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my name is Lise and i'm 20 years old. i'm currently a junior in college. i enjoy traveling, partying, shopping, going to the beach, all that fun stuff. i've been in a serious relationship for over four years.

if you have any questions about fashion, relationships, college or friends; i find those to be my best categories for giving advice. remember, these are anonymous so don't be afraid to ask anything; i'll be more than happy to answer.


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I'm about thirty pounds overweight (yeah, I'm working on that), and I don't look the best.

But, I like to think I have a good personality, I know I have a pretty good sense of humor, and I must be smart-ish, at least, because I've been in Pre-IB for two years.

So, do you guys have any tips on scoring a nice, funny, cute guy?

don't worry so much about attracting a guy. if you're smart, have a great sense of humour and a great personality, then the right guy will be attracted to you. any guy who isn't doesn't deserve your time.

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I will try to make this as simple as possible. Im a 42 yo male, however I do not feel like it nor do I look like it or act like it. Most all my friends are 20-25, I can hang with them and act just as crazy( with out being ingnorant) but I can also be the adult when I have to be. My question: Is it wrong for me to enjoy the company of the younger crowd, meaning, I am attracted to a 20yo female, Im not like some sexual preditor chasing/hunting down the teen hotties, Im just more attracted to them.Part of me feels totaly wrong for having these feelings.Give it to me strait and tell me how terrible I am. Sincerly mndfrk

there's nothing wrong with spending time with a younger crowd. i'm 20 years old and i often party with people who are 30-40 years old. you should be happy you're not getting too old, too fast because where's the fun in that?

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i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.

i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.

any tips?

you definitly are going to need more time to get over it. a four year relationship doesn't go away after only four days. it make takes months. just keep doing what you're doing and eventualy it'll pass.

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