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Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
It means I


I think I might be bi. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can be 100% sure on whether I am bi or not.

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Hey..I dont kno if your a girl or guy but yeah. If you want to know if your 100% Bi then make out with a girl or boy and see if you like it. If your a girl do you stare at girls a lot or if your a boy do you stare at boys at a lot?? Well I hope everything works out..good luck..im here if ya need me!! xoxox

♥♥

Cheyenne


ok my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and her dad never talks to me just gives me evil stares. i talked to my girlfreind about it and she says its because her sister was raped at the age of 14 and became pregnant. he doesnt trust me. is there anyway i can get him to trust me more? (link)
Most important treat his daughter with respect and stuff..be there for her and take care of her..show him you are not that kind of person that did that to his other daughter..sometimes it just takes time..soon, he will realize that you are different and he will start trusting you and start to like you!! I Hope I helped..Im always here if ya need anything!! Good Luck!!

xoxox
Cheyenne 14/f


there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m (link)
I think you should talk to her..maybe say "I need to talk to you and it's really important". Tell Danielle how much you care for her and like her as a person. If you want to do it over the phone than thats okay, but I, personally, think it's better in person..because you actually see her reaction and emotions. Maybe you started dreaming about her is because you really like her..and maybe it's a sign that she is supossed tp be in your life for a reason. I hope I helped..If you need anything else, I'll help you!!! Hope everything works out!! Much Love

xoxox
Cheyenne 14/f


ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
Hey babe I am so happy for you. You can fall in love at any age and if you really really love him and he really really loves you and u know he is the 1 and he knows you are the 1 then it will work. Sometimes it doesnt work it just depends. Also i am 13 female and I am in love with my boyfriend and its working out.
Well hoped I helped
Gooooooood Luck
xoxoxoxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks (link)
Hey hun you need to get out of the relationship with your 4 year boyfriend if he hits you and makes you have sex with him. Thats not good at all. OK, i met a guy on the internet and we have been going out sense september and we are almost going on six months and i love him. Yes it is possible to love someone that far away because i do and other people do too. If he has been truthful and you trust him and others things and he really really really does loves you and wants to meet then wait until you are older and then meet but just be safe and others things. I Hoped I Helped.
x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x,
Cheyenne
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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do? (link)
Hey hun I am 13 and I have never been on a real date and never been kissed. Just take it slow and study and it will come to you. I know waiting it hard but sometimes u gotta do it. You will know when it is coming. Well hoped I helped. Good Luck!
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne


I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help. (link)
Hey, well when you have the chance to see if talk 2 him about it and if he cheats on you then thats his fault. Use a condom so you wont get pregnat or get stds. S-t-a-y- S-a-f-e !!!!!! Tell him your feelings and explain 2 him about this. Hoped i helped, Good Luck.
oxoxox,
Cheyenne


I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help (link)
Hey hun, stay with your g/f and dont listen to those other gurls cuz they just want you for you looks and not whats inside. Tell them you do not do all that stuff and tell your g/f that you are not going behind her back and stuff. They are jelious because that is not them you r with. Stay true and always be you. I hoped I helped.
oxoxoxo,
Cheyenne




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