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Every time I am in the company of boys my age, 15/16 years old, they never approach me. I am 5ft 9in, have long blonde hair and know that I'm a nice person, and I can say that I am attractive. I don't understand why boys my own age NEVER approach me; I can talk to anyone, whether they're 8 years old or 80 years old. What puzzles me is that boys of 20+ always approach me and chat me up, and I am able to hold a conversation easily. I am not self centred, or stuck up; I am simply confident. It has come to the point where whenever I'm out, or at a party, boys just avoid speaking to me. What do you think is the reason for this? I am so perplexed... (link)
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The reason older guys come and talk to you is probably because you look older. Also, a reason guys your age may avoid talking to you is because maybe they are intimidated by you. If you look older, they also may think you are older too. But, it is not necessarily a bad thing. This could mean these boys think you are cute and they would like to talk to you but like i said, are intimidated. Just go talk to them. :) hope this helped! please feedback. :)
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Ok, so I'm taking the guy that I like to a dance in February. I really like this guy and I'm seriously considering kissing him. Should I wait, or should I make the move? If you have anything that's related to my question, please tell me. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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you should wait. Some guys take a girl to a dance but to them it doesn't mean too much. Keep texting him and start talking to him and find out if he really likes you. once you have given him a hug and all this and that and you have been talking for a while, when you feel the time is right to kiss him and you are like sitting beside him, look at his lips. if he sees you doing it then he will probably get that you want him to kiss you. look at his lips then to his eyes, give him a soft smile and wait for him to lean in :) hope this helped girll
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I'm 16/f he's 17/m
I'm talking to this guy Javier he just got back from his trip from Guatemala. He's also working as a handy man in this community outing thing tommorow. And we wante to see each other again there. I kinda wanna seduce him to a point to get him to leave. Note this is a public event , I want it to be sublte. Thankss. (: (link)
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Make eye contact a lot! smile for the first 3 or 4 times. then start giving him flirty eyes and flirty looks. i am sure you know what those are :). Next...when you talk to him...twirl your hair a bit. Not over exaggerating it but you know. this is ONLY IF YOU WANT TO!....sit down if you can...maybe on a table...but not all the way. be like half on the table half on. bend your torso down so 'your breasts' are able to be looked at! put your elbow on your leg so it looks like that is where you are resting. hah. if you don`t want to to that far. sit down half on half off a table and put your hand on your leg. if he sees you do it...look down at your hand and back to him then smile! *flirty eyes* :)
also, what to wear: if it is hot outside...go for the cut off jeans look. as in cut off into short shorts. not so that your but is hanging out...but yeah. please let me know if this helped!!!! feedack!
thanks girl
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So i had this dream about my ex-boyfriend and it was about me being in the hospitol and long story short about that part is my parents kick me out and i go and live with him.(i am only 13 and the same age in my dream) So basically im living with him in my dream and then my dream skips to us being in 10th grade so we can drive and then one night we "did it" and then a week later i missed my period and soo he bought all these pregnecy tests and then one minute later when the tests would show weather i was pregnent or not i woke up. So my question is what does my dream mean or does it mean anything at all ? Thank you :)
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it could mean that you still have feelings for him. you k=may still like him a lot, or maybe you are just physically attracted to him and you would want to "do it" some time with him. or your body may be telling you DONT HAVE SEX. have you recently watched a tv show or movie about a girl getting [regnant as a teen? your brain may still be thinking about it if so. and maybe it was just a harmess hormone driven dream :) haha, well i hoped this helped! please feedback. thanks girl
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how could i get my boyfriend to get hard and then start to make out ith me? (link)
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If you are makin out touch his boy while you do it. If want him to makeout with you then sit beside him and put your hand on his knee and start going up his thigh then go back down. Do this alittle while and he will start to get hard, then start kissing his neck or snuggling and rubbing his chest. Hope this helps!
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Hello , so okay i'm so scared , I told him before I didn't want anything to do with a blowjob or sex right ? so okay we hung out and so , he started to undress me , and he later wanted a blowjob so what else... I went down on him okay and he cummed in my mouth but he was feeling his thing at the same time and later he used that same hand to go up me and im so scared and later I was on his shaft bare but wasn't on his head where it was cumming I kept saying no and then by accident he just touched and it wasnt cum .. but when I got home I put my finger up and seen clear liquidy with white stuff in it , pregant please help me
thank you ,
betty (link)
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its ok, if he had his sperm on his fingers and he fingered you, yes you could be pregnant. by the way this sounds, your not. but the white clear liquidy stuff that you saw in you was most likely your own cum. you got sexually excited so u wet yourself by cumming. it is natural. just wait and see if your period comes late or not. i have had this scare and my period was two days late. i got so scared so i got a pregnancy test and it said negative. i still wasnt sure because my period was late, i also knew if you take a pregnancy test too soon then it will say negative or positive without accuracy. so i waited for my period to come. it didnt. it had been 5 days. my period was 5 days late! i thought i was pregnant so i went to the doctor. he said that the reason my period was late was because of my anxisity with the whole pergancy thing. i had gotten so worried that i might be pregnant my body statred to act like i was so my period came late. the next day i got my period! so its okay, just hold it out. if you feel like you are pregnant, go to the doctor. if you take a pregnancy test only a week after this happens, then it wont be accurate most likely. so either wait until your period comes, (so you know you cant be pregnant) get a pregnancy test two weeks after this happened, or go to the doctor if you really want to know. most importantly, dont worry about it. try to foget the fact you may be pregnant. if you do, you will feel so much better about the whole situation. hope this helped! :) please feedback! :)
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19/f
Okay so this guy from school I graduated high school with texted me like 6 months ago (we never talked in school) we talked on the phone and texted each other almost everyday when we hung out that one time he told me to call him when i got home so i got home safe which i thought was cute and didnt even try to kiss me or anything i just hugged him then we texted each other then it got to every 2 or 3 days we talked then we just stopped talking nothing happened bad or anything we just stopped talking well 6 months later he texts me out of the blue and says hey long time no talk that was two days ago first day we talked the whole day the second day he told me to text him but he texted me first right away instead and we talked all day then he asked if we could meet up in the middle of the night but I had work early the next day so i couldnt then he texted me the next day all day and said i could meet at his house the was drinking and i didnt want our second time hanging out to be with him drinking you know and let alone by ourselves ( he had the house to himself all weekend) but i said i couldnt come over but since the next day was 4th of july we could go in the city and see the fireworks and he didnt answer me until the next day at like 3 to say when im going down then he said he couldnt get down there he wqas working and couldnt go he said he was sorry but after we could meet up like around midnight but i was stuck in traffic in the city so i didnt get home until 1 in the morning then yesterday he didnt text me until the afternoon saying sorry i lost my phone i said its okay then he sid hows work i said fine you and he never answered me back now today i havent heard from him so i dont know if he thinks hes texted me too much or hes tired of trying to hang out or thinks im annoyed by him the thing is i dont answer texts back until like a hour or 2 after they text me its nothing personal all my friends and family know i dont get back to them right away i know im weird lol i wanted to hang out with him tomorrow possibly but im scared to text him..should i text him?
Sorry i sound so paranoid its just guys never want me as a girlfriend im always like the "make out" person so i always become catious when i like a guy because i dont want to get hurt I protect my heart. But this guy has a record of having long term relationships so i feel like something could happen here and maybe my luck will change i mean there is a reason why he thought to text me after all these months not talking right? lol sorry this is so long. But what should i do? should i text him to hang out tomorrow? should i wait for him to text me? im so confused! why do you think he contacted me? thanks so much! :) (link)
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Ok so it sounds to me that you like him too. ;) it also sounds like he likes you because he txted you after 6 months and I think you are right wen you said he would have to have a reason! :) haha ok so I would say yes, text him. Just be like hey at first and my guess is he will text you back. Once he has... Be like I was wondering if you wanted to hang out today or tomarrow? That way he has a before notice and he can clear his schedule for the next day or for the day you text him. He will be able to hang out probably so yes... Text him! :) It also sounds like the reason he contacted you was indeed because he likes you or has a thng for you. He would if you talked all day for two or three days! And if he all the sudden texts you after 6 months of not texting. :) hope this helped!!!! If you need anything else or just want to talk inbox me! And let me know how it worked out!! :D
~Kaiya
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ok me and my girl friend have been together for a pretty good while now and i love her more than anything she means the world to me i really cant imagine life without her and she says that she loves me to and i can really tell because of the way she acts and she is really sweet, but the thing is she has sorda low self-esteem and she feels like she is ugly and that i can do alot better than her and she dont see how i can love someone like her as much as i do. How can i make her look at things differently? (link)
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ALWAYS complement her! Thats what girls like. The reason alot of girls do this or say things like "im not pretty! or im not good enough for you! or i hate my clothes or haircut!" is because they want YOU to tell them "no you are beautiful" or "dont say that, you and i both know you are the right one for me!" try these things out. In shorter terms, she want you to disagree with her and it reminds her she is the one for you and you wouldnt cheat her or disrespect her. I'm a girl and i personally have done this b4! (: Just trust me!!!! :))) hope this helped!!!!! and good luck :)
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