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i have been going out with this guy for 2 months and our relationtship is great!.. but my best friend doesnt like him that much but she was fine with our relationship for a while... but the other say she told me that either i brake up with him or then she wants nothing to do with me!! she flat out told me choose between her and my boyfriend!!
how do i choose??.. i mean my boyfriend is great but i also love my best friend and would never want to lose her!
thanks.
--confused-- (link)
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Well this maybe out of the question but I think that she just told you that one day cause maybe she likes him or did 'something' with him and she doesn't want you to know about. Ok but anyway you should get together with both of them and talk it over with them. It could work and your bestF would understand
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Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an all, should i keep it going with him? or should i end it?
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Well maybe if you keep going he will start to like you or maybe your confused because you really do like him but you just dont know it.
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Next week I turn 21. No big deal really, I was legal at 19 were I live.
A while ago me and my boyfriend agreed for a whole bunch of reasons to not focus on our birthdays too much this year, just do something nice for valintines day. Which was totally cool with me. But now my girlfriends want to take me out for my birthday.
The thing is everybody, even myself, wants this to be a girls night thing. I don't even think my boyfriend would want to come to the place they have in mind, but I'm not sure how to tell him that I want to spend my birthday with just my close group of girls. What should I do? (link)
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Maybe have a birthday dinner with him on the day before or a lunch on your birthday then tell him youu are going out with your girls that night,he should understamd
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Ok so i have known this guy all my life! well a few years ago he moved ..but we still kept in touch occasionally. and also we have always considered each other bro and sis, well he moved back this past summer and everything was ok and all but now he calls me at a minimum of 8 times a day! and every weekend he is with me. now dont get me wrong i love the boy to death but he comes with me and my frieds on our "girls night outs" and then staurday nights he comes to my house then sunday he is hear to! and i dont want to be mean and i have even tried saying things in the past liek well why dont u go do this or that...and even trying to be mean dont work because he doesnt take me serious! please HELP ME i dotn no what i am going to do. and the other problem with him he tells me who i can and cant date..he doesnt liek me are anything he is just..i dont even no how to explain it. and GUys want talk to me alot becaus ethey think im dating him or there afraid he want liek him. (link)
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Ok maybe he does like you,but just doesn't show it to you. To me it looks like he is in LOVE with you!! Maybe he just wants to be really close to you cause he is being protective like a brother
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Well this year has been pretty hard for me in the relationship category...
I havent totally gotten over my ex from this summer...We went out for like 7 months... And well ive had 2 well u can call them relationships after him... But they last for like a week cause its not the same... I always end up calling them "his name" and then its ends up in a big fight.. Well im a litle better now cause he was a new girlfriend and he is quote quote in love with him...
But recently this really hot guy moved in next door... I think he likes me cause everytime i go outside he will go and quidency go to his car and get something... And come to find out he is in my spanish class... Well moving on... I really really like him... I havent liked someone like this in awhile... But we have never talked... What should i do... I mean its weird how he has said hi to my grandmother (which i live with) but he is shy to come talk to me... What should i do that wouldnt make me look desperate?? (link)
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You should go to him,cause you sometimes just have to do stuff yourself. Maybe he is thinking the same thing as you and waiting for you to come to him.
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