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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

x0x-dani

Does he have a fave food? Cook it for him. If ya can't cook (like me!) take him to a restaurant after the game. Just spoil him and I'm sure he'll be happy!

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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

I'd say he likes your boobs. Thats all.

If you have never talked to him before and the only attraction is physical, its obviously not going to be a deep relationship.

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whats a good way to get over someone? (ex boyfriend)
please help me! thanks!

Get involved in some interests of yours. Always been interested in acting? Join drama club. Like writing? Join the newspaper. Play sports (intramural or competitive!).

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What is soo cool about Internet Dating? I mean, what if you dating like a Lesbo that SAYS their a boy but y'know...and what if you're like 11 and the person you're dating is like 43? o_O; Yeah, I just needed to ask what was soo cool about it. -.-;

What I think: If you online date, you're too ugly to get anything in real life. xD

"What I think: If you online date, you're too ugly to get anything in real life. xD "

I'm gonna die laughing. (Ya, I have no advice... just a comment. :P)

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ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not

I'm 14. I havent kissed a guy (cheek doesnt count in my book). It's NOT A BIG DEAL.

If people make fun of you just say you respect yourself and dont want meaningless kissing or whatever. They arent your friends if they dont respect you for not making out.

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long

Ewww.... fingering is so nasty. Can you imagine where his hands have been? Its not like he'll wash them. His fingernails can scratch and OWWWWW. Imagine how painful itd be to have a scratch in your vagina. Theres also dirt and other dirty stuff under his nails.

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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

Tell him you'd rather just stay friends.

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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do?

You've moved away, and -this will sound uber-harsh- you need to move on.

He has moved on, and now you need to.

Find a friend to talk to. Get hobbies if you dont have any. Be super busy and in time hopefully, youll forget him.

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