Hi there!!!I´m from Argentina!!student of English in a very important University from the town where I live,I love English lge and would like to hear about native speakers!!!I´m a nice and common person who is deeply in love and who does not actually know right now how to cope with it..
Gender: Male
Location: argentina
Occupation: student
Age: 26
Member Since: December 10, 2011
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I used to go out with this guy. We had an amazing relationship. We bearly fought about anything,talked to each other about everthing, spend time together, and we got soo closed to the point that I knew what he was thinking before he even told. Its very easy to talk to him because he understands me so I never feel like I have to explain myself, are personalities are alot alike. But during our relationship we had some problems with people accepting us being together, since he's 7 years older then me, so they thought he was using me because of my inexperience things began to get weird between us, right during that time i went on vacation for a whole month, thinking that the time away from him was going to benefit turns out, that when i came back he was done with me, and I never heard from him, and he never tried reaching me knewing that I was back.... Six months have passed and I still have the same feelings I had since I met him, I love him more then anything I would give anything to find out what happend that made him abandon me. then a few days ago he finally contacts me though facebook and gives me his number because he wanted to talk to me. When I texted him he asks why I never reached him, then he calls to explain what happend, and tells me he still has feelings for me and would like to see me and apologize, when he tells me all of this I couldnt be any happier. He finally comes over and he apologizes and I ask him what his intentions are with me, and he seems very unsure, i told him i didnt want a friendship with him, or be a bootycall, I told him that I was willing to forgive him and i would love to make things work again and have a serious long lasting relationship with him, I told him if thats not what he wanted then he could just forget about me because I already felt better once I found out what really happend between us. When I told him what I wanted he says that he would like to atttempt things again and take things slow, and start with a new beginning, because i know him so well, I dont think hes ever taken anything slow and I feel like he doesnt want the same thing I want. I dont know what to do I dont want to feel like im pressuring him, but i dont want to wait around for ever. I love him, but im scared that hes going to break my heart again. I dont want to relive what I went through, but I dont want to be away from him...please help i know this is long, but i feel like no one understands what im going through, and please dont tell me thers other fish in the sea. (link)
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Look,I've been through the same experince twice in my life,I know it's not easy but you have to make an effort and step away,if he doesn't want the same thing you want in a relationship then it's not worth it bc he's not prepared for a serious thing,and what's worse is that he's older than you he should be more responsible than you,the same thing happened to me,they were older and more experimented than me,it's much preferable to cry with your pillow for a couple of nights(i know it may be a long time)than staying with a guy who does anything he wants with you,sensitive people's feelings like yours or mine are like a toy for those who have the privilege to have them,don't give away your heart to somebody who does not deserve it,I'm telling you this bc my heart has been broken several times and I try to prevent people from doing the same:)
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Okay, so. I promised my bf I'd send him some of my private stuff. I only promised because he sort of forced me into promising but then I said it was no big deal. So I told him I would send it to him by the end of the day. But it turns out that things went wrong that day and I ran out of time to send it to him. I was gonna text him a sorry but then he called me a bitch for not sending it. How should I react!? (link)
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private stuff????honey,it is you who is making a mistake,you don't need to send anything like that to someone who loves you or whom you love,that's definetly giving to him a wrong singal about you,you just have to respect yourself and make him respect you,if you don't do that it's obvious that he will treat you like that,even though he has no right to send you such things on the phone it is you who must have the last word sweetie!!!!:)
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hi. i am the same person that asked this question http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=600975. i was wondering, if i really decide to tell him how i feel, what would be the best way? text message? in person? i don't think i can get him away from his friends to tell him in person and if i try to talk to him around his friends he might be rude to me and he and his friends might make fun of me or something like that. but i'm not telling him how i feel in order to develop a relationship with him. i'm telling him because i don't want to lie to him, having him think i think of him as just a friend when i really don't. so how should i tell him? (link)
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well,great!!!the first step is already made,just call him,tell him that you need to talk to him in private of course!!!!never in front of his friends or texting him,because it's something serious what you're gonna talk about,avoid crowded places,and it's always better during night,JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL,trust me,if he really likes you,he'll come clean and tell you his secret feelings for you,and if he doesn't,well,at least there will be no more doubts,and you won't be wasting your time anymore:):):):):):)
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so basically i'm so confused and im tired of bullshit. Why is it so hard for a guy to either tell us they like us, or be honest that they don't. Why do they have to play games? I'm in highschool but i'm one who hates hookups I would rather just have one special person there but it's seriously so hard to find because every guys ends up fucking you over and I'm terribly scared to have that happen. I've only kissed one guy but i've still gotten hurt by others...basically the guy I kissed just flat out stopped talking to me after like 6 months of non offical dating but like we both weren't seeing any one else. He made it clear he liked me and basically spent every weekend with me. Then out of nowhere doesn't talk to me and like ignores me at school but if im like walking to my car he'll drive past and stare me down. I just am seriously tired of drama and that feeling where basically you feel like you can't find anyone decent. I don't even know what i'm saying and i guess I just want your opinion why would he do that...=[ it's just how could he say all the things he did to me and one day act like he never said any of it (link)
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look,no kid at highschool can be taken seriously ,believe me,i´ve been through it like a thousand times before,what you have to do is just try to finish highschool and go to university,form your future,be strong and serious,then serious guys will come to you because you want someyhing real and lasting so when you actually give that impression to everyboody,stupid guys will run away and serious ones will show up,don´t waste your time:)
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Well, I have a crush on a guy, and he says he doesn't like me. But the past few days, he's been talking to me alot lately, and tells me to read his work, comes to me to talk for a while, and at my friend's parties, he comes and sits next to me. I s it possible he does? (link)
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well,i guess he does, but he just acts as if he didn´t. All men are like that,have you told him about what you feel about him,though?you should, because you could be losing the guy of your life,there is nothing wrong about letting people know how you feel,and if he actually doesn´t then it´ll mean that he does not deserve you
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