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Ive known this guy since i was 7 ( now im 13) and we
always had crushes on eacother ever since we met.
Everytime we would sit next to eachother we would
always talk and he would make me laugh. But
everytime we moved our seats we would just ignore
echother.This year i really want to talkto him. How should I do it. I
know he still likes me because this yr i was in the hall
and he smiled at me and last yr his friend told me 3
times that he had a crush on me

okay i remember perfectly being 13 and it's not easy i know everything seems so hard and complicated but this really isn't that big of a deal just go up to him one day and be like hey how have you been i haven't seen you in awhile seem confident but not cocky and don't be all oh my god i can't talk to him no way nahhh. just be yourself he liked you before and he still does apparently so just go for it : )

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16/f

Alright, so me and this guy have been dating since the summer. I couldn't ask for a sweeter guy than him. When i am with him i get the best feeling and i just love spending time with him. Well my problem is this, one day at lunch one of my really good friends came over to my table. so we start talking and things and she told me that my man wants to do more things that just makeout. He has done things before with previous girlfriends. And im really not sure if i should or not. I mean yeah, i want to. But then the other part of me doesnt. Im just so confussed and i really don't know what to do. So if you could PLEASE help me i would really appericate it!! Thanks in advance. (:

don't do something that you aren't sure of. I am one to act on impulse but sex or whatever you consider the next step is a big deal. talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. He'll probably do the same in return. All the luck to you.

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i have been with my boyfriend who is 20 years older than me for 8 years and we have a 7 year old son. he found out he has liver cancer two years ago and has had 4 operations since then.
he has never treated me real good and never wanted to marry me. lately i have been finding myself treating him mean and having a lot of anger towards him for things in the past. I want to know if you think that i should leave him? i do love him but don't think that i can watch him die.

i know you have probably heard this before but the only thing you can do is try and talk to him. try and make him listen but also realize he has a lot on his plate. i know you love him but sometimes love is not enough. and for your son keep him in mind too. this relationship isn't all about you it's about your son. you have a right to be angry about things in the past but if you didn't bring it up with him then you can't really hold it against him that much now tell him he hurt you and that you're angry don't hold it all in. try and hang in there but if you do all that i tell you to and he doesn't change you can't live your life unhappy that's not fair but i think you should try your hardest especially if a child is involved.

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