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I'm a young grl trying to find her way through skool, friend, relationships! But on the way i've made some good choices! You can ask me n e thing dont get inbarresed! I've even asked embarassing q's!
Gender: Female
Location: Colorado
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Age: 13
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Theres this guy that i like name joe. And his friend always ask me if i have called joe yet. And i always tell him..joe doesnt like me so why call. Why does his friend keep doing this to me? Do you think joe has said something or what? (link)
Ya he probably wont tell you upfront that he likes you, so why not to his friends! He totally diggs you! So pull out small talk! Good luck!
~maddy~


Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!
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Ew, you kissed a girl! Ok sorry! bUT WHAT i THINK IS SHE'S A LESBIAN AND SHE THOUGHT YOU WERE ONE to so now she totally diggs you! Ok that's all i got! Good luck!
~Maddy~


okay im like in lovr with this guy, yet he doesnt feel the same way towrads me.. he was pretty interested for about a week, and now he kinda blows me of, what can i do to get him back!? (link)
Ok I know how to get guys back This happened to me!

Ok well start talking to him and find out what he likes so you can suprise him with your knowlege of that! Then just like softly flirt with him! And let him kind of know your into him, then he'll start questioning if he likes you back! Well good luck and I hope my advice helped!
~Maddy~


How do you tell some one you like them? Because I want to tell this guy I like him but I dont know how....any really cute sweet ideas? (link)
kinda just like strike up a small talk. And just really show him that u like him. Then just kinda write him a note. It's way cute. I got my guy like that in 5th grade so I was 10. And I still have him and i'm 13.
Good luck!
~Maddy~


all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do (link)
Well ask em' if they wanna go sum where for a grl's night out i guess i really couldnt give good advice about this because i havnt been one of those grls but im givin ya the best I got. Just ask if they wanna have a grls night out. K?
Goodluck!
~Maddy~


This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
Hey Dani boi ignore em!


I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few weeks ago (he lives in a diffrent state). I called him today and we talked for over half an hour. anyway, we where about to hand up and I said "bye" then he said kinda fast "I love you, bye" then he hung up. Then about 10 minutes later he called he back asking me if I was doing anything for Valintines day. I said no (because im not). then he said ok and hung up. Im confused I think he still likes me but I don't know. I don't even know if I still like him like a boyfriend. Please help.

~*~Britt~*~ (link)
K hun I think he likes you if he said I luv u. He would still like ya!If you dont like him back be friends! Hun good luck w/ this guy I really hope you find a way.
~Maddy~


i got my boyfriend a stuffed animal dog holding a thing of candy.. do you think he'll like it? (link)
Ya! But i just gotta tell ya guys aint to big w/ valentines! So if it's a big dog it wouldnt be to good but if it's small it would be good and it wouldnt look like u were desprite! And candy is always good 4 guys!
~Maddy~


my boyfriend already gave me 2 bears and a carnation (the carnation was being sold at skool) and its not even valentines day yet. now he thinks im not gonna get him something i think because i didnt buy him a carnation (which is really dumb) but at the moment all i have to give him is boxers and i really dont want to be there when he opens the present because id feel really weird. what should i do? (link)
Have someone drop it off for you so when he finds you l8r he will be glad trust me itl' work babe!
~MADDY~


Okay, sorry i know everyone is asking questions about Valentines Day and all but me and this guy started going out just today not too long ago and i like him and stuff. But valentines Day is in 2 days and we don't go to the same school so i wouldn't see him ON valentines day-maybe just tomorrow. But should i get something for him anyways? and if i do when can i get it without him being there (if he does go tomorrow) and if i get it tomorrow how do i give it to him? and what should i get if i do?? thanks (link)
Hun I got to say this flat out! Alot of guys arent big in valentines! There but sum good ideas wood be cady, a note, a cd, thats wut i wood say they arent the biggest romantic kinda guy!


As everyone knows Valentines days coming, so am I suppose to get my boyfriend anything even though I have been with him since the 7th or 8th? and if i am suppsoe to what should i get him? Thank you! (link)
Well guys arent to big in valentines! But if u do decide to get him one get him chocolates a note and maybe a cd he likes! Do go to big in it hun!
~Maddy~


I'm so upset my friends Shay, Dani, and Briana told my crush I liked him and said I stalked him and stuff. But I don't and before they said that he was so sweet to me. I'm already not talking to my friends and I think I was in love with this kid. Last time I talked to him he told me to go suck a dick. I'm so upset. What should I do I can't get over him? (link)
who cares about him now he sounds like an ass hole for all i hear! If he told u to go suck a dick he probably is an ass! and your friends sound like ass's rite now!


I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.

~~GRAPE~~ (link)
grape,
he's playing hard to get al guys do it hun! So you should call him and talk! My guy does it and we r as tite as can be trust me hun it's np!If u got n e q's aim me or email me
aim
frootytooty2275
email
volleychika21@yahoo.com


I've seen this guy twice and totally fell in love with him. I don't ever know the guy's name. We talked a little bit, all we said was hey and what's up and bye. I don't know what to do he's driving me crazy! Please help! (link)
Well try to strike up a convo! Share intrests! Small talk hun it works! Thats how I got my bf and were still going out! And that happened in sixth grade!
If u got n e more q's aim me or email me
aim
frootytooty2275
email
volleychika21@yahoo.com


alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out?? (link)
ok well i most defentally can help you on this one im a 13 year old grl and i have a bf and this other kid likes me so i'll tell you what grl's want at this age scince imn this age! Girls like it when you talk to them and then at the end of the convo. Just say hay u wanna hang out l8r?( So it's not really asking her out)if she would ask who is coming say n e one who wants to go (so she can make the dection if it's a d8 or a a hang out) so she doesnt fell akward!
And if u got n e more q's aim me @
frootytooty2275
or email me @
volleychika21@yahoo.com
Good luck!


i like this one guy who is in my math class...we sit right next to each other and we ALWAYS are talking... and he stares at me too...i cant tell if he likes me or not but i REALLY like him! no one knows i like him except 3 of my very close friends. i would ask him out if i found the right moment..but i am also kinda afraid to ask him out cause if he says no then i dont want it to ruin our friendship...but the thing is that i am moving in like 2 months so it wouldnt be that long of a relationship...so i guess my question is...should i ask him out even though i am moving in a while or just keep it to myself and let it dye away?? (link)
Well tell him how you feel , I know it's going to be hard but speak up b 4 it's to l8 ask if u can still b friends give him ur email address! Try to make a relation ship for at least a little a little's better than none!
if n e prob's email me @
volleychika21@yahoo.com
or aim me @
frootytooty2275


14/f
Last thursday I was talking to the guy I like on the phone and I think I heard him say Will you go Out with me but he said it hecka quite so I wasnt sure then I was just like what I cant hear u and I thought he said will you go out with me again but he said it so softly i wasnt sure... so i was just quite... then all of of sudden hes just where are you at and completely changed the subject... I am confused... I want him to ask me out right and now im scared cause if he did ask me out he is bably be too scared to say it again... and I need a way for him to do it... but then if he just said something else and I didnt hear him correctly I dont want to be like yea i wanna go out with you cause that would be embarresing thats the reason i was just quite... but now as i get to thinking maybe i want him to ask me so badly im hearing things...if that makes any sense please help...I was thinking of trying to get who he likes out of him but when i asked him today all he could say was i dont know...
what do i do? (link)
Well, dont ask him out invite him (if you know what i mean)say hey u wanna hang out later so it's not quiet asking him out but it's not like i'll cya l8r.So it's in the middle so if he wants it to be a date it will be but if he wants it to be a hang out it will be! It got the guy im w/ i've had him scince i was 11. It always works! But if not email me a volleychika21@yahoo.com. Good luck!


hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do! (link)
Well just wait for Mr/or mrs. rite. It doesnt matter! My first kiss was at 11! and it sucked i didnt even like the person. Now I want to go back and make my first kiss rememberiable! So find the perfect someone! And how to kiss no worries! I know it sounds dumb but practice on a pillow and a portiable mirror untill you think your ready! But For now keep your eye out! And good luck!




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