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ok..so i've been going out with this guy for a few weeks, and he's a really great guy and all..and all of his friends say that he's crazy about me. but i dont think i exactly feel the same for him. he seems more on the friendish side. i dont want to lead him on or anything, but i dont want to hurt him. i also dont want all of his friends to hate me.what do i do?!
-helpless (link)
Uhmmm...Talk to him..and tell him how you feel, if you really consider him as a friend more than a boyfriend, then it would be better to break it off before he becomes like...madly in love with you. And explain to his friends what the deal is, and talk to them about it too! I hope I helped you, Good Luck!
-Lynz-


Aight well look i really like this girl ut she likes sum1 ese but she dosnt want to admit it and that guy loves her to death. She says she dosnt want to get hurt or hurt him. Well see thats all fine and dandy, but when i first asked her out was a while ago (like near christmas) she said ya that would be awsome, but she turned me down because she just broke up with my friend. Then i ask her out and she had a boyfriend. Now i tell her i like her and she says she likes me but why wolnt she date me instead of him?

sighned-- Antsplague (link)
Hmm...Maybe you should talk to her, tell her how you feel and let her know that you care for her. If she still turns you down, maybe she's not the right one for you. But keep trying, she mite have a place for you in her heart! I hope I helped, and dont give up!
-Lynz-


Umm...I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and he says I am controlling him, but I don't really think I am the one controlling him...if anything he is controlling...but I can live with it...how do I know that I am being to controlling or how do I loosing up and let him have his freedom(if he needs it)...I mean when I look in the direction of a guy he thinks I have fucked him...what should I do...I really love him and would do anything for our relationship. (link)
If he indeed needs his freedom, maybe you two should spend some time apart. Sometimes too much time is bad, you tend to annoy eachother and need your space. To maybe not control so much, on a friday night, when he is watching tv, or playing video games, or hanging with his buds...Go out and spend some time with your friends, dont insist that he spend all his time with you, he's a guy, and needs to be "macho" and to a guy, hanging out with your girlfriend all the time, isnt exactly the coolest thing! And when he thinks you are cheating on him, he is probably scared to lose you. But I hope I answered your question, and good luck!


If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
Yes, Personally, I would not have sex until I was out of all the schooling, because I have way too many goals for me to screw up now, from diseases, and pregnancy! But If they feel that It is the right person, then it is ok, as long as they use protection!


um... my boyfriend we have been dating for uh 2 months.. and thats durign the summer ... im afraid when we get back to school in like 5 days hes gonna think im flirting w/ other guys... but the thing is IM SO IN LOVE W/ HIM... i mean we r like perfect for each other...and what am is supposed to do stay away from my guy friends.. cuz iono..i love him to death and if i lose him iono i think i might die...ya noe?
(link)
I'm positive you wont die! but, it may feel like you want to. Assure him that you wouldnt cheat on him, and maybe pay a little more attention to him during school, and not as much to your friends...maybe he'll see that you love him as much as you do and that you wouldnt cheat on him, if he suspects that you're cheating on him. Tell him the truth, if he doesnt believe you, I guess he isnt the one because a relationship is BASED on trust, and if you dont have trust, you have nothing. I hope you and your boyfriend have a happy relationship & that everything is ok when school comes around!
-Lynz-


i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
It is possible, when you're pregnant, sometimes you have "spotting" which is a very light period. I would get a home pregnancy test, I reccomend EPT, for the best results.


OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia) (link)
Tell him that you dont like him like that and to give you some space, if you dont want him to talk to people, dont have him over...plain and simple!


it's the summer holidays and i haven't seen my bf since the start of them (nearly 2 weeks ago) He's been away every time i try to get together with him and our holidays are at different times so we wont see each other that much at all. I tried calling him and he said he'd call back but he didn't. I've hardly spoken to him at all. He isn't making any effort to see or talk to me. do you think he's gone off me? he said he'd never dump me and that he loves me but i'm not too sure. what should i do? (link)
If it was me, I would call it over...If he says he'll call you, and he doesnt, that either means he doesnt want to, or he has short term memory and forgets. If he's not making an effort to be with you, then he's not making an effort to have a relationship with you. He said he'd never dump you, and that he loves you...yall are young and i doubt he's in love if he never calls you...call him, get to talk to him about it, and find your answer




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