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I'm a 17 year old senior at Sherman High school; graduation is nearing, things are changing. I've went through many different things in my short life span, and I find myself always helping out my friends. Sometimes its so much easier for me to give the right advice to them, than to know what to do for myself. I used to cheer and love to sing. You'll probably find I'm just a typical teenage girl! I have this driving care about people and want to help them anytime I can. So if you need someone, try me.
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hello wonderful
Most people say wait at least 6 months with someone before you even consider marriage. Well I was with someone 9 months, and there's no way in hell it was right. If it took me 9 months to realize something, then it might take others a lifetime. Love is a measure of our maturity, growth; something that is worked on daily. Guys aren't as good of communicators as women (esp. in the feelings arena) and tend to freeze, run, or say something totally opposite from whats truly in their hearts. What you must do is give him space and a little time, and if this is something meant to be - he'll come back to you and want to talk it out and try again to tell you how he feels. We all get frightened when we know we're putting everything on the line. So be understanding. And he'll show you the right understanding if he really wants you in his future. Go slow... things go smoother; youll appreciate the small steps, they give you time to look around and have more of a clue to what you want... than the rushed steps to get somewhere, only to find... youre lost.
tell me..all knowing one...what do you do when you fall for a best friend...is this ok...becuase i know her like the back of my hand..would it be save to proceed into a realtionship..would it last..advice me
If you fall for a best friend. Don't let them know it. I find that youll regret it. I have had some of the best guy friends that I would never let feelings of more enter in because I enjoy them and want them to trust me, not have to worry about nonsense and such. If you really love someone, you want the best. Each situation is different of course, and sometimes all you have is your heart to guide you. Youll know if there is suppose to be something more, and youll know if you need to keep your mouth shut by the way she acts towards you... go into more detail and I can help you greater on this.
And for some reason I feel like this is Moster asking me this... Am I really all knowing? :)
so yah.. if a guy "hides" your relationship does that mean he's embarrassed of you? i dunno. he's happy and everything but it's sort of awkward i guess. he doesn't deny it but he won't say yes..does that mean he doesn't really like me?
Maybe he likes to keep secrets? As long as he doesn't deny it, things should be fine. He might really treasure you and think of the relationship as really special... think of it this way:
If you had $100, you would be flipping it out in people faces and if someone asked if you had it you wouldnt brag, right? But you wouldn't deny having the $100...
ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?
Don't worry! Youre counting your chicks before they hatch, but if this occurs...
You must draw the line. You must be the mature one and not let them put you in the middle. My friends tend to put me in the middle; I have found if you stop something before it starts things end up just fine. Tell them you like them both and if they start to talk about the other one, just cut it off with a kind remark about the other person. No one likes to talk about people to a person who likes the person theyre talking about.
Hope you got that. Good luck, but just have fun while theyre together! Friends who like each other are so much fun!