Hey... I'm pretty new to this site, so I might not have the best advice, but I'm willing to try.
Gender: Female
Location: Ptown, Fl
Occupation: Student, I guess.
Age: 13
Member Since: April 10, 2005
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well i found out a boy likes me and we were talking on aim and he kept saying that im pretty and stuff. . . i am shy and i know how to respond to that but its only nice to say somthign aboutt him back but what should i say, i feel funny :/ (link)
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Hey. I think that you should just say, "thanks" or something like that. If you like him, you can compliment him also, but be honest. Don't say anything that you don't really mean. If you feel funny after you say thanks, you can like put a smiley face or something. Lol. I think that might put the conversation (or you) more at ease.
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ok .. sorry if this is confusing but i am lydia(14 yrs. old) and my sister(15 yrs. old) is brittany. there is this guy name jason(13 yrs. old). Well last summer i was goin out with josh(14 yrs. old) (jasons friend) and jason liked my sister. When me and josh broke up, jason started liking me. Jason has liked me for like 4 months. But then a couple of weeks ago, he started liking my sister again. I think i like him and last night i asked him if he liked my sister and he said yea. Then later on last night, i was like "jason, i like you." then said i was just kiddin. About 10 minutes later, he asked me was i serious about liking him and i said "why, do you want me to like you or something?" and he tped "no comment". I didnt know what he meant. Should i take that as a yes he wants me to like him, or a no? whenever i say no comment i mean yes. So i dont know what to think. someone please help me!!! ohh yea, and last night jason asked me if i still liked josh and i said yes so i think he got a little mad.
i rate high!!! (link)
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Hey... well personally I think he means yes, he does want you to like him. I say "no comment" too when I really mean yes. Lol. Hope this helps.
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I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Usually it doesn't really bother me but I've seen so many couples who are younger than me and it makes me feel so sad and worthless. I'm ugly and shy and boring so I suppose no boy will ever want to go out with me, and even if a miracle happened and I did get one, I wouldn't really know what to do or what to say =\ People think I'm weird because I've never kissed a boy or even been out with one, I feel so different and frigid =[ I guess I was made to be single but I just want to know what it feels like to be loved.. How am I ever gonna get a boyfriend when I look like I do and I'm as shy as I am? I like this boy at school but he doesn't really like my friends because they're so immature, so he most likely thinks I'm like them and hates me too - I'm not as immature as them though.. Please help? Thanks xx (link)
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Hey. Well I just wanted to tell you you're not the only one. I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend before either. Most of the time, that doesn't really bother me, even though I would like to have one sometime. It shouldn't bother you either. It is *not* weird not to have had a boyfriend. Heh. (Maybe I'm saying that cuz I haven't had one either.) But seriously, you shouldn't be so worried about it.
Ok, I'm pretty shy, too, so I guess I would be a hypocrite if I gave you this advice, but oh well. I think that you should try to be as friendly as possible. Wave to people or say hey to them at school when you pass them, even if it's when you're just changing classes. Try asking guys questions about assignments, in class, even if you think you could eventually figure it out. After a while, they'll be asking you things, and you'll be having conversations. You'll learn how to talk more easily with guys if you have guy friends.
"I'm ugly and shy and boring." Ok, you need to have more self confidence in yourself. You are *not* ugly. Even if you really think you are, you still need to tell yourself you aren't. Try telling that to your reflection in the mirror.
If you want to enhance your appearance, try using some make-up. Put on some eyeliner, some mascara, some blush, and lip-gloss, and you'll be on your way to feeling beautiful. Don't wear clothing that make you feel ugly (baggy clothing, colors that don't match your skin tone). Start putting some care into how you look. If you feel good about your appearance, you'll definitely be more confident about yourself.
About that guy you like...
You should act like yourself, and people will feel drawn to you. Smile alot. Have you heard the quote, "Don't frown because you don't know who may be falling in love with your smile"? or something like that, anyways =). If he says something funny, laugh. Instead of just letting him that you're immature and let him "hate" you, try showing him that you are different.
If he still does not like you, then find someone new, who deserves you. That special someone will come along eventually.
Good luck!
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I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do? (link)
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You should tell him exactly what you said here: "So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. ... I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too!" Tell him that you're sorry. After that, if everything gets worked out, maybe you could both give it another try.
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okay. me and one of my Ex's broke up 7 months ago! And now,, one of my friends asked him if he still likes me, and he said "well....it was b'cuz of baseball...." (that he broke up w/ me)And never really answered her question.
Since then, hes been staring at me in the halls. And flirting w/ me. Just not talking to me.
Do he still have feeling for me or what?
it really confused!!!HELP (link)
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I think he probably still likes you. If you like him, you should talk to him and flirt back, and maybe ya'll will go out again.
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