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lets see im about 5*4 or 5*5 in hieght. I've played alot of sports, I like to sing, and I like to have fun. I've had my share of problems so i like to help others with thiers. Some situations are very similar to things ive gone through. I help out my friends all the time. So feel free to ask me about anything.
E-mail: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Busser at a Senior Living Place
Age: 16
AIM: bebgrlmary96
Yahoo: wuv1988@yahoo.com
MSN: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 22, 2004
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Lets see im 17 years old and me and my girlfreind both wanna hook up in the shower but theres a couple of things im worried about. ok one what if the hot water heater breaks and the waters cold and I get a small penis. Two what if i slip on the bar of soap and my parents have to come in to pry us apart that would be really embarising.o wait and one more what if i blow my load b4 we even get started???? i just dont know about this shower thing what do u think. (link)
babe dont worry about it ~ im sure the water heater wont break, and if ur worried about a bar of soup dont have one in the shower. Maybe have bottled soup?...anyway just relax... the showers for enjoyment its not somethin to freak over... just enjoy the expierance. Im sure it will all be fine. you have nothing to worry about.


There are 2 gusy i like. Guy 1- nice, funny, likes me, and cute. The bad side of him is that he flirts with almost everyone, and is older than me so doesnt really hang around my friends. Guy 2- sweet, shy at times, funny, cute. The bad side to him is i dont think he is that interested in me. Well i can't deside which one to choose, and if i choose guy 2 than how do i see if he likes me? (link)
well sounds lik guy 2 is a winner... so u should just state that u lik him... come out and say it ... and maybe he feels tha same! ~ u never kno till u take tha chance ! ~ and if that dont work check it wit guy1...he can be a backup... but if i were u id go for guy2 ~ ... and if ur uncomfortable with comming right out... maybe start small talk with him... then ask who he likes... hope it all works out for u *mare*


I like a guy that is nice, funny, but he flirts with everyone!!!! We aren't really dating yet, but we like each other. How should/ or should i talk to him about being more of a boyfriend? And if i do than how should i ask him? (link)
you should deffinitly tell him if u want to be more then just friends... and u could ask him by maybe being lik ... "" so what is it ur looking for now a days... u wanting a gf... or u lik... jus bob n around... "" ~ that way u can see where he stands n what he wants... a kno?... and most likly he will state the same question back to u... so u can spill how u are looking for a relationship ~ ~ ~ thats what im gonna do with this one guy im like n ... hope it all works for u *goodluck* - mare


ok me and my EX broke up right but my bestfriend is his cousin and umm...we never really see eachother that often!! its been like 2 months and i just dont know if im supposed to kiss him or what even if were not goin out!! hes goin over to her house this saturday and im goin over on saturday and we still like eachother but he always talks about these 2 other girls and it drives me crazy!! and we were never really "alone" and he said he would make "alone" time but were not goin out but we both want too help what am i supposed to do in that "alone" time!!! (link)
talk things out with him... if yall should get back together... or if u wanna keep it simple... tell him that u like him... and if u wanna kiss him tell him... ~ hope it all works out for u... ~ *mare*


well im 18 n im a female well i put my bf in a hospital bcuz i damaged his penis cuz he cheated on me then my mom found out n was really weirded out by it so she kicked me out.. so i moved to new mexico n changed my name to big burtha well i found myself another bf and he cheated too so i threw him down sum stairs and moved again to italy im kinda gettin tired of moving so much! i wouldnt have to if guys & parents werent so dumb! ... wut should i do.... (link)
...get...help...fast...:-/


Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 )) (link)
uM no... not unless ur the one wanting him to... guys are horn dogs aight?... they think with there packages! ~ dont let him do anything you dont want him to do... ~ *mare*


Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
OK ... i just went through this kinda thing about a month ago prob. a lil over a month... and then later i found out that my boyfriends friends were tell n me all that crap about him because they all liked me... Ive learned the hard way that for a relationship to work you got to trust one another or it will fall through... trust your gut instinked... if you feel lik u can trust him then trust him... if not then let him go... but just forget other people! this is between him and you only! *mare* hope i helped


ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed? (link)
no... not that i know of... u may have had a miscarage... sorry if i spelt that wrong ... but... yeah if u are p.g. and u did bleed... check on it with ur doctor...


Okay, I'm a 15 yr old girl.I have this problem, my boyfriend just broke up with me, and I want him back.I have to get him back, I don't knwo what to do,I love him so much, he thinks I don't even like him....and my cat is dying..so I'm sad about that.And my grandpa is always complaining to me about stupid things.Please help. (link)
Ok ... well what was the reason ur guy broke up with you?... Just talk to him about it... tell him how much he means to you... show him that you love and care for him. Im really sorry about your cat... i know its hard to loose a pet... and about your grandpa... heres the thing with old people... they ALWAYS complain lol ~ my grandpa does the same thing... but u got to just let it go and let him complain... its there hobby ya know?... i really hope everything works out for you... if you wanna talk more about it then u can email me or IM me ... my aim is bebgrlmary96 and my msn is my email gradof2007@hotmail.com ~ hope i helped. *mare*


I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love (link)
spend some time with him. see how you feel for sure... and if you end up liking him hey go for it! you guys seem lik really close friends and those relationships are lik the best! *mare*


Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno

Mike (link)
Figure out who you really like. And go for that girl... also Age shouldnt matter unless its lik 5-above years apart i think. BUt you gotta be fair to these girls. So pick who you like most and go for that girl. If you need to break up with the girl u are currently with... then you gotta do what cha gotta do ya kno?... hope i helped a little *mare*


i got a gurl iv known for awhile and i like her alot and i kno she knos but like she trusts me alot and like she tells me everything...and i guess thats goos but , she tells me who she likes and everything and asks for my advice and i just wanna b like forget them come with me but i try to give her advice from a friend type i jus want her to be happy. but it hurts alot listenin her talk bout all these guys but i dont want her to stop talkin to me wat should i do? (link)
Well ... does it bug you alot that shes so open with you like about even who she likes?... if so you should tell her and tell her how you feel about her also... she needs to know def. cause its oviously hurting you... *hope i helped*


ok im 14, im a girl. if i like a guy i never do anything...mabye flirt a lil bit but other than that i would always wait for the guy to make the first move...but now i feel like all my freinds always get the guys...but they never do anything..so what do i do? (link)
If you wanna guy you gotta let him know it ~ flirt alot, but play hard to get... guys like that i guess lol ~ its cool to wait for a guy but sometimes you gotta make a move so they notice ya ~ you know?...*mare*


i met this girl and shes soo nice and pretty shes like perfect but i got scared and i dont know if im ready for a relationship i wanted to be friends but thats not workin out and i cant get her out of my mind but i dunno if im ready for a girlfriend and i dont even know if she would take me back if i wanted her too (link)
If she likes you im sure she would take you back. Just explain how you were feeling to her. Im sure she will understand. So go for it... take a chance. Cause if you dont you could miss out on something really special. And if shes a nice girl then even if things dont work out she will still be there to be friends. This could be exactly what your looking for... but you dont know till you try ~ **mare**


i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do (link)
talk to him about it... i mean if he really likes you, yall should hook up... but maybe hes not ready yet you kno?... just talk to him. *mare* {rate me please}


My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.

Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.

I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do?? (link)
ask your best friend if he minds that you talk to your boyfriend about it... if he says yeah then confront him about it... if he says no... have him talk to your boyfriend for you. *mare*


HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (: (link)
umm.. cover up ? ~ :) ~ it could cover them to make them less noticeable... so just use that...


when are the earliest signs of pregnancy and what are they??? how can you avoid a birth IF NESSECARY?? (link)
see the thing with this... you never have sex without accepting the risk of getting p.g. I think if someone does get p.g. they shouldnt think about killing it such as an abortion. cause i feel like it was there choice and this is the result... the signs of being p.g. are missing your period, you'll crave certain foods, ... If you think you might be pregnant go take a p.g. test and if its poss. go see a doctor. ill be prayin for ya *mare*


I like this guy..and i have known him for years..and he was dating one of my friends for a year and half..they broke up and now i like him i have been hanging out with him like everyday for the last month and i really really like him..he is everything i like..nice..funny..nice body:)..lolz..i told him i liked him and he also says he likes me 2...but i feel really bad if i were to go out with him...What do i do???? (link)
talk to your friend about it tellher that you really like him... and he likes you and that you two wanna get together... if shes a real friend she will try and understand... ~ *mare*


i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do? (link)
Figure out who you like more... then go for who you choose... dont lead two guys on... you dont wanna hurt your bf... and i totaly understand... so why dont you help him out a little... if you like him be with him if you dont... dont be with him just to keep him from hurting... go to the other guy... so basically all you have to do is choose who you like more... its not a slutty thing to do ... but say you and ur bf break up... wait at LEASt a week be4 dating the other guy... ~ *mare*




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