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hey guys whats up!? I'm a cheerleader at Knox Junior High and at Woodlands Elite Cheer Company! I'm DeFfEnItLy single! haha anyways...feel free to ask me a question...cuz i gotta answer! I live in TeXaS! (the best state [in my eyes] ever!) yes yes!!* I

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ok so heres my problem- i went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we only went out for like 2 months but i'm still not over him! im so in love with him! but i also think i'm in love with my best friend(hes a guy). we are soo close but i really think i love him. but my other best friend(whos a girl) also likes him a TON! but he deosn't like her.she doesn't know i like him but i'm just so confused with what to do. cause a lot of people say he likes me but i dont wanna be mean and go out with him. so i really have no idea what to do! help me PLEASE!

ok first of all...don't go doing something to break ya'lls friendship up UNTIL AFTER you know he likes you...! That would suck! ok and second of all... if this girl is your best friend...i think she would want what is BEST for YOU...if you two like eachother...she should respect that...i know i would! It's happened to me before... i mean...yeah she likes him and you like him too but that won't change who HE likes! Just make sure you tell your girl best friend before you try hooking up with this guy! She'll probably understand & if she doesn't than don't freak out...i mean you would probably be upset too if it happened just tell her that if he liked her...YOU would want THEM going out...so they could BOTH be happy!

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

*Marissa*

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I went with this boy name slim thug (nick name) he goes to my school right and I told him last tues that our relationship was boring and that he probaly F***** around with some other gurl, so we broke up. while we was together slim and me i was real coo with my friend ex-boyfriend, they both go to my school also but my friend broke up with him like in September and said she was all coo and didn't really like him, and don't care if he go wit another female so as soon as me and my man broke up her ho a** gon go with my man so u know i was all coo cause personally I don't believe in dat friends ex-boyfriends are off limits im gon like who im gon like and so on, but when me and her ex-boyfriend got together she started trippin and I didn't even jump into a relationship wit him quick,like she did wit my man and I said nodda wheh she did. Do u think Im bogous?

heck no, you're SOOO not bogous! Your friend obviously is a hypocrite! She can't do worse to you in the same situation and then you do the same thing...(but slowly get in2 that relationship) If anyone...YOU should be mad, not your friend who's freaking out!

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

*Marissa*

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me and my boyfriend just broke up and i really cared for him and he wants to be friends and i am but i know what i did was wrong and i hurts so bad and i just cant get over him no matter what i just dont know i mean yeah i understand why we broke up and everything but it is just really hard even though we lasted 2 months and i just want to know how can i get over my feelings for him even though we are friends and stuff like that? it feels so weird not to meet him after class and i am so use to him walking with me but pllz help me really what can i do to get over him?

hey girl! look, everyone goes through what your in right now! Of course it will hurt you! It may last for a while, it may not! If you're trying to not EVEN think about him then just don't talk about him AT ALL and Hang out with your friends rather than thinking about him, Friends will always make you feel better. If your trying to hang out and stuff just tell your friends how you feel about him. I'm sure they can give you tips as well! Sooner or later you will get over it, it may take time though. Try not to talk to him as much until you FULLY get over him. If he asks why you arn't just tell him. He will understand what you're going through.

*!* I HoPe It AlL wOrKs OuT 4 YoU*!*

-*Marissa*-

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well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
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Maybe she felt like you were spending too much time with him instead of her, and that shes jelous. I've been through the same stuff that your friend has. Don't drop either of them! You should love both of them. Just make sure to spend time with both of them about the same amount of time and tell her that you're not breaking up with him... and you don't want this to ruin you guys friendship. If she's truely your BEST friend, she will realize that a guy is NOT something that can get between your friendship. Just make sure you're there for her when she needs you, and not your bf.

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

-*Marissa*-

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well where do i start? im going out with this boy right,(let call him sam) anyway. and of course im atracted to him. but we sed that we were going to try and have an open relationship to bring us closer because weve done everything with each other and he suggested that if we got with other people then it would make us appreciate each other more. and so far its working. we dont share what we have done but we tell each other that we are doing it. so far it working. when we het back together its amazing (just thinking about it and im short of breath if you know what i mean? lol!) nyway ppl found out about it and keep telling us that we dont care bout each other and that its disgusting. we have tried explaining but no-one else seems to understand. what do you think? is it right?

I think that it's a great way to show how much you care for eachother...maybe at the time ya'll were growing apart and BOTH felt you needed to get closer, but in a way of... getting further apart! It WILL show both of you that you miss eachother too much to be away from eachother!

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

-*Marissa*-

P.S.- just make sure it doesn't go TOO far that what you do with other people will break you APART!*

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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!

It's ok! s go through things like this all the time! Just think of it this way... You can stay with him and keep feeling the way you do now, or break up with him! Would you still think the same about him if you broke up with him? Or would you want him more than now? Just think of those questions before you do anything you MAY regret! If breaking up with him is the thing YOU feel is best, I hope you do and don't just stay with him for him!

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

-*Marissa*-

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I used to date this boy(we'll call him john doe) for two months. Everyone at school told me a lot of bad things about him. Stuff about how he cheats on his gurlfriends and stuff. I talked to him to get to know him for about 2 weeks. I was straight up w/ him and told him that I wasnt sure if we should hook up b/c of all the things i had heard about him. He told me that they we're true & he did used to do those things, but he really did changed. He told me that it pisses him off when people say that about him b/c a lot of gurls wont date him b/c of it. He's the guy that all the gurls wanna date and he said that they're just jealous b/c he dont want them. Well I started hearing stuff about him the first day we started goin out, but I didnt believe it b/c I trusted him. He seemed really ginuwine when he told me all that stuff about him. 1 month after we got together I was in the hall w/ one of my friends. She was talking to one of her friends that I didnt know at the time. Me and her b/c kool and around lunch she wrote me a note saying I think you're a really kool gurl and I cant tell you love " John Doe " and I know ou would never cheat on him. but he having sex w/ a gurl at school( we'll call her jane doe). I called him cussing and yelling at him for about two hours. He swore to me it wasn't true. I didnt really believe him and he knew it, I told him I was going to trust that he wouldnt do that to me and I let him know that it does make me look at him differently now. Things got worse after that b/c the gurls knew they had got to me and they had me not believing him now. We'd been together for exactly two months when everyone told me that he was going around telling people we didnt go together. Everyone, well a lot of gurls & my friends, told me that he said that, or had heard someone telling people he said that. The whole school was talking about it, so I just assumed it was true. He tried talking to me, but I just ignored him. He asked one of my friends what was wrong and they told him that I said we didnt go together anymore & I did tell her that b/c of what I had heard. He stopped coming to school and went off to job-core. He started dating someone else that went to my school. He came back to huntsville but didnt come back to school. I called him on his birthday to tell him happy b-day & he was surprised that I called him. We talked for a while and we continued to talk. He still goes w/ that other girl, but he says he wants to go back out & that he's gonna break up w/ her. He said that he never said he didnt go w/ me & he tried talking to me, but I wouldnt listen to him. Do you think what everyone says is true or do you think he's telling the truth?

Look, rumors go around and that is all i can say! If this guy is STILL looking up to getting back with you, it shows he REALLY cares about you! He's trying to make it up to you in a way that you won't listen to the other people, even if they ARE your friends, and for you to trust HIM! You never know, a who absolutely was in LOVE with this guy could have made up the whole thing so it COULD get around to you. Remember, some s are bitches and would do ANYTHING to get something they want and in your case, "John Doe!" hehe!

*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*

-*Marissa*-

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I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?

Maybe you should tell him, but in a way that he knows that you love him more than anything and would never ditch him for a girl or another guy! It's ok a lot of girls go through it! Don't be scared and if he doesn't understand then...he's not someone that deserves you as a boyfriend!
*I HoPe I HeLpEd!*
-*Marissa*-

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Alright, so there's this guy in my class, that I really really like. I've liked him for a while now, but I've always been too afraid to say anything to him.
The other day in class, kids from other classes were passing around questionaires for data and whatnot. Well, one of them was about sexuality. My friend had told me that she figured he was gay, because, he's got great style, he's got a gentle voice, he's an amazing artist, (I know, I'm stereo typing), and he's just interesting and whatnot. So, I was watching him as he filled the survey out, because I was kinda curious. The first part of the survey was like this:
"What's your sexuality?"
a)Straight
b)Homosexual
c)Bisexual

If you answered a, then continue on to questions 2-10. If you answered b or c, then continue on to 11-16.

11 and 16 were on the back, and he filled it out on the back. I have no problem with him being gay, but it's just that I always seem to fall for gay boys, and it feels like I'll never find a cool, straight, guy.

I personally wouldn't want to date someone who's bisexual, not because I have anything against bisexuals (a couple of my close friends are) but it would be weird dating one, because it's bad enough thinking that a guys comparing you to other girls, but to other guys? That would just be uncomfortable.

Am I being stupid? Should I just forget about him? I really would just like being friends with him, but it's impossible to talk to him because he's so shy. Please help.

No! Of CoUrSe NoT! Your are So0o0o0o0o NoT BeInG StUpId! i would act the same way! maybe you should make sure that hes the way u think he is! i mean...it could just be a mistake...!
Good Luck!

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hey can anyone help me? i am 13/f there is this guy at my school who i really like and think he is totally hot and cute and sweet and nice. he is all i think about and i am always talking about him to my friends. but the problem is he ignores me and is annoyed by me but i really just wanna be friends right now but he won't even talk to me anymore!!!! can anyone tell me how to get his attention? i need some help!!!! thanks so much!!!!
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HEY! ok if i were u...i would just straight out ask him why hes annoyed with you! i mean...if you havnt done anything but like him...than y should he be doing this to u?!?!?!

*just remember: a lot of guys r jerks...be careful what you say!

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