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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks (link)
i think if you are really inlove and you are ready to expiernce sex with the love of your life then go ahead. but just remember your girlfriend is right you cant take back your first time so think about it and know for sure that you are ready! Also remember "wrap it before you tap it!" lol! :D



My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =) (link)
just be the woman he fell in love with be yourself... that will make it perfect enough


I apologize in advance because this is going to be pretty long. I'm a sixteen year old girl and I've been single my entire life up until now. I met this great guy at work, and we both liked each other. Our first date was absolutely perfect. It was more of a date to make things official seeing as we already knew a lot about each other. He gave me a red rose, we held hands in the mall, cuddled in the movies, and he kissed me goodnight in the rain. It was perfect. With this being my first relationship ever, I'm freaking out. I know you're not supposed to kiss on the first date, and I wasn't exactly ready for it either. I know that in a relationship, a guy is going to want something "more" than what I'm willing to give. My morals are that I don't want to go past kissing wiht a guy until I'm married. I'm not ready for anything sexual...I'm only 16! Everyone has told me that before you love someone else, you have to love yourself. That could be an issue with me, since I'm full of self-loathing and I have no self-esteem. I can't understand how a guy would pick me in the first place. My internal conflicts are seriously creating a huge dilemma for me and I don't know what to do anymore. This guy made me so happy at first. I could not stop talking about him and I was so happy for once in my life. But now that things are moving faster, I'm freaking out and instead of smiling all the time, I cry. I don't want to give up something like this...what I've longed for my entire life. At the same time, I can't just ignore my issues. I need help. Please tell me what to do. :'( Thank you so much. (link)
keep the relationship at the pace you want it to go.. your in control of your feelings in the relationship just because you really like this guy doesnt mean that you have to put aside your feelings in order to make him happy, make your self happy do what YOU want to do not what he wants you to do.


is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this) (link)
yes its possible just as possible if you werent wearing glasses, but wearing glasses doesnt disadvantage you at all :D




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