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ok so my friend is 12 (im 13 we're like 3 months apart) and today she was going on about how this boy, lets call him O and her D, wants to have sex with her. you know what? here's the REAL conversation.
D:omg O wants to have sex with me!!
me: but eww you guys r too young and noones gonna sell condoms to you guys!
D: O has pulls, duh.
me: no D its a really bad idea youll be known as a slut.
D: WHO CARES ive liked him for 5 yrs.
me: so? you arent even dating him!!!!
D:what ever you dont get it.
me: yeah i do.
D: at least ive had a one night stand.
i havent replied to her yet but i dont want her to screw up :( i want to email it to her parents soo bad but i dont know what to do. and i really want to reply, THATS NOT A GOOD THING. i think you are screwing up your life and i swear ,D if you do have sex i think ill just breakdown because i just cant deal with the fact that one of my friendds has had sex 1. because your gonna screw up your reputaion and your gonna get in trouble for sure.
2.i cant let you. (link)
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wow wish i had a friend like you well if i were you i would talk to her one more time and convince her thats its a bad idea. if she doesnt listen then tell her parents she might not want to talk to you anymore but trust me she will. she ll still be your friend she is just going through a phase.
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(I'm sorry, this is going to be long...but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it)
I let myself develop deep, deep feelings for someone...who already has a girlfriend...normally it would have been , "Oh well, he's taken. Next!" but not this time. This time, my feelings took over me. Whether or not I was going to try to break them up was never an issue, and still isn't. That's not who I am, and I will never attempt such a selfish act. So, I told him how I felt, but also told him that I'm not looking to sabotage anything and then we continued to be his friend as usual...
But here's where it gets a little trickier...I'm very, very sure that he has strong feelings for me too. And I'm not saying this because of how I feel for him. There are definite signs. (before I go on, I want to say that I have NOT 'thrown myself' at him or anything like that...in fact, I have told him again and again that I want him and his girlfriend to remain together) He wants to spend a lot of time with me, he's always texting me, sometimes late into the night, he is playful, flirtatious and subtly touchy feely with me, (not like "groping" or anything) and tons of other basic "he likes you" signs...plus, he has dropped several hints that his relationship has been on the rocks and that he is unsure of how it will go...he has said that he loves his girlfriend, but has never once mentioned that he is *IN* love with her...now I'm not saying that automatically means that he's not in love with her, it's just a possibility is all...but there are just so many possibilities right now, and it's been emotionally draining...and believe me, it's not like I haven't tried to look for other men, and I've definitely kept my options open, but it's pretty slim pickin's where I live...that's not me being picky, either, it's just how it's been luck-wise...the man I currently have feelings for is quite rare, in that we have so much in common, and the fact that he is a good person.
I have such a strong, strong connection with this man, and he has even agreed with me on that. Now, I know a very easy answer to this for some people might be, "he's a player" blah blah blah...but I don't believe that is the case...again, another easy answer from me because of my feelings for him. We've known each other for quite awhile, and he is a very, very caring, compassionate person, and he has never once made an actual "move" on me...he's just not the 'cheating type'...I think if that is all he wanted, or if he were the type to "cheat", he would have tried to do it with me by now.
I'm so confused and emotionally exhausted...There's part of me that wants more with him so very badly, then there's another part that feels guilty and selfish for doing so, because I don't want anyone to get hurt in any of this...so what am I asking in all of this? I don't know...I suppose part of me is venting and just wanting someone to listen...
I do ask that people be kind in answering...I'm NOT looking to be coddled or have sugar-coated answers, but please, no mean, smart-ass remarks or unnecessary pessimism.
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its going to be hard because the more you talk with him the harder it'll be to stop thinking about him the more he is in your head the more stressful you'll be.what I would do is take a break from each other just to relax for a while. if they ever end up breaking up because you love him then things will only be awkward between you and him trust me this happened to me before and my relationship with her was well awkward she knew it too
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i was born with a penis and ive never had a bf cause i dont want to be embarassed.
pleeeeeeeease help, i want to be a regular girl!?!
any advse will be very helpful!
thanks in advance!!
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uummmmm:) i think thats cool. dont be embaressed about that some people would go for someone like that. in bi and i wouldnt mind have a girlfriend like that i still would treat her like queen, but to have a sex change might cost alot . i rather be happy with i am im here if you wanna tlk oky.
by me jr246
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Am a lesbia have been on it about 5 year ago I have a child with is about 5 year too start been lesbia after
I had my bady am 26yr now I want to marry and setle down I don't how to do it am so inlove with my partner. I want to stop it please help (link)
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ok you should go find someone who catches your if you start to feel something then keep going at him from time 2 time you'll be be thinking less lesbian and more straight in your relationship make sure he'll be good father your baby
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We broke up a while ago, and he hooked up with another guy (Bi) a day afterward. Literally. A few months went by, and when I felt I was truly recovered, I found someone else. But this person happened to be a good friend of both of us--I know that wasn't wise, but I really liked her (also bi)--and he didn't react very maturely. He's threatening not to be friends with her anymore, and I'm concerned because it's really upsetting her.
I don't even understand, since he seems happy with his boyfriend, never contacts me and ignores me, makes fun me when he doesn't and overall just seemed over me up until now. (link)
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im bi i think you should do what he does to you back to him because if you dont then its going to be like for awhile till he gets under your skin. dont let him tell you who you shouldnt be with if you love her then tell him to mind his own business
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whats are good ways to turn on a guy? (link)
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well there a few ways find out wat he really likes like some guys have a sweet tooth or some guys might have a fetish ask him wats his favorite part or i would recommed a sweet tooth theme cover yourself with candy look hot and the mood sit him down a chair and dance for him with all that candy on you
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So I Was In The Store Yesterday And This Boy That Used To Talk To My Cousin Started Hugging And Touching Me. I Pushed Him Away And Asked Did He Still Talk To My Cousiin And He Acted Like He Didnt Know Her. When He Was Leaving He Wanted Me To Text Him And he Asked To Come Over My House. My Question Is Would It Be Right To Start Talking To Him If They Have Stopped Talking (They were friends with benefits) But Would It Still Be Right..?? (link)
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nope not rite not unless u want ur cousin to hate you or unless she doesnt care but i would ask her just bring him up in a conversation and see wat she says about him . if she sounds mad towards him then dnt talk to him
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Ok so I really like this guy he's a freshman and I'm a sophomore. We all know summer is coming up and I know I wouldn't see him till the next school year. Which is really hard on me. I'm kinda shy so it's not like I can just go up and ask him it's not that simple. The guy I like is this girls brother which the girl is a junior and she's on my sport team( which I likeher we cool but she can be intimidating and I dont want that side of her) I dint have any classes with him but I go to his class sometimes to talk to people and sometimes him. Please help I'm kinda desperate bc I'm fragile (link)
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just find a time to be alone with him at school and open up to him i know if your shy then try turning all those butterflys in tummy into hyper energy confidence yes i do that:D dont be shy
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I am dating a guy i really like but he doesn't want to make our relationship public.. He uses other girls as his display picture and wall papers but he has never used mine... I want to talk to him about it but I don't want to seem overbearing (link)
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i was like him to my junior year for me was we were two different people she was the good hyper girl and i was those ill do watever i want and i kind didnt want people know so our relationship was hidden .one day i went over to her house we went to her backyard and just talk she ask tht same question well not the using some girl for cover but after we settle things the next few days the guys at school just smiled happily i felt a WHOLE better tht were finally holding hands and kissing in public and till this point on my life has never this great i mean i still what want but still live her when im with her so you should go talk to him if u want the way we did it dnt feel overbearing
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well im at school and my ex wont talk to me .. he keeps looking at me but i dont know if i should go talk to him first or wait till he talks to me. We were friends but he's acting weird. What should i do? How can i get the same friendship we had a week ago.. i dont want to push him farther than i have already.. (link)
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oooouu i knw this had the same problem first you have to go talk him frist and quick because the longer you wait the more weirder its gonna get start off by say wat you want to know why your relationship is turning like this that way you can solve this easy - if you 2 are close then you should talk that person because if he or she stays there looking at you then hes going to take longer ..
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