If he still doesn't talk with you (which would be hard to believe) then play some hard ball with him. Start ignoring HIM and acting like your life couldn't be any better. Pretty soon he will take notice and he'll be the one messaging you. Guys like to feel that they have the upper hand. Show him your mature, and most of all different. Good luck sweetie, hope I helped!

-Miss April Showers

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Okay, so I am 17 years old and a senior in high school, and my boyfriend graduated last year and went to college this fall. A lot of my friends tell me that I should break up with him so we could date people that we could see all the time, but i really like him and I dont want to end a relationship of 10 months just because i miss him. Meanwhile, theres another guy who likes me that goes to my school, and i kind of like him but i really love my boyfriend. What should I do???

I am not going to lie to you, long distance relationships are hard. 85% fail. I'm sure you know this. The thing you really need to ask yourself is if you truely love him. Do you see yourself with this one guy for the rest of your life? Are you willing to spend your entire senior year missing him? If your answer is yes, then I would encourage you to fight for your relationship. If you weren't sure of the answers, then I would tell you to have fun and enjoy your senior year. 10 months is a good relationship, but a whole SENIOR YEAR is even longer. It is a choice you have to make, but no matter the choice just have fun. You only get to be 17 once. So don't waste it. Do what your heart tells you is best for you. I hope helped. Good luck no matter what!

-Miss April Showers

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Hey you all..I have this huge problem that needs fixing a.s.a.p! Ok..you see..when I wuz a junior in high school,I had this huge crush on this boy named aj.Can you say fine! But the thing wuz that he was only in the tenth grade.We eventually exchanged numbers and would talk like EVERYDAY! we were like buddys that had huge crushes on each other.But with him being in a lower grade..i just couldnt find the COURAGE to date him.I just thought of the comments my friends would make.So i later found out that someone else had a crush on me.He wuz nice and cool so i decided to date him.Aj wuz crushed.Things didnt work out between me and the dude I started dating.He cheated on me with his ex girlfriend which crushed me but anthony wuz there to help me heal.So like a month passed and aj wuz still hinting that he liked me and that he wanted to date me but around that TIME another dude came in the picture..we will call him elliot.Me and elliot started dating.Aj wuz crushed.The whole time I wuz with elliot i just kept thinking about aj.He wuz my friend and i CARED about him so much but i had a boyfriend and didnt want to ruin things.Sadly,aj got kicked out of school and that wuz the last time I ever saw him.During the summer,me and elliot broke up becuz he wanted to play pimp daddy and mess around with all types of girls.I wuz so heartbroken.So just recently I realized that I made a huge mistake by dissing aj TWICE. I know that I have to live with my mistakes and that I should always be willing to give people chances no matter who they are.I juss cant get aj off my mind.I miss him so much..I guess he changed numbers or something cuz I never heard from him again.I would walk to the moon and back to have him in my life.If i ever had the chance to be with him again I would take it in a heartbeat.I know that deep down in my heart that i love him.So..could it be that the love of my life came and gone that fast? I hope not.So what do you guys think?..should I just get him out my head and accept the fact that he's gone...or should I keep hope alive and do a people search? I just got to find him..or least know were he is..my heart just cant rest until i know. Please help..i need some advice big time..

Ever heard the quote "you don't miss your water until your well runs dry?" Thats what has happened here. You let peer preasure make a choice for you that wasn't really "best" for you. You should never let your friends control what you really want for yourself. I have been in a similar situation myself. My advice to you, is go to whitepages.com and do a people search. If you know his last name it should be fairly simple. Find out what city/state he is currently living in and go through the listings of everyone with that last name. It will probably take some work. But, he's worth it, right? Good luck, and hey if you do find this guy KEEP HIM. He sounds like a winner. Hope I helped!

-Miss April Showers

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i dont know if i really care for this person as much as he does for me i think everytime i am around him i get a little tickle in my belly and i dont know if that is a sign of love or something else i am 13 about to be 14 and i am a girl

When you are in love you will know for sure it's love and you won't question it. Love is a hard feeling to describe. It really can't be explained. If you find yourself constantly smiling when you are around him, getting nervous but excited all at the same time. Missing him if you have just been apart for 5 minutes or so.. then it's probably your first actual case of the love bug. Hope I helped sweetie.

P.S.
Don't worry if you answered "no" to any of the above. You're young. There will be PLENTY of love bugs in your life. So have fun and just listen to what your heart is telling you.

-Miss April Showers

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