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I am a guy and am usually random I can usually help my friends and play cupid but when it comes to my own love life I can have problems but I can get through. I will help anyone who needs help so just ask guys or girls but im mainly good at friends or love life dilemmas
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Ok i would like for guys to answer my question but girls can too i guess....
#1 If you like a girl how do you show it?
#2 Do you like girls that play hard to get, or flirt?
#3 Do you like girls that actually come out and say they like you to your face, have someone else tell you, or just keep it secret?
#4 Do you like to find out that one of your {girl} friends like you or someone you dont talk to?
#5 If you really say you are a girls friend and you meant it and you find out they like you will you stop talking to them?

Ok sorry i asked so many questions i am really confused lol.

Thank abunch!
XOXO (link)
#1 If you like a girl how do you show it?
Depends on if the guy is shy or not. He'll probabley stare or smile or say hi when ever he sees you.
#2 Do you like girls that play hard to get, or flirt? Hard to get gets really annoying i'd say just flirt.
#3 Do you like girls that actually come out and say they like you to your face, have someone else tell you, or just keep it secret? Yes that would be a lot easier and not as much pressure, but make sure the guy likes you.
#4 Do you like to find out that one of your {girl} friends like you or someone you dont talk to? Depends really
#5 If you really say you are a girls friend and you meant it and you find out they like you will you stop talking to them? No, you may like her back


15/f hello...well, recently in class, the people around me and I were discussing relationships. and then somehow...it got to "hookups." what's the difference? and also..how come when I told people that I've never had a hookup, their reaction was "O_O" lol...? are hookups considered bad or something? thank you in advance [= (link)
Hooking up mainly means like making out but your not dating or anything


I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?

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That is a real problem freshman to senior well it wouldn't hurt talking to him but make it casual not like flirty cause hes probabley mature if hes intimidating. At least be friendly and not giggle a lot.


15/f

soo, yeah..theres this boy, named jordan. & like everyone tells me he likes me, i posted a thing awhile ago, with the signs.. asking if he liked me. i had like 15 answers saying he did. Hes really shy though. So like.. idno. I'm not one of those people.. who wait forever for someone. & i know alot of other boys who like me. so i wanna just get him to ask me out or something. im basically going to my friendds party well.. its like half makeout party, & half just hang out with your friends... like, were gonna play seven minutes in heaven & stuff.. & so anyway, i basically,want him to like me after this party. i don't really just want to blurt out i like you in the middle of a party. but im also not shy.. so i'm up for anything =)

what should i do?
should i wait for him to come to me?
[hes never had a girlfriend so hes most deff. shy]
should i like make the first move?

ahh help.! (link)
first move and if you want him to like u somehow in some iono way get the bottle to land on him to see if you like him


My boyfriend just got braces, and I don't blame him because they're really hard to clean but... His breath STINKS!!! everytime we kiss it's like *Faint*. How can I tell him he has bad breath without hurting his feelings? (link)
if he really likes u hell understand u both can actually laugh about it or give him a mint


okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do (link)
wow some may call you a slut some a whore and if your going out with him just to get to his friend you r screwed in the head sry but someone had to say it just stop messing with his feeling and break up with him because if he finds out....i dont even want to got there


I really need help. Ok there's this guy I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. Well, I think he likes me because his friend told my brother that he likes me. And all the signs are there too. But there's something telling me I shouldn't like him. I don't know why though. I mean we're friends, his brother is friends with my brother, he's really nice, cute, funny, and a great athelete. But I have a feeling that something bad will happen if he finds out that I like him and we start going out. What should I do?

P.S. I'm 13 (link)
haha well im a hopeless romantic but here it is if he looks at u, always shows off in front of u, or anything like that it means he likes u.... or you could straight up ask him "do you like me" it would be awkward but it has worked so do what ever you heart tells ya


every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single (link)
wtf is wrong with u sry to go all out like that but seriously thats abuse and i hate when that happens ! dont let it happen how can they really be ur friends they are fags


Ok i want to makeout with my booyfriend before he moves away forever to a different country. Weve been together for 2 years its great it took awhile for a first kiss but not a true kiss just a peck on the lips. Now i want to makeout but dont think he even knows how and is like really shy i dont want to force him to do something he doesnt want to but i really want to makeout with him. What should i do? (link)
Okay well im a guy so I no this type of thing there are a few things you can do
1. ask him he will go with it
2. just do it again he will go with it
3. start with a kiss and move in to making out


Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks. (link)
Well i'm a guy and making the first move isn't easy... and if you don't want to make it in front of people or you'll get nervous. find out if she has a screen name or right her a note. If that doesn't work you have to talk to her on the bus in front of everyone cause if you truly like her then you will take the embarassment




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