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Location: Dallas ,Texas
Age: 13
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I have a boyfriend, whom I have been dating for two years and 2 months. I started college this year. The college is just a couple of hours away from home. We seen each other two days before I left for college, but have only talked four times since then. I have tried to get together with him on weekends that I'm home, especially this past weekend because it was homecoming weekend and also his birthday was this past Monday. He doesn't seem interested in talking with me. I haven't received one letter or phone call from him since we have been down there, yet all the other girls in the dorm that have a boyfriend have either gotten a million letters from their significant other or got a phone call from him, or both. That would be my roommate. I don't know if I should ditch him or give him a little more time because he may be too caught up in school work. I'm too afraid to talk to him about it because I'm afraid of how he might react. Can anyone help me and guide me in the direction I need to go? (link)
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ask him why he hasnt even called you once. does he still care about you is ther someone else?
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well i like this guy (lets say hes name is steven) well steven is in one of my classes. and we sit across the room from each other, like everyh time he looks over at me i look back and stevens friend told me that i need to go ask him out. but at my school all the guys are like lying all the time even to thier gf's but steven is really sweet.also my friend told me that she ask steven and he said that he likes me.and i was really glad.so my ? in what should i do should i go up to him and say like hi and get into a conversatrion with him or should i leave him alone and wiat till he asks me out.
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make sure he likes you back. let him ask you out because thats kinda low but if you like alot ask him out.
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hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.
so what should i tell him?
sry it's kind of long and confusing... (link)
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he should straighten things out. tell her he already got a girl and shelike him back
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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that. (link)
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if he likes you hell wait till youre ready to move on. if he gets mad dump him hes not worth it .
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(m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks (link)
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its you not your parents that are going out with her . make your own decision go out with her if youre sure that you like her alot
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ok well I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday. I told my bf and all and he was really really really upset and he kept telling me that he wasnt ready for a baby right now. I am 15 and he is 16 and neither one of us are ready. He told me that his dad would make him drop out of school and get a full time job and all and i dont want that to happen. He was already in trouble with his parents because of his grades and all and went to see him yesterday but we just met in town when he got off of work and he wasnt suppose to. I wouldnt let him leave and when i finally did he was in a hurry and he it his cousins car cause she parked right behind him and didnt know she was there. now his dad took his truck from him and he is in trouble and he has to pay for her car by himself. I dont know what is goin to happen. I dont know what i should do. Should I break up with him so he wont have so much to worry about or what???? Someone plz help (link)
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you shouldnt take all of the responsiblities he hepled make the baby. its his fault that he didnt use protection.
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