My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her?
Before you accuse him of cheating, ask yourself this question. Did he intend on hiding this number/girl from you? If so, you need to question his motives with her. Yes, this may just be an innocent friendship, but how exactly would he feel if you got a random guy's number and started calling him, regardless if you had hung out with him yet?
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Bahahahaha I know stupid question, but I honestly don't know.
Like, with a stranger you see in a shop or something. I know you don't go up to them and be all over them, because not only is that an anti social thing to do, but they may have a girlfriend.
But how do you flirt? I really don't know, lol.
Showing any kind of interest in the guy can be considered flirting if done right. You know, ask him about personal interests, what he's involved in, the music or movies he likes, etc. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean twirling your hair or batting your eyes at him. Believe me, the talking part is a LOT easier and probably gets better results than that, haha.
Complimenting is big one too. A simple comment about his appearance or attire would hint off the interest in him as well. :)
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heyy
i'm a 17 yr. old girl (turning 18 in january too!)
i've never had a boyfriend
i have never kissed a boy
a boy has never been interested in me (to my knowledge)
the main issue is that i'm not really friends with many straght guys. i do theatre so almost all of my guy friends are gay and there aren't many opportunities for me to meet straight guys. i feel like such a loser. i mean i'm almost 18 and have never had anything close to a romantic relationship with a boy. am i doing something wrong? i keep telling myself that it's normal and a lot of girls my age have never hooked up with anyone but i'm starting to think it's not normal and my self confidence has hit rock bottom. i'm not ugly or fat or anything. my best friend (gay guy) told me last year that i got so pretty, but i feel like no guys (straight) will ever want to date me. it's not that i want to hook up with someone just for the sake of hooking up with someone. i just want someone to love me and make me feel good about myself so i don't feel so alone. ughhh i don't even know what to do. any advice would be greatly appreciated!
thanks
You're definitely not doing anything wrong, trust me. You're right about it being perfectly normal. I have plenty of girl friends who are nearly 18 and haven't experienced a real relationship of any sort before. But they're perfectly content with it because I've told them the same advice to just wait. Basically, you've still got all your college years ahead of you. Think of all the guys that will catch your attention (and vice versa!) when you head off somewhere new and have the chance to meet new people!
High school will always be high school. The guys are kind of "ehh..", so I strongly advise you NOT to rush into something just because you want to feel the thrill. Things tend to fall into place when you least expect it... but you know, just because I've mentioned to wait until college doesn't mean that's when it's guaranteed to happen. You could even meet a guy somewhere within this year and something might spark. You've just got to WAIT for it, you know? (:
If you've got anything else to ask or if that wasn't the advice you wanted, go ahead and reply, I'm willing to help you out as much as I can!
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There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles
If he doesn't want you right now, there's not much you can do about it. I strongly advise you not to continually throw yourself at him because it may cause him to lose all interest in you that could've grown into something bigger had you just given him some space.
Keep dropping hints, but not enough to cause him to believe you are obsessed with him, you know?
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17/f
Alright, first, i am sorry if this is really long but i have a lot to say. Okay, well i like this guy and he "supposedly" liked me. All my friends say he does. Also, he knows i like him. (we "talked" for a week over the summer.) Anyways, tonight i went to a party and he was tickling me and hugging me and picking me up...etc. Well, all my friends (which is a lot) told me they think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and he even told my friend he liked me. At the end of the party, my friend asked him if he liked me and he winked at her and came up to me and gave me a really big hug. He was like "I'll see ya later, bye!" Then, after the party my friend told him that i really liked him and he told her not to tell me but he was "talking" to someone else I mean, i even admit, he was flirting with me at the party and then he just tells my friend right after that he likes someone else and not to tell me. He kept saying to her "Don't say anything, i don't want her to know." I don't get it, i mean he told my friend he liked me a week ago and was flirting at the pary and now he is "talking" to someone else.
I really don't think he is a player. He really is a nice sweet sensitive guy and he dosen't have a "bad" reputation. I am so confused! He is always really nice to me and everything. I mean, all my friends were telling me that they hear he likes me. My questions are,
1. Why is he doing this?
2. Does he like me and the other girl or just her?
3. What do you think?
4. What do i do and how do i act around him now?
5. Should i still flirt or should i lay off?
Thanks!
To be quite honest, I really think this is something you're going to have to find out from him on your own. Maybe you could come up with the courage to ask him on a little one on one date, and if all goes well, at the end you could ask him how he feels about you.
He's probably acting this way because he is afraid of rushing into something like a relationship, and is using the girl as an excuse to stay away from the opportunity as much as he can. But the only real way to find out is to ask him.
Don't let this mess you up. Keep laying hints to him that you're interested, because there might still be a chance.
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