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hey guys my name is alex im 16 years old and i live in texas and im in 11th grade!! when life gives u trouble wether it love life problems or anything else feel free to ask me im here to answer !! thanks for your questions !!
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Location: texas
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Age: 16
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I am a kinda...traditional gurl. i would prefer the guy ask me out. i want this guy that i like to finally realize that what he has been looking for is right in front of him. but i dont want to just come out and tell him that i like him... what should i do (link)
have one of ur friends tell him you like him or ask him who he likes sumthing like that


there's this guy that i think i really like, and i think he likes me too, but i also think that i think he likes me because i like him!!! what am i to do??
sometimes he just stares at me, and he helps me a lot (more than he helps others)... oh and there's another great problem... he's 8 years older than me!! what am i to do? what am i to think?? help me!! (age 16) (link)
well.. ok hes 24 and your 16. that kinda a big age diffrence seeing your still in high school and hes long outa high school and in college (if he goes to college)and so thats kinda a big age diffrence. and would your parents allow you to date him? i mean i have gone through this problem befor like when i was in 8th grade that was this reallllly hott 10th grader and he asked me out and like of course i said yes and then my parents wouldnt let me see him so i kinda snuck around w him. and to find out he wasnt as great as i thought he was. i had known him for about a year and he was in 10th grade and thinking about stuff that i didnt wanna do. so it turned out me breaking up w him. and al this other stuff. i mean im not trying to discourage you or nethign im just saying. so im sorry i cant really help you out that much. im sorry but i hope i helped some. good luck ! p.s if he likes you and you like him thrn i mean follow your heart. good luck.


Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers. (link)
i think its a way of flirting i use to have that delima but now i can actually talk to him but like just go up to him and start talkin and it will turn out great! but it is a way of flirting because i used to flirt like that. so hope i helped sry so short but hope i helped. good luck


Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.

I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days. (link)
i think you should see each other because i know how it feels because i cheated on my bf (only kissed another guy) and i still love him alot and wish i could get back with him but he wont take me bak so take him bak yall are in love and if you really love him you will take him back because i lost the love of my life and there hasnt been a truly happy day without him. and maybe it's 4 the best to take a second chance. evry one deserves a second chance right? well i never got my second chance so pls give him his second chance. well hope i helped good luck.


My exboyfriend who im still in love w, broke up w. his girlfriend. He called me nd told me that he wanted to be friends and that he missed talking to me nd having me around. When we hang out or were around each other there's always that special bond between us, were always flirting and attracted to each other. But a few days ago he told me that he we really wanted to be friends,nd that he didn't want me to get attached to him because he really didn't know what was going to happen and he didn't want to me to get hurt.He says the reason he stoped talking to me was because his girlfriend made him, nd he told me that when he was her sometimes he just wanted to pick up the phone nd call me just too see how i was doing. But now i don't know how to handle this, this kid will always have my heart nd i couldn't picture myself w. any1 else but him. But i don't know what i should do. Im so worried that he may go back to her nd then here i am alone again, without him even as a friend. Please help me figure out what nd how i should act on this. (link)
omg thats how i feel !! im still in love with my ex !! but your lucky cause my ex doesnt talk to me much at all cept when i call for his sis ( who i am bff's with ) ( hes a year older than me ) he will talk on the phone if shes not there and say hey and ask what im doin but much other than that so you are lucky but ya like i cant ever see me with any one else ever so i know how you feel like your heart is broken and it will never heal unless you get him back !! but dotn worrie he broke up with her and as i see it he doesnt want to loose being able to talk to you !! so he wont get back with her !! i promise !! and you will never be alone again !! hes there for you !! and if you want tell him how you feel about all this !! well hope i helped some !! good luck !!! and i would really like if you would email me so we could talk !! my email is cold_burn_22@yahoo.com !!! my name is alexxa !! hope you email me !! thanks !!


To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!
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choclates and a teddy bear !!!! he will love it !!! sry not much to say but hope i helped !!


im 13 and female
i went out with this guy cuz my friend told me he liked me and i liked him to we broke up a wihle ago and now i think i like more than i did when we were goin out could someone girl or guy tell me wut to do
thanx
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oh my god !!! i have finally found some one that feels the same way i do !!! ok i went out with this guy cause my friends said he liked me !! but he gets high and stuff but he doesnt act like it at all and he does it with his friends and hes not the best guy ever but hes so sweet and he i guess didnt like me anymore so he broke up with me !! and i like him and stuff when we went out like i couldnt get enough of him !! and after he broke up with me i had extreme felling for him and i still do i love him now more than i ever did !!! and im still not over him but like now i like other guys but im still in love with the guy i went out with before !!! all i can really say is to move on try to at least i know its hard to see him too around school or were ever you see him ( well it is for me ) and stuff but move on !! or tell him how you feel about him now !!! u never know what could happen !!! just try thinkin about somethin else and act like you dont need hima nd you dont like hima anymore and you will eventually trick your heart into believing that and so you WILL get over him !!! hopei helped some !!! good luck !! if u wanna talk more email me at cold_burn_22@yahoo.com


hey im a 17 year old girl i have a boyfriend how is to much with me but i think hes a woosse... in the way that if im not with him every minute of every day he gets bitchy... if i ask for a night off he bitches... cryies you name it... he does it.. and it just makes me feel bad... and he wins... i feel like im in jail... he says he dosnt mind but the next day he says i hated it and makes me feel bad like i dont what to do... hes driving me insane... and when i try talking abt it he just makes me feel bad... i need help (link)
ok my advice is to break up with the cry baby !! i had a bf like that and not to be unsensative but i dumped him it was like i was a fridge and he was a magnet that was glued on !! he would complain every time i would do anythig without him it got so annoying it was like i was locked up in a cage !!! i say dump him !! not to be mean but its the only way to stop it !! well hope i helped some !!


Okay, I need some advice, and this might be pretty long because of all the explaining I have to do about this... but anyways, at the beginning of the school year I changed schools. I started liking this guy in my Biology class. I didn't know his name because I had only been there three or four days. Then one day one of my new friends told me his friend liked me. I was all like "Okay, whatever." Well, about a few weeks later, I realized the guy that liked me was the guy I liked. The guy & I weren't really friends, and we only had a short conversation probably twice, but yet I always caught him looking at me or something and he would always stand by me if we were waiting outside the classroom for the teacher. Well, now we're in a new semester and we have History together. We've talked a few more times but not much. And I also overheard my friend talking to him about me and telling him I don't have a boyfriend and he should go out with me (but she doesn't know I like him.) I also still catch him looking at me, but he hangs around with this other girl that he seems to like. Like today, for instance, he would look at me alot during the first half of the period, then the second half he went over and sat beside the other girl and was talking to her. And I'm not really the kind of girl that will tell a guy I like him up front or anything. But I'm really confused by this - does he like me, or not? Some advice/help would be appreciated. =) Thanks. Oh, by the way, I'm 15 years old & female. (link)
i think he does but is gettin tierd of waiting on you to let him know you like him !! just have one of your friends tell him you like him and see what happens ! well hop i helped some !! thanks !!!


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I know this is vague, but a lot of people have different opions or different things they've heard. So, what are some signs that guy likes you, and some to show a guy that you like him. I've read some in a magazine once but I'd like more opinions! Thanks! (link)
umm a guy will talk to you alot and go around you alot or if hes shy then hell look at you alot and then he wont let any of his friends talk to you !! i dont know though but i showed a guy i like him by being around him and talkin to him alot and i had my friend tell him that i liked him !! lol !! it worked for me ! ha ha !! lol !hope i helped !!


My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat? (link)
first of all how was your heart broken by him ? and two that same thing happened to me and i just quit being friends with him and it turned out to be a huge mistake !!! and then when i felt really bad he wouldnt take me bak which was kinda mean but i understand though !! but dont make the same mistake i did !! hope i helped !! thanks !!


ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
well that happened to my best friend !! they broke up then got back together and then broke up and so on!! and just recently he asked her out again i said if i didnt work out then what makes you think it is now? so she ended up saying no cause she got hurt every time she said yes to him !! so if hes anything like him then i think you should turn him down !! like i say dont buy a pair of shoes if they just feel comfy the first day !! if u dont get wat im sayin you will later !1 if u think about it !! well hope i helped !! thanks !


Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?

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definatly !! that same thing happened to me we were at a friends house and evry one was up stairs and we went down stairs to get a snack and i bumped into him and the next thing i knew we were making out for a second !! it was wierd and i felt the same way !! so ya thats normal !! so just call her up and see if she wants to do something sometime !! she what happens !! good luck and hope i helped !!


ok, heres the thing every summer since i was little ( i'm now 15 ), we would go to NY and visit my moms close friend. Well she has four kids and i had a HUGE crush on her one son thats 3 yrs. older then me. So a couple of years ago he found out i had a crush on him and after he found that out we got close and we would always makeout. We havent gone down there in a couple of years, so we havent spoken . His mother sent us a christmas card with his cap and gown picture ( he is now a senior ) in it and ever since then i can't get him off my mind and i keep havig these dreams about him. Why is this happening, do i stll have feelings for him, what should i do?? Thanks and sry it's so long! (link)
since it has been a while maybe u should call him up see how hes doin and see if he feels the same way you do about him !! and if not then i guess it wasnt meant to be but you can still be friends right ? ya ya i know the friends thing is crap and not what you want but come on its not bad !! but if he does feel the same way then go see him !! take a chance and if you dont want to call him go up there and suprise him !! see where love takes you !! let yuor heart lead the way !!and the dreams i know all about! they are telling you that you need to do somehting about it something that leads you to him !! well i have to go but good luck and i hope i helped some !!




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