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ok so one of my friends thought of a good idea to get a guy to like me. he likes "bad girls" so the plan is to get a rumor started about me that i gave someone a bj and idk if i should do it or not. help me plllleeeeaaasssssssseeeee!

no that is not a good idea at all. cause if you spread a rumor liek that around peple are going to start thinking differently of you. thinking that oh she easy, or oh she gives good head or whatever, plus if you have a reputation well if u spread a rumor like that you might as well throw your reputation out the window cause you will lose your reputation. idk if thats a big thing to you or not but you will lose it if you spread something like that around. so in my opinion i dont think that it's a good idea to spread a rumor around like that.

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aright so me and my boyfriends one year anniversary is coming up at the end of the month and i have NO idea what to get him. i've already gotten him a picture frame for christmas and a crap load of clothes, along with a key chain for his graduation. i want it to be something really special but i'm drawing a blank with ideas. any suggestions? thank you!!!

well what you could get him is like a body wash set, or a watch or something um hmm does he like video games? get him a game he likes to play or watns to get, and music get him one of his favorite groups or singer, or a movie he has been wanting to get pick him up the movie. lil things like that he would appreciate it:)

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Would it be wierd for a fourteen year old girl to date a sixteen year old boy. Its only a grade apart, (so like freshman/sophomore)but its still like a two year diference, what do you guys think?

no that's not weird at all. that's fine as long as you guys like each other and there's a conection and communication. cause like i always say communication is the key to all and every friendship/relationship.

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so me and my boyfriend decided to get each other names tattooed on each other but i have a tatt on one wrist and neck already! i was wondering where would be a cute place for us to get them?? oh yea i also have a lil pudgey tummy so not there !
thanks =]

usually the arm or the back are the best places but i suggest the arms.

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19/female. usually i'm a confident girl, that is only when i KNOW i look good. if i'm having a bad hair day, or my make-up doesnt turn out, if i don't have anything cute to wear it has an effect on my self-esteem.

& the real problem is with this guy i like. well i have mixed feelings, i'm really attracted to him. all the girls love him! me and him are kinda close friends and so he's seen me with no make-up on and my hair NOT done, and i felt so ugly! everytime i feel good, i never see him and it seems like everytime i feel horrible, i see him! and it's not helping the situation.

why can't i see him when i look hot!? hahaaa.

it's ruining my game!(:

well to me it seems like he keeps spotting you on days when you arent ready or prepared. what you should do is just make yourself look good, do your hair, dress nice, ya know the usual, and do that whenever your about to see him and run into him. before you leave the house look at yourself in the mirror. i know this may sound kinda silly but look at yourself and think to yourself do i look good? do i look hot? do i look attractive? do i feel good with the look i chose for today? well you get the idea, try that and see how that works for you.

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Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu

well first off it is not okay to be thinking that this other guy that you work with is "cute" or "attractive" at all. you shouldnt evenbe thinking of other guys. the only guy you should be thinking about is your man. the guy that you are with. plus when you think of other guys especially ones that you work with it's not good. you might tell yourself that it might not lead anywhere but in due time the more you think that the guy u work with is again is "cute or "attractive" the more you are going to be thinking about that person and not your boyfriend.
and that's something you dont want to happen. i nknow that you love your boyfriend but i dont think that it's a good idea to think about the guy at work in the way you think about him \. i think that you should just focus on your boyfriend and nobody else ok?

hope my advice helps:)

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eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!

there are 2 girls that im torn between
one ive known longer
and one ive known for a month and she is crazy about me! idk which to choose!
:O
im a 15 year old guy btw


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well it comes down to this, which one do you like the most, who can you see yourself being with, who can you see youself having fun with, enjoying yourself with, who you have the most in common with and see where it goes from there:) think about it before deciding, cause you dont want to make the wrong decision and be with one and want to be with the other ya know?

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