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My family and some of my friends hate the guy I love for reasons that in my mind, end up being superficial. My parents told me I end things or they cut me off and won't help with law school. So I kinda did. I'm still in contact with my guy because I'm madly in love with him. I truly believe he's the one for me. The situation is heated with my family right now so I have to pretend I cut him out of my life. I want him in my life and I need my family and their help. What would you do or say to my parents and my guy if you were me? (link)
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Unfortunately,being in the same situation as you,I can understand how you feel. Here is how I do it. I pretend that he doesn't even exist,say I go out with friends but then meet him instead. Not the best way,I know. But if you feel that they have really wronged him and for superficial reasons,and that you can come out a better person because of your relationship with him,please don't give up on him. I guess I can understand their worry but sometimes they don't understand that our ideas of happiness are different to theirs. That what is ideal in their eyes,isn't ideal in ours. The path we are both on is difficult. If you are truly sure that he is the one for you,go for it.
Now,don't worry about their lack of support. In life,you will surely,as I have,find other people who will be more supportive than your family and current friends ever were.
If you believe in a good outcome,you will get one.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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So there's this guy I've been crushing on so hard for the past while now. I'm in the US and he's in... Australia (fml). I really like him. Don't know if he sees me the same way. People think I'm crazy. But I was gonna like take it REALLY slow, get to know him a lot then tell him if I still like him as much or even more. Because if you truly like someone and want to be with them, it doesn't matter the distance, how much time you have with them, or how long it'll take to meet them, right? Btw, he said he's going to move to the UK or US when he graduates university. So there's a good chance with that, right? (link)
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I don't think you're retarded. There is a chance but you will have to work for it. And if it doesn't work out by any chance,don't get disappointed.
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'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant? (link)
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I can't tell for sure. But if she took the pill,she should be fine.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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So I've been dating this guy for just over a month, seeing each other at least once a week, and texting or calling in between. We've had a few makeout sessions, but nothing further, because we both wanted to wait a bit to get to know each other before jumping into bed (he brought that up first actually). Things were going really well in my opinion, I've never gone on more than 1-2 dates with one guy if I wasn't really into him, let alone more than 5 in a few weeks.
We last saw each other last Sunday. I went out of town for the week and got back this Sunday. I texted him Thursday asking how he was doing. Nothing. No big deal, he knew I was away. I texted again yesterday (Sunday) morning asking if he was available to see each other a specific day this week. Still nothing.
Am I over-thinking this?
I'm undecided whether to be worried or pissed off...
Should I call tomorrow if I still haven't heard back from him?
OR am I missing something? Do people really just not answer you anymore in hopes that you "get the hint". What happened to common courtesy of "no longer interested" or "chosen to pursue someone else" or just something!?
f/24 (link)
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You should call him and ask him why he hasn't contacted you in the time you said. However,if you notice something fishy about his explanation,don't go out with him again. And if he doesn't answer,it only shows his true face. Unfortunately,there is no common courtesy anymore,they just ignore you and hope you'll go away. But such boys are immature,and seeing as you seem to be a serious girl when it cones to relationships,it's best to let them go. They are not deserving of you. Whatever you decide to do,I wish you luck.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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me and my boyfriend cuddled kissed and snuggled this is the first time for us and first he ejaculated half into my anus and my hymen did not break.the second time the same day we tried to ejaculate but the penis did not enter. i don't know whether the semen went into my vagina or not.i got wet in my panties and he too got pre-ejaculation liquid we both did without our clothes.is there any chance to get pregnant? (link)
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For pregnancy to occur,semen actually needs to get discharged deep into the vagina,near the cervix of the uterus. However,there have been rare cases of pregnancy which occurred under the same circumstance you were in. If I were you,I would consult a gynaecologist just in case because what happened could be risky. It's rare,but not impossible.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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So i have been dating this guy for about 4 months and for the past month we r doing long distance since he is bck in his home country, though we ll be meeting in 2-3 weeks. skyping before with him was fun .. we talked alot.. we even had some dirty fun n our rela was going awesome even though we played his games as well .. i enjoyed it ... but now it feels weird .. we hardly talk .. he hangs up when he i playing cause his game gets oo intense that he needs to concentrate .. he becomes unresponsive .. our convos r boring ... n he doesnt want to have dirty fun on skype anyone .. recently i asked him if he still into me .. he sai d he is .. but since we r soo far away n he is bored .. he plays his games all the time ... should i be worried .. cause i rll dont like this feeling ... or should i wait for 2-3 weeks n then c how things go when i c him ... or should i have that convo with him again .. cause i end up crying every night ... plus he even stopped resonding to my texts but calls me n talks bout the things i texted him .. do u think m over thinking ... n my over thinking about things i causing me ruin my own rela ... i know its his hobby .. but i do need some attention from him ... n i dont want to be in a rela where i dont feel important .. should i talk to him or no? i m rll confused bout how i should be reacting to this situation ...oh n when we were together .. we would have sex every single day .. n now we dont even do anything is kinda suspicious .. oh n when we had this mini talk .. he did say he doesnt rll like it that much and doesnt wanna do it everyday .. i asked him last night to do things since he havent done it in a week n still he rejected it ... though at the beginning of this long distance we were doing things everyday ... he also said that he thinks we talk alot .. he hardly tlked alot .. he was always playing his games .. n i was on the call doing my things ... m going crazy .. my thinking is all over the place ... n worst part is i wanna have a talk with him but i cant cause listening to his voice rll does relax me n calms he down n then though we talk for 10 mins .. i enjoy is ... but then he hangs up n i get mad cause he need to play his games n leave me in a middle of a convo ... argh .. i dont know how to react bout this or do what .. i think he luvs me .. he hasnt said that for a while .. but having too many serious convos .. could make him lose intrest .. i dont know .. HELP! (link)
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I was in a very similar situation as yours. I won't beat around the bush: you don't need this guy in your life. He is only using you for sex,that much is obvious. You should stop thinking about him altogether and break up. You said you cry every night and that you need his attention which he doesn't give. I tell you from my experience that you're just prolonging the torture. He is immature and won't change. He will always put something before you,be it games or whatever. I dumped my boyfriend because of that,I suggest you do it too. It may be hard on you if you really like this guy but no girl should suffer like that. You should know that you should NEVER settle for less and know what you are worth and what you deserve. There are plenty guys out there who would give you so much more. I hope I made my point although I may have been a little harsh,but there is no nice way of explaining this.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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