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ok i am 13 nd this guy i lyke is 14. me n him want to make out. ive kissed b4 i hve neva made out!! ik its dumb bt i want to make out wit him sum1 tell me how to!!!

_ welllll. Iknow how you feel when i had my first hook up i had no idea what i was doing. Well its pretty simple just kiss him first they slip you tounge in his mouth not too far and then just move your tounge around thats it pretty much good luckk (; - toriiiii.

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I have some of the biggest boobs in my entire town. No lie. I dont fit my mother's bras or anyone's for that matter. Some guys called my boyfriend one of the luckiest guys ever. But he respects a girl enogh not to stare at their ass and boobs all day, he told me himself. We recently got to what my friends call 3rd base (fingering; hickies, all that good stuff). I long for more though, i'm not exactly proud of my bust but its the body part i love showing off. I kno he noticed them before. But i really got stuck onto this idea during a basketball game (teacher vs student) and he was on the bleacher above me, as he leaned down he rested his head on my sholder and kissed the nape of my neck to the top base of my chest. I loved the feeling of his lips and tongue on my skin, all i want is more.
Does anyone have any ideas on how i can get more of this?
14/f & 14/m (he'll be 15 in aug)
please dnt tell me im too young for this, im extremly determined to get this done...plz
~olie xD

okay, well you can just ask him too, thats simple.
or you can start making out with him push on the
couch bed whateverr... & lay on top of him and keep
on making out with him, then he might take off your
shirt or take it off yourself, then keep making out with
him & then put his hands on the back of your bra hook
and then he will take it off and your good from there
& if he doesnt take it off then just take it off yourself
& then he'll catch on quickly hope ive helped - toriiiiii.

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okay so me and my bf were going out and we wanted 2 kiss me but im like ew gros (it was 6th grade at the time) and so then we broke up but then we got bak 2gether (bcz of major flirting on both our parts) and so hes like i had dreamz of us kissing blah blah blah so im like fine meet me in the stairs il make ur dream cum tru. so i madeout w/ him w/e. but heres the thing. im only in 7th grade! is that so extremely horiable? and every1 found out (bcz 1 of my friends cant keep her mouth shut!) and every1 thinks im a slut. HELP ME!!!

No, your not a slut. just for makeing out with your boyfriend thats what boyfriends and girlfriends do when there older they become intimate it's perfectly normal, it doesn't make you a slut at all. Don't think you are just because people think you are the fact is there probally all immature and haven't even experienced a hookup yet that's why.just because your making out with your boyfriend dosn't make you a slut because; hes your boyfriend! you like him he likes you and you kiss and shit theres nothing wrong with that so don't let people think twist you around just because of there opion half o the time its jut because there jealous,immature, or have nothing better t do but gossip so, keep your head up girl don't let them bring you down goodluck (; -toriiiii.

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I have only one guy im truely interested in BUT theses a list of guys that I talk to all the time. and some times we talk in ways we probably shouldn't. I want to focus on this one guy and only him but it's hard I've been single practically all of my life just because of the fact that Im naturally a really big flirt. but now im ready to make a commitment to some one and Im having a hard time breaking a bad old habit...FLIRTING!

i know how you feel, i used to be a big flirt
tooo, all you have to do is just remind yourself
im really interested in this guy i don't want to
loose him over something i know i can control.
and when you talk to other guys you can ethier
be like; well i have a boyfriend im sorry or you
can flirt a little bit but, just keep in mind
that you don't want to lose the guy your interested
in and if he's really worth it the other guys
probally aren't even that great if you think
about it if your interested in him just commit
to him and you can be a flirt a little and all
that but just don't go over the edge as in you
know like talking about hooking up and stuff you
know just keep it at a limit that you know you
can still be commited to the one you want to be
with and have a little fun at the same time.

hope i've helped.

- toriiiiiii.

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Okay so i went out with this boy for a year and a half and he broke up with me because we were fighting alot towards the end. No one including me saw this coming because he seemed so in love. I was very pathetic when we first broke up and just crushed(he was the only person i ever slept with and same with him). Anyways, now that it is summer i have done pretty good in staying away from him and even tried dating some other guys. One of the guys that my ex knew about emailed me the other day and was like "your ex requested to be my friend on facebook?". I thought this was really weird but tried not to read too much into it. Anyways, today he started texting me and wants to see a movie next saturday. Im very confused on what to do...he probably just wants to go as friends but i just dont know. I started making some friends back that i lost when me and him were dating and i really seem to be happy but i still miss him. I dont know if i should go back out with him if that is what he wants!! All my guy friends might look down on me and especially the ones that i went on dates with.. I dont want to loose my friends again because they are disappointed in me. HELP!

well, iknow how you feel hun. so if you really aren't sure if he wants to get back to gether with you or not, ask him but not bodly just be like; well is this going to be as friends or a date? and if he says as just friends just go along with it until you figure out your feelings and if you want to give him another chance on letting him back into your life.
or if he says as a date just be like; well. im not really sure how i feel about that i mean we used to be in a realationship and all i don't know if i can be friends with you with all that happened in out past and then just be like i just have to think about things. & if your friends don't respect your choices on who you want to be with then there not really your true friends at all just remember that. & remember that its your choice on who you want to date and no one elses concern.

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