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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
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ok im gonna be bruitaly honest here
he's moved on...obviously he didnt really wanna go out with you so he took the smallest excuse to get with another girl.
i say...find a new guy, look totally hott in front of your ex...and he'll want you back so bad!!!
but if you really want him back that bad, just tell him that you just wanted a few days alone, you never wanted to break up
if you were really in love, he'll understand and he should APOLOGIZE for getting with that girl so quickly after you "broke up"
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Aight, which girl should I go with? Here are my options:
-Sort of preppy, very smart, I like her, she likes me as a friend
-Best friend's sister. Sort of tom-girl-ish
-Internet girl. 2 years older than me. I like her, she likes me. We share similar interests. Don't know what country she lives in. Haven't seen her in 2 months.
-Tomgirl. Known her since I was a year and a half old. Fairly smart.
Please help, I usually rate 5s if I choose to rate, and I'll leave comments. Wiseasses get 1s. (link)
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1st girl-if she likes you as a friend...i would say, stay friends. kuz when you break up, you may lose an awesome friendship (when girls say they dont wanna go out with you becauce it will ruin the freindship...its usually true)
2nd girl-i would say no kuz shes your BEST FRIEND'S sister...i've gone out with my best friend's cousin and my best freind got WICKED mad...so i would say, no...unless your really in love w/her...which i dont think you r kuz you didnt say that haha
3 rd girl-wait...now this doesnt make any sense. you dont know what country she lives in, but u havent seen her in 2 months?...so you've seen her, you just dont know where she lives...im gonna have to say no on this one kuz you dont even know where she lives!! haha
and the last one-if you guys are best friends, i would say no, since you've been friends since you were one year old.
now this is just MY opinion...it really all depends on who you like and what you're willing to give for one girl.
hope i helped!! leave it in my inbox if you have more questions on this subject or anything else.
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Theres this boy I've known like 6 years.. me and him just started messin around and he knows I care deeply for him ... aka like him. I love him.. but he doesnt know it, i guess. But we just had sex, and I sleep over his house sometimes and we cuddle kiss... and he kisses my forehead and tells me 'Goodnight beautiful' .. but when everyone else is around hes rude to me and he ignores me. He doesnt call me anymore, he doesnt even IM me much. But his friends all tell me he likes me, and right now I'm trying to ask him how he feels - and he wont friggen answer me! I'm 17 years old, I know I can find someone older than me that wont play games (hes only 15).. but I cant help the way I feel about him. (link)
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i deffinetly kno wut your talking about. i have the same problem (except we didnt have sex) he shows affection when ur all alone and then ignores you when hes w/his friends...
hmm i dont even kno wut 2 do ... i think i need the same advice haha...but ill try to help you out
well, first of all, hes gotten arrested. not good. hes a jerk to you in front of his friends. also not good...but on the other hand, when your alone, hes awesome and you love him...
ok im just telling you what you already kno
i would confront him about this...stop doing sexual things with him. and kind of avoid him...if he IMs you...talk 2 him...if he calls you, talk 2 him....but dont IM him, call him or ne thing...kinda play hard to get. and see if he still needs u...if he doesnt call you or ne thing...move on because you can obviously find someone better than him. but if he calls you or tries 2 talk 2 u...deffinetly talk to him and tell him ur feelings. if he really loves you, he'll understand and he will change for you
hope i helped...need anything else, leave it in the inbox
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