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My ex is talkinto me alot i ask her if she loves me she says yes and she says she is going to break up with her boyfriend for me and of course i love her and i wanna be with her but she is leaving him for me and because hes a jerk and i dont want her to get hurt bye me i love her to much pleae help me!!! (link)
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If/when your ex breaks up with her current boyfriend the best thing you could do is take it slow. Hang out be friends for a little while and don't let yourself become the rebound. Take time to get to know each other again. Talk about why you broke up in the first place and try to figure out how this time will or won't be different. Jumping into it because you've already dated is a bad reason and if you really love each other give it time to grow some more. Don't let her rush you into this because she needs time to get over whatever went wrong with the last relationship.
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Okay, me & my crush Kyle are good friends but recently I learned he's a player like 22nd I think he said to me "I 'like' alot of girls here." we were at are groups normal bowling day. After he said that he completely ignored me. Something else he said was "Guys think girls are cute when they mess-up, exspealiy when they like the guy." Uhg... He's a shy, player though... He acts like it, but I fear if he does am I just another girl or what? He's (almost) 15, shy, tall, blonde, smart & a player.
I'm 15/ female, shy, averge hieght, brunette(dyed red) & hardly crush.
Help would be awsome it's bad enough my enemy T is flirting with him. -_-'
Help? Please, I'm beggin.
-Sakura Kaori (link)
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Usually players look at girls as conquest. The more they score the better they feel about themselves. It's a game to them get as many as they can. Some like a challenge some like it to be kinda easy. However too easey isn't usually preferd. The also like to have girls fight over them and sometimes egg it on a little. So if he knows you like him that could explain why he is treating you like he is. I would say don't waste your time on him and I do know that it is easer said than done. Try not to yourself think that he would be different with you. That he'll forget those other girls if he would just give you a chance. Find something else to think about when you start thinking about him. Girlfriends that will help you not to think about him are your strongest deffence. If possible find a girl or two that do not like him in that way.
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The guy I'm in love with just wants me for sex. How do I get over him? I have to see him everyday.. (link)
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Find some good girlfreinds they are the best medicine for getting over guys. When you see him and all those old feelings come back they will be there to talk you through it and remind you of what he was really like.
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So I've known my friend Chris for almost 5 years now and we've become pretty much best friends. But I've been in love with him since I met him.. And I know he feels the same, but he won't do anything about it. Like we'll be driving in his car to get our friends, and he'll just reach over and grab my hand like it's no big deal but as soon as our friends get in the car, he lets go. Do you think he could be embarrassed of me or something? Because when we're alone, he's lovey dovey and huggy and acts like he wants to be with me but then around friends and at school most of the time he's totally different. Should I pursue something with him or let it go cuz it'll never happen? Please help me! :/ (link)
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Ask him what his deal is. What does he want from you freinds or relationship? Tell him he is sending you mixed signals and you aren't sure what it is he wants. If you aren't comfortable bringing it up maybe you shouldn't worry about it so much. You can spend your time stressing over what he is thinking or you can not worry about it and maybe a different guy will come along who isn't so confusing. I'm not saying that it won't happen but what if it dosen't and you feel like you've wasted you time waiting for him?
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ok i'm 18 and he's 19, we dated for two years and really loved each other a lot. we'd never felt that way about anyone before, were completely in love, even talked about getting engaged and married and everything. well, we had some problems, and between those and the stress in each of our own lives, we broke up a few weeks ago. he said then and now that he still wants to get back with me in the future and still wants to marry me, but he just needs some time to himself right now. at first, yeah i was really torn up and so hurt and felt like everything was my fault and all i wanted was him back. but after about a week, i've been pretty much fine. it's weird not having him around and having someone always there, but i'm not upset anymore. i dont think i'll ever find anyone else like him and that kind of hurts, and after all the trouble i dont even really think it's worth it to get back together, but why am i not hurting? for being together nearly two years, i thought it would take me months to get over him, so why was it like a week? seriously what's going on? usually i'm the type that does take a long time to get over someone, so why is it different with my first & true love? i really don't hurt anymore, i dont even know if i want him back.. i didn't expect that? i know i loved him... so what the heck? is this weird? i'm not in denial or avoiding the subject or anything, so i'm really confused. (link)
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You shouldn't stress about why you aren't morning him like you thought. You say that he was your first and true love? What if he is only ment to be your first but not your last? Maybe you have grown appart and want different things. He says he still wants to marry you and maybe someday he will. Today how ever you should let him know how you feel, that way he won't try and say you were leading him on, and focus on the things in your life that need your attention now.
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please don't go on about how im such a terrible person because i already know :( so the other night i went to a party with my friend and she left me alone to go hook up with some guy..i didn't know anyone at the party so i just started talking to this guy, i thought he was really nice but i didn't want anything more than to talk to him and be friends. i got a little crazy and ended up alone with him and he stuck his tongue in my mouth (wanting to makeout)and i pushed him away right away and said no. (the horrible thing is i let him kiss me because the only guy i ever kissed was my current boyfriend and not gonna lie i was kinda curious to see what another guy ksses like...i know, COMPLETE MISTAKE on my part) i'm absolutely completely in love with my boyfriend of 8 months and i would never ever ever want to be without him...would you consider this cheating? and what should i do? like this guy says he sees me at school and i don't want it to be awkward? and i wanna be friends with him, im a really friendly person, i just don't want anything more because i love my boyfriend so much. any advice? thanks so much. (link)
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I have to disagree with you, you are not a terrible person. You did make a mistake, and yes I would say that kissing someone else is cheating, but that dose not make you a terrible person. Now comes the question are you women enough to admitt that you were wrong? Not telling your boyfriend is the easy way out and he may never find out. However you will always know. Also what will happen if he does find out for some one else? You know that it was a mistake and you know that you love him and you know how he feels about you. In order to make your relationship the strongest it can be you need to have trust. He needs to know that you will always tell him when things go wrong. He needs to know how sorry you are. Tell him what happened, everything and ask if he can see himself staying with you. If he can't atleat you were honest with him because he deserves it.
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