Hi! I've been in your situation several times and most the time...I pick my heart. I must say though, it's never worked out. I guess, to answer your question, it really depends on why your head is telling you not to date this guy. Is it that you're scared or is he truly a shady guy? If it's that he's shady, I'd stear clear. Dealing with someone that does drugs, sleeps around, cheats, etc., is only going to hurt you in the end. Now I'm not sure that's the case with this guy, but just remember--you can't change a person unless they want to change. And with that being said, why would you want to change him? There's obviously something about him that you like. Now this may just be me, but when I first start dating a guy, i ask myself, "Can I picture myself marrying this guy?". Although i don't plan on getting married anytime soon, i don't want to waste my time on someone i know i'll never be with. I hope i helped! If you're still confused about which to choose, share some more specific information about this guy. I think it would be easier to answer if I knew more about him and why this decision is so difficult for you.

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! This guy sounds super nice and if he's willing to beat your EX up,then I say he's a keeper! Now since he's not asking you out, maybe you should TELL him that you guys are hanging out. Just sneak something in the conversation when you guys talk, like: "So you're picking me up at 8 this Friday... right?" He will probably be confused and ask what you're talking about(or if he's quick he'll ask you out himself!). you can say something like: "you know..we're going to the movies...did you forget?" Make it seem like he asked you. You'll seem super confident and it's very casual. Or if my previous approach doesn't suit your fancy, maybe you should just be direct. Just ask him: "So what's taking you so long!? Why haven't you asked me out yet!?" I really don't think it matters what you say, actually. This guy likes you. The sooner you say something (anything!), the sooner you can call him yours. Good luck!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! I go by Lee and I am full of information...hopefully the kind that will be useful to someone--Although I must say most people seem pleased with my advice and comments in the real world. I know a lot about health, relationships, and sex by means of classes, experience, and Google(I'm completely addicted!). I'm not a pro at any of these subjects nor a doctor, but I'm honest and tactful(and charming!)and I will try to help anybody.

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