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13/f ok so i like this boy lets call him T. since 6th grade. and mi friend has like him for 2 years. well she REALLY likes him. so she invited him to a party and he was the only boy tht showed up. and she likes him and he likes her. but i would ask him out before her if i wasn't short and fat and unatractive. kuz i really like him. becauce he is a good student sweet guy and just really nice. shes fianlly gonna ask him out tomorow. what do i? i hate being jealous because he is soooooooooo nice. and i REALLY like him!
please help me i really wanna ask him out, but i dunno what to do. please help!!! on how to act and what to do.

Eek ! Well, Maybe you should talk to your friend about it before she actually does it. I am sorry; but if you and him are meant to be together then it'll happen. EVERYTHING happens for a reason ! GOOD LUCK :D

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15/F
I've liked this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago I found out that he likes me back. A group of my friends and one of my closest friends friends (Sorry if that's confusing) met up at the mall yesterday, and I found out from my friend that he's bisexual. And I still like him. I just don't know if I would want to go out with him anymore. I don't have anything against people who are bisexual, it's just that I've never dated a guy like that before and I don't If I would want to. Am I being unfair? I'm so confused. What should I do?

it shouldn't affect your answer because he likes you too, so what's the worst that could happen ?

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i like this guy named sevvy. we're in 8th grade and we talk almost every night on this other kid, randall's forum. about a week ago we were discussing religion on there from 11:00 PM to 2:00 AM. we have different views on religion, but we both made each other think. i told him we should talk like that in person and he said "actually i was thinking the same thing". we only have one class together and hardly ever talk, but he says random things to me more than he used to, and maybe he just thinks we're better friends now. but i actually like him. and he's kind of nerdy so maybe he thinks i wouldn't like him or something. but i don't know if i should tell him or not, it might make me seem like a fool. please help!

I think you should tell him; it won't hurt to tell him what he may or may not doesn't know. He will find out eventually. Good Luck ! :D

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