I'm a violist / artist / programmer who can't make up her mind about her major in college. Too many choices, all of them good. I know that computer science will be in there, but beyond that I'm not positive.
I love Veggie Tales and want to go into computer animation. Someday. Other dreams include playing a concerto with a professional orchestra and going to Europe and visiting all the cool art museums.
I'm pretty good with computer hardware issues, having built my own computer from scratch. I also know a bit of troubleshooting, so I'll give it my best shot.
The only job I've ever held is that of a lifeguard, and I've been doing that for almost three years now.
In addition to all this, I'm learning to be a pretty decent Ramen noodle chef.
I'll do my best to answer any questions you would like to ask. :)
Website: Rebel Chick
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: college student / lifeguard
Age: 19
AIM: downwithhydrogen
Yahoo: bananacreampi
MSN: swordofthejedi@yahoo.com
Member Since: October 16, 2003
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Is it wrong to wait on a person? I mean, if you're not sure that you would even end up with this person. I mean, there are things that make it seem like you would, or that there is a definent possability...Ah. Help. (link)
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It's not wrong to wait on a person, but don't let that blind you to other possibilities, either. I guess it all depends on how patient you are- hang on, it could be a long wait. Some long waits, however, are well worth it.
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All of my freinds have guys that like them and their all going out and everything. As far as I know nobody likes me. How can I find out if anyone does? Or how can I get somone to like me. Its verry annoying when all of my freinds are always going out and I'm always at home. (link)
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I went through this phase my sophomore year of high school, when my best friend had a couple of boyfriends and I remained 100% single. I had just come out of a bad experience with a guy, and I just wanted a nice guy to chill and do stuff with. I talked myself into liking this one guy (who, the next two years would be my stand partner in orchestra), but it was NOT the best idea. a) As I got to know him, it became apparent we would drive each other insane. b) He had this tendency to be an arrogant little prick, which took me a few months to discover.
You can go ahead and start scoping guys out, but save yourself some heartbreak and get to know them first.
Guys can be really good friends. Dating isn't even really important until you're at college, and even there it's not paramount (after all, you're paying out your ears to be learning). So don't feel like you have to be dating now.
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Ok, I'm in college and I want the fine ladies to know they are fine and that I know they are fine. How do I go about this? (link)
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Don't come on to hard. Treat them like ladies. Open doors for them if the oppertunity presents itself. But don't like, follow her back to her dorm. That's creepy. Trust me on this one.
Also- don't call every night if you don't have a reason to. That's also really creepy. It could make a girl live on the edge of paranoia. You may find out a month later that every time the phone rang she was tempted to dive under her desk for cover, for fear it would be you calling, and she'd never get off the phone.
Believe me, this is the voice of experience talking. Stalkers, even ones who don't mean to be stalkers and have no ill intentions, are creepy and annoying. Please don't be one.
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so i like this guy. teh only problm is that he is an atheist and i am a christian. but we talk all the time n he makes me laugh. i cant explain it we just click. will the whole religion thing be a bg deal? (link)
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I tend to think that if you don't share the same faith, that's a pretty basic thing to share. And if you can't share that, in the end, what do you have? Even my roommate agrees with me on this point, and she's not a Christian. You should definitely stick to your own faith for dating relationships. This isn't to say you can't be friends, in fact, I strongly encourage the friendship!
But yes, the religion should be a big deal for you. Maybe not for him, but it should be for you. I can't even imagine dating someone who doesn't believe in any of the same things I do. It can be the cause of much strife- like I recall being offended when one of my guy friends blew off my Bible study as unimportant (since I wouldn't skip it to go to a concert with him and his friends). Honestly, you'll be happier in the long run if you two are just friends.
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I have been going out with this boy for 4 mnths and i really care about him. I feel like everything thats going wrong in school or home i take it out on him and he will think i'm acting to bitchy and i'm scared of him breaking up with me. what should i do? (link)
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I have this with one of my best guy friends. Whenever life in general pisses me off, I generally end up ranting at him about it. Usually this is because he says something stupid to make me angry, though the past couple times it's been because he asked me how I was doing and I told him exactly how I felt about the world as we know it. I used to feel bad about yelling at him all the time, but we've come to the understanding that it's nothing personal against him on my part, I'm just a fairly emotional person who needs to let that sort of stuff vent. If you yell at him one day, just be sure to apologize the next. Eventually he'll realize the same thing my friend did. At least we can all hope so.
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Everybody in my school has already had like 10 boy/girl friends... I've had none. Thats right... zip, zero, zilch! They all say how great it is to be hooked up, and they always have someone to dance with at activity nite. I have nobody!
Sincerely,
BoyCrazy (link)
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THOU SHALT NOT NEED A BOYFRIEND. Seriously, no. I went through a phase where I *thought* I needed one, when a bunch of my other friends were getting boyfriends, but here's the end result: both the guys I liked turned out to be jerks (and this became apparent before I ever got the chance to even ask them out). Guys are fun to hang out with and just chill, but there's no reason why anyone ever NEEDS a boyfriend.
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there is this guy who just asked me to homecoming. i dont really like him so i said that i would think about it, and fortunately for me a guy i like asked me and i said yes, now i dont know how to tell him that i am going with someone else because he was really expecting to go with me. how should i tell him i am going with someone else?b (link)
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You should tell him and not delay it anymore than you have to. This happened to me for my senior prom, except I was on the recieving end. It wasn't particularly fun, but one thing I can tell you for sure is that I have a lot more respect for this guy today because he was honest with me. It was a slightly different situation, but he still had to get the guts up to tell me. It was worth it.
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If you're too shy to ask someone out in person is it creepy to write them a note? (link)
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In my experience, talking face-to-face is always a much better form of communication than a letter. Letters can be read over and over, analyzed, and misanalyzed. That and they're much more impersonal. Sometimes they're just fine, but certain things should be done in person. Among these are a) asking someone out b) 'fessing up and apologizing c) conflict management, and d) I don't really have a fourth one, but the answer wanted an option d.
You can write him a note saying you wish to talk to him, but I reccommend against asking him out in a note.
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