So theres this girl im head over heels for. I dont know why but im just naturally attracted to her. I drive 20 minutes to see her without even thinking about the costs or anything. Ive known her since the beginning of the summer and im 17 and ive actually never felt like this before. Ive asked her out but we both have commitment and mental issues, so we [by we i mean her] decided to take it slow. We have had completely different backgrounds, im from england while shes from the farms. She claims she likes me but its impossible to tell, sometimes i feel like giving up and ive tried, but i cant. but she makes me feel at a absolute low once in a while. I hate it. I love her but what she does to me emotionally i hate. I dont like feeling like this. Can someone help me, give me some advice to do? 17/m
you know what i know you may love her and it might be hard but i like you need to tell her that she has to take you or leave you. b/c trust me the thought of losing you will prob. drive her crazy! idk if this help. and do u live in england?
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Ok, so I'm one of those shy guys that doesn't know how to approach a girl...But there's this girl I like, and she's like one of my bestfriends and I don't know how to tell her I like her...Anyone have an ideas??
just tell her in like a little love note
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ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i have just learned that she is leaving my school, to go to another because she wants a change of things. i think i love her and i dont want her to leave, but i am too shy to step up and admit to her my feelings, not that it would change anything, but i just feel like she should know, before she goes that someone is thinking of her. i also feel that that might make things even more aukward between us, and i am really shy when it comes to this stuff. i dont know i was thinking of just going and telling her, but i dont know there is something just keeping me from doing that. maybe a note or something?
if this was me i would want you to like bring me like a little place in the school and just tell her how you feel and if its going well litly kiss her
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17 female
my name is Rachel and my boyfriend roosevelt and i have only been going out for about 3 days and on the first day we started to go out he asked me if he could kiss me and i told him that it would be my first kiss and i would have to think about it first the thing is iam kind of nervous becouse he wants to french kiss me and i've never kissed a boy before much less french kissed a boy and i don't think iam ready since i've only been going out with him for 3 days and i want to know how do i know when iam read to kiss a boy?
if its a big deal then just wait but its really nothing to worry about
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I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?
talk to him....what it going to hurt.
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well i kinda like this guy.. but the thing is my friend amanda and my friend kristen both like him. They dont know that i like him. Amanda thinks that this guy likes her and so do me and kristen. Kristen is really upset cause shes liked him for a while now. Two of my other friends like him. should i even both... cause i like him but it would be aqward if we were going out and than we were hanging out with them cause i would know that thier jelous. Im not even saying that he would even want to go out with me... i dont know what to do..
i dont mean to sound mean but hey go for it.. it not like you friends had done had none anything about their crushs. and it okay for your friends to be jelous of you once in awhile.
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there is this guy at school & he is like real popular. im pretty popular , but there are these 3 girls that all the guys like. and he has gone out with all of them, but i dont think he likes any of them. anyways. i always thought he was hott, but this year he just really matured and i guess i kind of like him. when we talk in school, its usually only for like a minute or two. but he looks at me ALOT. and he is always showin me these love songs that he is listenin to.
the problem is, i dont know what to talk to him about. and im not the type of girl to be like.. so what are you in to? because. ive known just about everyone at my school since i was in kindergarden, except i never really got popular until like 7th grade. ( in 9th grade now ). and we just never talked much then either. so i would sound so stupid to be like.. what are you in to?
What should I do?
hah yea i know what you mean..but hmmm....bting up stuff from the passed and maybe talk about new thing like if he has heard of this band or something...?
not much of a help sorry
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ok, so i know that i love being called beautiful.
but do guys like being called handsome?
or does that sound, like, stupid?
sorry if its kinda a stupid question.
thanks in advance :]
yea well i think thats what guys tell me.lol. and no of your answers are dumb.....if ppl thought that then i guess they shoudnt want to help ppl
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21, f and not US/EN.
I'm really confused and I really need some advice. I hope this question will not be banned or deleted, as far as I can tell it doesn't contain any illegal or obscene content.
So here's the "plot": How would you _mature_ people out there rate a (still) innocent "flirt" with an University teacher? The age range is something like: I'm 21, he's around his 40s. We're both single, we're both geeks in our field and we somehow sympathize each other. Hell, even my colleagues noticed that... Even if they don't know I've been having such a huge crush on this guy for more than a year... Nothing beyond this stage, but I feel it's kind of possible to push this relation to a higher level. (He seems to be a very shy and sensitive guy so I guess I shall be the one to do the first step - *if* there'll ever be a first step, that is...) What are your thoughts on this? Could this be considered "un-ethical"? Or bad, or... whatever?
I'd appreciate your feedback, since I can't think of anyone to whom I could ask this question.
dont do it it just going to be a big mess i would just say do nothing go to a party and find someone elese..you can get kicked out and he can loose his job!
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Ok theres this guy who likes me, but apparently all his other g.f's have made the first move and hes just gone along with it. Since hes the one who first liked me, i want to make him long for me...you know? how can i drive him crazy, like what can i say or do (we work together)to get him to act on his feelings?
okay guys look to chase girls. so if you know if he like you for sure...play hard to get..talk to him alot but dont look to needy..but on your sexiset offit.....dont act annoying....act hot....touch his arm and then when your talking to him get like close to his face like you about to kiss him then when he like into it pull away.....that will totaly get him.
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I was at this party-hang out type thing (christian group) and there was this random guy there. he was a senior in high school (I'm a freshman) and he went to a completely different school. i didn't even know his name, and he was like...all over me. he picked me up at one point until i made him put me down. it was ridiculously creepy. And his hand was wayyyy too close to my butt. i was so uncomfortable and he wouldn't leave me alone! i don't know what to do if he shows up at the next party/get together. HELP!?
well if he is there just act lik hesnot maybe he just thought he was folling around. so next time you c him just hang out with your friends and tell them what happend i am sure they will tell him to leave you alone.....just dont be scared
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