Well I am not straight and I know it.
I love girls, they are georgeous and ahhhh
But, I have the most amazing boyfriend!
I love him, I mean I couldn't live without him...and I know its for a companion and not just a friendshipppp!
Therefore, I think I am bi...
I mean seriouslyyy, I love boys, they attract me and get me excited, welll....girls do to!:D
The question is how do I come out to my boyfriend and my familyyyy...
I have a game with my friends who are girls where we grab each others butts and boobs, trying to make each other uncomfortableeee...
And I am a little bit weary because I don't want them to think I am copping a feel. I am NOT doing thattt...honestly, my friends aren't my type, I don't think they are attractive AT ALL. Ew.
But that doesn't matter, what should I do?
(oh by the way, my boyfriend is a very commited christian who thinks that homosexuality is wrong and disgustinggg)
tell your friends what you just told everyone here. If you really are not attracted to them, let them know-and how hard would it be to just not play that game anymore? that way they wouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable.
No one can tell you how to come out to your family-it's a personal choice..both to tell them and how you do it..but just do it in a neutral environment- I can't imagine them not being understanding and loving-they are your family..
In your boyfriend's case- to have a healthy relationship you have to be honest..and this is a big secret to keep. Now it is your choice whether or not to tell him- but it sounds like you want to come out. If he doesn't understand or thinks it's immoral because of his religious beliefs, there is nothing you can do about that. You guys might break up because of it-but if you do..think about it- how much of a loss is it? I know he's your boyfriend and you obviously care about him..but it's a choice between having a boyfriend who doesn't know the true you and may not accept it-and being yourself.
It all depends on what you want to be.
I hope this helped =]
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So this is pathetic, I'm 17/F.
I just cannot find the right guy, or a guy at all. I have only a few guy friends, and I'm not even "close" with them anyways.
But I've never been in a real relationship ever, and I dont know whats wrong with me, I'm super out going, I talk to about anyone, I'm not shy... I meet tons of people, but none ever turn out to be more than friendship.
Arghh!
First of all-this isn't pathetic at all.
With these things you really need to be patient. I know that's hard to hear-but every time that I have felt like there's no one out there, I end up telling myself to forget about it- and guess what. As soon as I do someone just walks into my life.
join a book club in your city, a volunteer group, or a gym. Those are all usually good places to meet new people- that are nice and intelligent =]
good luck!
em
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me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, but i said i still loved him and he said the same . And it might sound lame, but we both had a feeling that it was going to be okay . And we should break up because it would be better for both of us for now because we go to different highschools and stuff . I have a feeeling that he's not lying, and it is going to be okay, because everytime i think, i'm just going to forget about him and i want it to be over with, something little happens right after that will completely change my mimd . like i'll randomly get a text from him ?
but supposedly now, he likes this other girl that goes to his school, and he got mad at his friend for telling me ?
what should i do, im not going to say i know what love is and stuff for sure, because im only 15 ,but this is such a weird feeling and theres this feeling i get to keep trying ?
should i just let it go, and stop trying to text him etc . and see if it's is actually ment, on its own ?
should i keep on trying ?
or should i forget about it all together , and see what happens from there ? :S
any other suggestions would be great alsoo,
thanks (: (L) !
L,
First of all, I've been in a very similar situation. We were the same age as you-and for some reason we fell into love.
I think that because you guys were able to separate for practical reasons even though you still loved each other shows that you have something real. If you both feel that it will work out in the end and be okay-maybe you should trust your instincts..especially if you agree on them.
If he likes another girl, he likes another girl. I say let it run it's course and whatever happens happens. Cool down for a bit, delete him from your contacts, and BE separated if that is what you two chose to do. Take time to reflect, take yoga classes, and most importantly-write down what you're feeling- especially because you feel like you change your mind about him a lot.
Maybe after a few months, you can feel more solidly about your relationship with him, and talk to him about it.
Good luck!
emma
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