When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a closer look, most likely, you turned your back on the world.
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Location: Indiana
Age: 15
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ok im 15 and im a girl so listen up .. ive gone all the way and i mean a hit a definate home run and im just really confused about who i am because i always say im done drinking and smoking but i know thats wat i really want to do. and i also say that im done literally screwing around with every guy im with .. but i know that something like that will probably will happen this weekend .. i really dont know wat i want to do and i dont think ive exactly found myself yet .. im so comfused and i dont know wat to do .. (link)
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alright...well if you're worried about screwing around with someone..dont put yourself in the situation...its as simple as that...dont go alone with someone...or if u wanna like just makeout or w/e..this is gonna sound weird...but do soethin like not shaving..then u wont wanna take ur pants off lol..i guess finding yourself is somethin that just takes time..i mean no matter how bad u've fucked up u just gotta take it one day at a time, eveything u hate or regret is somethin u'll never do again BECAUSE you feel that way..shit happens, thats the way life is but just because it does, doesnt mean good things dont happen too and just remember, the faster and farther you run from your past, the more it's gonna cost you when it catches back up with you.
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There's this guy I really like, but he's really wild. I mean really. He's already went all the way and he's only 14. I've only been kissed. But he wants to hang out and start "talking" and stuff. He's really fun to be around and really good lookin too. lol. I would love to get to know him better and maybe even date, but I'm afraid it wont work out because I'm not as advanced as him, but should I give it a shot anyway? (link)
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i'd go ahead and go for it, the way you talk about him makes him sound like he's a really cool guy, as long as you're sure he won't pressure you into anything you don't want to do. make sure he knows you don't want to do anything you're not ready for , and, if he can agree on thatm you two should be great!
xoxo Ren
p.s. bad boys can be the most fun!
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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy? (link)
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oo around his neck is where you should put your hands, and i wouldnt say something to a guy if i were you, just wait, he'll kiss you, or better yet, you kiss him!
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Hey im becky...im 14. ive got a major problem
i went out with this kid for 8 mons and we shared everything together, i mean the relationship was perfect. He was always there for me and he didnt care what other people thought. i loved that about him. But when his crazy mother put an end to our relationship he didnt even wana try to make it work. Now hes in Florida playing basketball and i did a no no with his brother. But i regret it because the only reason i did it was because he reminded me so much of my boyfriend. I cant get over my boyfriend and i think hes well over me but its only been maybe a week... Help!!!!
thanksss.. (link)
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i'd say just work your way through it, most likely, it wasn't even anything personal, i mean there was you, who im sure he loved and cared about alot, but he has to LIVE with his mother for the REST OF HIS LIFE, if he didn't love you more than that, drop him, he's not worth it. as for with his brother, as long as you and the first guy aren't dating, you're free to do w/e the hell you two want.
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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend? (link)
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Yeah, you shoulda left the first time...but it's not too late now, if he threatens to kill himself either mention it to someone if you think he sounds serious, or just don't pay attention, if you matter that much to him that he'd kill himself without you, why is he cheating on you?
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My boyfriend and I are always having problems. I'm thinking that I should just totally cut him for good. I'm sick of breaking up, then him begging for me back and then me actually giving in. I do love him but I think it would be so much better if we just stopped going out and didn't even see eachother. Everyone says he's no good anyway and I'm just trying to be strong about it. Any advice to help me stay strong and not cry over him anymore? (link)
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WHOA! the exact same thing happened to me. u just REALLY gotta cut off ALL communication with him. and like...you gotta expect it to hurt...but just call someone up and cry or vent or w/e to them about it...just give it time and it will get better, i PROMISE
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ok my and this guy are in love .... we both have told each other and everything but he hasnt asked me out .... i think its becuase hes afraid to get hurt like he did with his last g/f but i dunno .... i love him so much .... its pathetic we fight over who loves the other and everything ... i met him online and have not met him in person .... but we are planning to meet when we get older .... we are 15 .... and dont say thats to young to love becuase if you have ever loved you would know you can love at any age technically (sp?) can someone help me with him .... and i aint askin him out (i rate) (link)
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well first off, if you met him online, just be careful, but if you cant tell what he's thinkin , ASK, just be like "well what do you think abt makin this exclusive?" , you dont have to ask him out, just like find a way to ask his opinion on the two of you ever dating in the near future, chances are if you bring it up, he'll take a hint and ask you
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Ok i went over to my friends house the other day and her neighbor who i go to high school with is really hot. Well we invited him over to go swimming and just hang out and watch movies. well he was there from 6:00 p.m. till 1:00a.m. The whole time he called me snuggle buggle and we shared our food together and he would get on the bed and put his arm around me and i layed on his back. We just sat there and cuddled. He would say how he wished he could find a girlfriend but come on he is totally hott. Do you think that he likes me or is he just a big flirt. (link)
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most likely he likes you. even if he was just flirtin that means he had some sort of interest in you, and if he does maybe he's waiting to see if you'll make a move for him b/c he doesn't wanna go for you in case you don't like him. go get him, don't waste time worrying about it!
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imma 14 year old girl..Soo..i guess i need advice on this one. I met this guy at camp..and after meeting up a little while after camp we started to like each other. i mean he's a great guy..nice, funny, and mighty fine!! only problem is..he lives like 20-25 min. away on like a highway..and he's so shy so i donno if anything will happen. soo jump on it, or wait it out? (link)
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go for it! u don;t want someone else to get him do ya? and depending on how old he is, maybe he can drive to see you soon enough!
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sum guy led me on and i liked him for 2 yrs but hes a big ass flirt n he changed a lot i cant talk to him i love him um how do i get over him? PLEASE HELP ME ILL JUST GIVE OUT 5S ILL DO WHATEVER IM IN SERIOUS PAIN I SERIOUSLY CONSIDER CUTTING MYSELF BUT IM TOO SCARED SO IK I WONT PLEASEEEEEE HELP
thanx (link)
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go out and meet other guys! even if you're not serious with the first couple! just go date! and don't cut yourself, it'll leave nasty scars.
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