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Age: 19
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Hi♥

Well, my bf is amazing.I really love him, and he loves me to. We been threw a lot together, and we couldn't be together, i let him go because i couldn't take the idea of him liking me and having feelings for someone else.I understand that now because i went threw it to. Well, i let him go and my best friend scolded me for it because she said he was the"one", and now I'm really thinking that because he came back to me and told me his true feelings for me. That he loves me.We are really close, we talk everyday and all night..i want it to stay this way♥ How can i keep him? I'm scared that we won't last, my other friend is negative and she says she's been here before and it won't last. I don't believe that but she keeps telling me "well when he breaks your heart don't come F***ing cry to me about it." It makes me feel awful that she doesn't believe in us ;'(. How do i keep positive about this? I have problems staying positive about things i worry way to much. Thanks for reading! Please help? (link)
I am in the same boat with you girly.

I was in a year relationship just last year. We were so in love, we had sex, we talked about getting married, what house we would have and all of that. But when our 1 year came around, he broke up with me because we were fighting too much and couldn't fix it.

I am now in an even better relationship. I found him just 2 months after the fiasco with my ex and it's better than ever.

Here's advice I can give you that I was told many many times by my family:

"If it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, you always find someone better after."

And it's been true. A lot of people said to me that we started dating too soon and we won't last but we're determined as HELL to make them eat their words.

If you believe that the two of you will last, then that's all you need. Screw everyone else.

Everybody makes mistakes. If your willing to take that chance then take it. Heartbreak can't kill you. It'll hurt bad, but it won't kill you.

And if your friend is saying stuff like that, then she isn't your friend. True friends are there for each other.

If you need somebody to talk to or have other questions, inbox me :]



i am 18 years old and i me and my brother brian who is 22 have a perfect relationship. on august 28th we had sex and now i am pregnant. we are really excited and i am going to keep the baby but what i am asking is i do not know how to tell my parents that my brother and i are exspecting our first child (link)
Umm wow?

Well let's see. I don't even think that I can answer that.

I think the best advice that I can give you is weight the options. Can you support the baby financially? What if your parents take it the wrong way and kick you out, what will happen then if you don't have the money?

I am against abortion. But if you cannot support your baby financially, (because love isn't the only thing) adoption is the next best thing. Their is open adoption which you can still send letters, give presents and even see your baby when you want.

Think about it.


My boyfriend wants to finger me. I don't really care if he does or not but I'm just nervous because I never got fingered before.
I shave down there but i don't shave the whole area I leave the middle. From a girl's point of view do you guys shave the whole thing and if yes, step by step direcions would be helpful.
Also where the thighs sorta begin (near the vagina area) should I shave that too? Please don't tell me "do whatever is comfortable for you
Also I'm still a virgin so is there a chance while he's fingering me, my cherry could pop? If it does what do I do at that moment?. (link)
Okay girly. If you want to shave it all, be extremely careful!

I shave also and I didn not put shaving cream on a certain area and had gotten a huge bump on the outside of my vagina.

It is important to put on a LOT of cream. And go in the direction of which your hair grows so you don't get bad razor burns and start bleeding.

This is a trick I do, I slip on a thong and look to see where my hair is sticking out. If it is, I shave.

And your cherry could pop doing anything. Not just sexual activity. You could pop it while riding your bike even.

I hope this helps :]




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