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Okay well, i have a boyfriend, Name is John. And im loosing feelings for him, and im starting to get feelings for this guy Chance. I know, break up with John.
Yeah, well its not that simple. Me and john are VERY close, AND weve spent a year and two months on each other. And i just dont wanna hurt him.
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if you truly have feelings for another boy and you think that boy has feelings for you then you should go for it. i know a breakup with john will be hard. breakups are never easy and they arent meant to be but if you are feeling for another boy then its what needs to be done. you can try doing it simple and im sure he will understand. there is no way that you cant hurt him. but if you keep dating him you will hurt him even more than you already will now.
if you want when you breakup with him, suggest that once he is moved on that if he would like to be your friend. seeing that you two were really close you would want him to be a great friend in your life.
i hope i helped :) if you need more advice just ask
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Me and my ex broke up about a year ago and i still havent gotten over him he was my first love and i miss him very much especially since i never really got to say bye im dating someone new now and they make me really happy but im scared that theyre gonna leave me the way my ex did i havent seen him since we split up but anyways i wanna give my heart to the new person im with but i cant because a part of me is still holding on to my ex im tired of crying over him i want to let go but i dont know how what can i do to get over him??? (link)
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there is no one way to get over him. you always will have some feelings for the first person you loved. since you didnt get any closure that is some part of why you are holding on. i felt the same way you did and i never got any closure from him but if you are still in contact with him then if you really want closure im sure you can just meet up and get it.
and i get that you are scared about giving your heart to a new person but its a part of life. we all get hurt and no matter what you will be hurt in the end. you can try to avoid it but it doesnt quite work out.
i think that crying over your ex is silly. all girls are great and some guys are stupid and they pass up on it but you have a new boy and im sure he cares for you a lot. just keep going with that and when the time comes maybe you will fall in love with him too. you never know where life takes you but dont worry about it.
your ex is gone and he was a part of your past. you will never fully be over him. im still not over my ex but that doesnt mean it should stop you from anything.
hope i helped, sorry its long :)
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