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I'm talking to a guy named Josh and we've been talking for about 2 weeks. During the last two weeks,we've texted a lot and hungout 4-5 times and kissed and held hands and all that.The last couple of days,he's been saying he will call me to hangout later.Yet he never did ,but then texted me apologizing for not being able to.We texted a few times and then he just stopped.Today at school,he told me he got in trouble with his parents and they might drug test him or something after school this day .He walked me to my locker,sat with me and my friends at lunch,kissed me before two different classes,put his arm around me,etc. today and told me he would call me later if he could chill.He hasn't called or texted ....I was thinking maybe his mom drug tested him and he got in trouble? or I don't know why he isn't texting me! Am I just overthinking? I guess im expecting so much and we've only been talking for 2 weeks. Help! (link)
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Hi Writer,
You are definitely speeding things up a bit. Give him a little time, I'm sure he has good reasons for his actions. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If he proves to be worth it, you'll know you made the right choice; if he shows you otherwise, take it as a lesson well learned. Just remember in the future, near or far, to pace yourself. Good luck. :)
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hiya...i have been single 4 1 month after being with my ex boyfriend 4 4 and a half years...it wasnt a perticular good relationship and it should of ended sooner..when we broke up i think i kind of craved male attention as i didnt get this from my ex and i slept with 2 or 3 people..however i met this new people when i was out in clubs and that...im just a bit worried now cos every guy i have met is just after sex? im not saying i want a relationship cos its way too soon..but im worried that these guys are all the same and i wont find anybody who i really like..and the nice guys who seem interested in gettin to know me who arent after sex im just not attracted too? i dont know if i wil ever find the right person 4 me? im 20 (link)
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Dear Writer,
I understand how you feel, but know that all attention isn't good attention. Guys can spot an easy and/or naive girl out from a mile away. You can't go looking for love, let it find you. At your age, I doubt it very seriously that you'll find love in a club. All you have to do is be patient, and the right man will come along! In the meantime, be more selective about the company (men) you keep. You're still young, so enjoy your youth; all those other things will come in due time. :)
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Hi,
I am in a relationship I am quite unsure about. I am from Canada. First off, I met this guy last September 2008, now it is 2009.I go to school in another city, and he goes to school and lives in my home town.Currently I am living in the school town for university, Last December, I saw him once and he told me he had to deal with a friend dying. Now, I find a picture of him on New year's eve hugging a girl who he says is his best friend. However, in the picture it looks like they are a couple. What is going on here?Is there a difference with a female best friend and a girlfriend? I am 21 years old too. (link)
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Hi writer,
He most definitely is a player, but not a professional one. He's young, you're young, so the distance will play a major role. I'm sure he likes you, but I wouldn't count on getting too serious about this relationship anytime soon. He's going to have many more lies sell you, if you're interested in buying them. I would recommend focusing on school, and seeing what happens after that. If it is meant to be, then it will. TTYL :)
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i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at me. i don't remember being a brat or a bitch about anything to being mean at all. and the last time i talked to him was on new years eve when he told me we couldnt hang out that night. i was a little disappointed because he had invited me over when there was a possibility that he'd have other plans, which i thought was rude. isn't it? or was i the one out of line? anyways, we didnt fight about it, i just told him "whatever, i'll talk to you later" he said bye, and i hung up. and now he won't talk to me.
can someone give me any ideas on what to do/say/think/believe/wait for? thanks again, and if anyone answered my question before, thanks so much, but i hope you won't mind answering again ^.^ (link)
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Dear Writer,
This story sounds all to familiar to me. Trust me when I tell you, it's nothing you've done, so stop stressing over endless possibilities. It sounds like he may have found someone else. They probably have had something going on for a while, but he wasn't sure exactly who he wanted. There were probably signs that you overlooked, or didn't want to confront. When you stop doing things together on holidays, that's a sure sign. If you've tried to contact him, and got no response, take that as a sign. It may be time for you to move forward. I know you may be hurting now, but time heals all wounds. Just keep busy, hang out w/ friends, and enjoy life. Love will come again, you deserve better anyway! Hope that helps. TTYL :)
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