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How do you handle jealousy in your relationships. Not freindships, because i get jealous of my friends all of the time, but i handle that (sorta) but how do you handle jealousy with your boyfriends...i just dont know how...suggestions anyone? (link)
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first- You need confidence tell your self are buetiful and have no reason to worry
second- Trust if your guy loves you so much then trust him he wont break your heart if it is true love
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17/female:
I'm having a confusing problem...
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months (1 year in March). And for a while now I've been kinds thinking like where is our relationship going? Things aren't the same as they were in the beginning and I feel like i'm getting "bored".
I was rushed into the relationship because he fell for me straight away, so I guess I kinda went along with it and then grew to like him later on and hence why we stayed together.
Anyways I went away on holiday with my college to barcelona for a week, and Me and my friend were hanging out with these cool and REALLY good looking guys (that came with us but we haven't really spoken to before because we were new). She told me that she thinks one of them liked me but I thought she was just making things up and I just brushed it off thinking that he was only being friendly.
However when I came back from the trip, I get a text from him saying that he likes me and wants to go out with me. I told him I have a boyfriend and he's still interested.
The problem is that I really like him and I think that he's SOOOOOOO good looking and has a nice personality (really caring etc..). And i'm already going off my boyfriend so what should I do?
Should I dump my boyfriend and see what happens with this guy or what? Because even if I do dump my boyfriend I wouldn't just be doing it to go out with this guy.
Please help, sorry its so long! (link)
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i think if your board with him than you should eather spice it up
or
dump him if you board than your not meant to be because cuples live together for years in marage and dont get board
its what every you think but i hope you take this to mind
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this will probably be long and im sry but bear with me. so i [16/f] have the sweetest boyfriend ever [17/m]. we have been together 7 months on valentines day. i love him so much, hes my first love and vice versa, but im so afraid im gonna get bored of him. why you ask? he never wants to do anything! all summer, my cousin, her bf, and us hung out at six flags pretty much at least once a week sometimes twice, and it was soo much fun. other than that weve been to the movies ONE time. and the rest of the time we sit at his house. ive suggested going to the movies, but he never wants to, and ive suggested going to dinner, and even my mom has offered to pay for our dinner, but he doesnt want to do that either bc 1- he "feels bad" if my mom or i pays [especially during the time he was unemployed], and 2- he considers the things my mom and i eat [longhorn, chili's, cracker barrel, etc] "fancy", and all he ever wants is burger king and crap. my mom mentions all the time how i have a boring boyfriend, and even he says that he doesnt want me to get bored of him, and the other night he said he knows id like to go out and do stuff and im probably used to that from previous boyfriends, and he said he'd start doing stuff with me, and said we could go to the movies saturday [yesterday]. so during the week i mentioned some things we could see and all he'd ever say is "i dont care" or "i dunno". yesterday rolls around and i said "do you still wanna go to the movies" and he was like "i dunno". i mentioned it probably 3 times and he kept giving the impression that no he didnt want to so i was just like forget it and let it go. it drives me insane because we never do anything. we sit at his house eating or watching tv or making out. i mean sure "chill" time is great but we go to different schools and i only see him maybe 1-3 times a week and thats all we ever do. and im afraid i will become bored enough to the point that i break up with him, and i dont wanna do that because i really do love him. but in 7 months, weve been on 1 date. he didnt even come to my birthday dinner [at longhorn]. the main reason was because when we all first got there he was on his way back from the store or something with his brother. but even when some of my family offered to LEAVE the restaurant and pick him up, he kept beating around the bush about it and in the end didnt come. and my whole family was like wtf? according to him hes gotten "accustimed" [whoah i spelled that wrong] to not eating out at "fancy" places and now doesnt prefer it. about the movies, who knows. and theres nothing else to do in this town. ughh, help? neither of us drives btw.. i have a license but no car, and he has neither. (link)
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THIS MAY HURT..
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but if he really loved you he would do what ever you wanted and WOULDNT blow off your b-day
i say tell him that
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if he wont change hes not the guy for you -sorry
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recently i've been falling for this guy i've known a while. we began talking over myspace ALOT and sometimes i thought he seemed to be really into me. he gave me his phone # and I did too..
Well now last night it seems like him and his ex got realy close and something "happened" between them by the joyful looks and (link)
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NO you should not give up
you should write or call this guy and ask him how he feels about the whole ordeal if he loves her all you can do is be there for him
but......if its you! girl than youve got your MAN!!
he totaly likes you tho so i think he'll
say yeah let me know how it works out (hanelizhow@yahoo.com)
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My ex dumped me cause she wasnt felling it, Any way I want her back but she likes for othere guys, and just wants to stay freinds. I cant live without her she is the love of my life, and I cant let her go. She already has a date to the dance with one of the guys she likes, and I was with on of my freinds the othere day and we were walking threw the hall and she so us and I had my arm around her and my ex gave the othere girl like a dirty look. Anyway I want her back relly bad but she just wants to stay friends soo how doo i get her to like me in that love way? i need help thanks
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hi, people are going to tell you that you cant cange her mind BUT if you truely love her youll do any thing and this is it............
YOU MAKE HER JELOUSE!
ok so pretend you dont need her and when she thinks your over her you do somthing totaly romantic like: poem,flowers,candy, any thing REALLY romantic
it has to work
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