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Hey
I'm 14 years old and a freshman in highschool. There is this one boy, we'll call
him John, that i have really liked for probably a month or so. He didn't use to
talk to me so much, but in the past weeks we've been walking to the classes we
have together with eachother, He seems to kind of hang back sometimes so we can
walk next to eachother, and he'll spark up conversation more than usual. I've
even caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me too. But he says
funny things when he's talking to me and he seems to like spending time with
me...I have his screen name, but he's not much of an online talker
unfortunately. I'm too shy to give him my number, and he's rather shy too,
that's why i noticed his sllightly picked up interest. Do you think he likes me,
or am i just blowing things out of proportion?" (link)
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hmm.. that is a tuff one because one of my friends had the same thing going on but he was just being "friendly" so to speak. But there is a chance that he does infact like you. Maybe one day ask him who he likes. But if you are affraid he wont tell you then maybe get a friend to ask him. another way is asking him straight out if he likes you. you said you were shy so i dont know if that would work. Keep me posted on how things go and if youd like more advice just ask
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I'm sorry this is so long, but it's a pretty complicated situation.
Okay, so when my boyfriend and I first starting dating...there was this girl that really liked him and wanted to be with him. My boyfriend told her that he wasn't interested because he was with me and that they just needed to be friends. Well I called him one night and he was somewhere with her 'talking about it in person.' I didn't really think anything of it, and I just forgot about it. Well then he said that they didn't really talk anymore, but she was still texting him and stuff. Well one night my boyfriend and I were together and she kept calling him...still. So I started worrying about it again and I checked his text messages and apparently they had been hanging out still. He had texts from her saying 'Will you drive tonight?' blah blah. I didn't say anything about it because I was ashamed that I had looked through his text messages. Well last night I called him and she was at his house at 11 PM. I didn't overreact at first until I found out that they were in his room. I was mad because he knew I wouldn't be comfortable with that and he still let her come over.
He said that she came over at 11 PM to wish him a happy late birthday and that they were in his room because she was checking her myspace, but it turns out she doesn't even have one.
I'm especially upset because his story doesn't make sense and I know if the tables were turned, he'd be pissed off at me. I don't know what to do. I know we need to talk about it, but I need to know a calm way to do it because I'm very tempermental. What do I say?
18/f. We've only been together for 4 months. (link)
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hmm sounds hard. maybe you could just tell him that your not comfortable with her being in his room and also that she lied about the my space thing and that made you feel more uncomfortable. be honest with him yes it would hurt if he was doing something but maybe you will find out that they were just hanging out and he thought you would over react..
Heart Broken
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my boyfriend who is a year older than me used to walk wih me evry morning in school, and like giv me hugs, but now all of sudden he wont walk with me or even like talk to me, he just pretend she doesnt see me, and if i talk to him he'll listen but he wont look me, he just looks right past me. I thought he was going to dump me but then he wanted to hangout after school. is he like embarrased of me, or do u think he is gonna dump me? (link)
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maybe you should just ask him what is going on. Be up front with him and dont be scared .. just start off with something like im not mad but it was just a little akward when you stopped walking with me to school and could you please just tell me if i did something or.. and you continue on.. i hope i help
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well, I like this kid in my chorus class. He found out I like him because he could "tell" but I have to play juliet and he's romeo and I dont know how to act around him anymore he's acting like nothing happened which relieved me but I still dont know what to say or do.
Ill rate high (link)
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well that must suck , just try acting normal and don't take the kiss very seriously UNLESS he does.
~*~heartbroken~*~
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ok, this is really confusing but here we go. Since October I have sort of had this thing for this one guy. But I didn't really tell any body and now i found out that one of my other friends likes him too and i promised her i wouldn't mess it up, thats not who I am. I asked him if he liked her and he doesn't, i actually heard that he likes me. But then a few days ago this other guy text me saying he liked me. He is not a bad guy but i don't like him in that way. But i think i might have led him to think that i was interested in him. There is no way that anybody could not get hurt and I really don't want to hurt anybody. What should I do?? Luv Megz2009 (link)
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Well...
that must suck!
You should first get one of your friends to ask the guy you like if he likes you. And if he does then you should try telling the other guy that likes you that you don't like him in that way but you would love to be friends.
If the guy you like doesn't like you then maybe you should give the guy that likes you a chance. You Never Know What'll happen...
Good Luck
signed: Heartbroken
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
Thanks so much !! (link)
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If you feel that you Really like someone then I don't see why you can't tell him you love him. Don't listen to people who say you are to young. Just becareful because your boyfriend may not be ready for the whole "I Love You". Just take it slow but if you feel that you are ready then go and tell him
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How can you tell if he actually likes you?
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Flirting may not always be a sign. When i was in grade 7 i flirted with this guy i really liked and he flirted back , but he didn't like me. You are going to have to maybe get a friend to ask him. Just don't embaress yourself!
Good Luck!
signed:heartbroken
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