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ok. i am 14, female, and so is my best friend Kelly. We are starting high school next year, and the last week of school, her exboyfriend(went out for one day. loves his best friend now) asked me out. i didnt like him much, and kelly said she didnt care. now my bf is very depressed... and is depressing me. i was going to break up with him, but i am also afraid he will do something drastic... and what scares me more is that he really wont care... or try to stop me. i do deeply care about him, but i just recently found out that the first time we hung out together at the mall, kelly kissed him on the cheek. he always calls her before me... though he tells me he loves me. kelly says i should just ignore it... that he really loves me. i try to talk to him about things that bother him but he doesnt listen. kelly explains to my friend that kissing him was "friendly". tho we were going out at the time. did i cross the line dating him after she did, or did she cross the line kissing him? do i break up with him over it, or forget about it and try to work it out? (link)
ok..he still has feeling for her and so does she...she didnt want you to go out with him in the 1st place so it seems like she is tryin 2 get him 2 lewave or cheat on you so just break up with him and i dont no how good of a friend ship you and her have but it doesnt seem so good if she did that but i would keep some distace and pay more attention with your next bf's...because she seems like a flirt


One of my best friends is a guy that i have gone out with. He moved to another state and now I only talk to him on AIM, txts, but rarely on the phone. He has a girlfriend and I'm not that great on long-term relationships but he's one of the only long-term relationships I've had with somebody. Talking to him makes me still miss him and how I still love him. But now, I have a feeling he's avoiding me because on AIM chats he always says "BRB" and then signs off! 3 times already! I've been waiting on AIM for him because I want to tell him how I feel but he hasn't come on the WHOLE day when usually he can! I seriously need to talk to him before I take off to Japan for a month. He's not answering him emails or anything. What do I do? (link)
i would call him and tell him but...if you tell him what would it change..i mean like he is still leaving...it might cause more stress for him..


Im a white 17/F..and i like a black guy name Tyron..the more i see him and spend time with him the more i like him...we both know we are very attracted to eachother and we want to date but there is one big problem..my parents..my dad already told me that i was forbidden to date a black guy..and my mom is worried that i will date one..im soo upset because im not the racist type..when i see Tyron i dont see black..i just see HIM. Hes a wonderful guy..im sooo hurt over this..what should i do? (link)
i had that 2 but i just didnt listen to them..if you realy like the guy and u can see yourself in the future with him then go for it...dont let your parents ruin it for you:D


ok. so i've never "made out" before or "french kissed" so how am i suppose to know what to do, when comes to doing that? (link)
actually yes, there is like no way some one can show or tell u how 2 kiss..it just comes natural....but u can do things..like mess with his hair:D


I could get into detail, but I wont.
Im in love with this boy
and he used to be nice to me.
He has lost total respect for me , becuase I let him take advantage of me [dumb idea, i know]
He's rude to me and mean and etc.
I still like him no matter how mean he is!
No, im probably not going to be able to get over him anytime soon.
Does anyone know how I should try and get his respect back and be friends again? (link)
wow, this is exactually what i was like. Hi my name is trisha and my bf was very rude to me and he didnt respect me at all a very controllin bf. i dated him for 7 months. i took a break for like 4 days and i figured out that i could do better with out him. i was with my friends again and i could talk to people with out first thinking "will he get mad at me if i do this.." but i think what you need first is a break so you can see that you will be fine just hang out with friends on your freetime and then if you want try and go back out with him see if he will change but if not i say dump him because girls should be treated like princesess. hope it helps

~trisha~


which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?

thanks for reading (link)
the eyes, the way they dress,abs,and mucles,and of course hair

~trisha~


is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering



15/m
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well if your like popular or like a popular girl then somethiomes it matters but people realy dont care. They look at what is in the inside then out

Hope it helps

~trisha~


My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14? (link)
ok hi its trisha again...after i read what you told me it seems like he realy does love you...and your sooo not turning a whore...do u want to no anything else?


1.
I'm a little on the ugly side if you ask me.
I don't have a boyfriend ; while all my friends do and I feel left out. It's getting to the point where I'm moody and depressed ALL the time ; and it sucks. I really want a boyfriend. How can I make myself more attractive and look better.

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Also I have another question; My best friend always talks about her boyfriend and it pisses me off. I've told her to stop because it makes me feel left out but she still hasn't. (I've told her many of times) How can I make her stop? (link)
well do any guyz lik you? just be yourself..i did and i waz nice...for somereason guys like gurls that are nice...say hi to every 1 that passes you and you can get some 1 to like you...and also bout your friend u cant realy make her stop talking bout him..it just comes natural...even when they break up..she will talk bout him for a few weeks hope it helped

~trisha~


I went out with this guy last Monday. We had a great time. We texted a couple times Friday .. then I saw him Saturday at work. He asked when I had off next and I told Tuesday. Now it's Thursday and he hasn't responded to the two texts I sent him. Is this just his way of saying he's not interested anymore? (link)
it could mean that or it could mean he has been buessy,lost it,got it tookin away......y dont you go over to were he lives and see whats up w/ him?


what are some ways to act/flirt at a party to get a guy to like you? theres this guy and we talk and flirt a LOT and he's gonna be there at this party next weekend soooo what are some ways? thanks!!! good advice = 5.

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ok well first of all hi my name is trisha and second if you guyz flirt hella then it shouldnt matter he will probably flirt with you and it will go on from there but if you feel like its goin down the drain what i think and what i would do is play with his arms and hands and give him hints that you want him..if you do good he will catch on...now..if you do touch his hand and he doesnt do anything or looks at you..(not like your crazy) then its good..but you can tell if its not...hope it works
~trisha~


okay i have a boyfriend and i like 2 other guys. i really dont know what to do. because i really like my boyfriend and i really like these other 2 guys. its really confusinng! and the 2 other guys like me! and im really stressing ouut!HElLPP! (link)
ya im having that problem 2..i like this other guy but my friend likes him to.....what i did was..i stayed with my bf because at least you no he likes you and he treats you good...the other guys could be mean ideots..u never no

~trisha~


Why do SOME guys think that showing your stomach is hot?
I mean, it is not like they are showing anything that you would probably bee looking at anyways.

Hev (link)
guys do it because they like there stomick..they think they look sexi they want another gurl to see it or they like and want other gurls to see there abs



Me and my bf make out all the time but i always have my hands just like to myself idk what to do with them..... anybody have any ideas of what i can do? (link)
ya i make out w/ my bf a lot 2 what u do is push him head closer and its a lot better...you could also when your makin out you could pull his shirt up and messaround with his stomick..my bf loves that:)hope it helped

~trisha~




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