My names Jenny. I have a boyfriend named cody and we've been going out since march 17th, 2006. over 2 years. I love him to death and would do anything for him. I love to give people advice, and i love to get advice when i have a problem. Need advice or help, just ask me and hopefully i can help you with your problem.
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Hello Everyone:
I would to ask all of you something. Why does it seem like it's hard for good guys like me who dosen't, smoke, drink or do any of that bad stuff to find a right girl for him? It seems like there are a lot of girls out there who are nothing but trouble and always want want want all the time. I do not like girls who are always wanting stuff all the time. And it seems like all the good nice looking girls already have boyfriends. What is up with this? (link)
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Well, its sad to say, but most girls like bad guys. I honestly dont. I love the decent ones who dont do bad stuff. And all the good ones already have boyfriends because there are barely any good girls out there anymore, and other guys got to them first. Dont worry though, some good girl will notice that your a nice guy and wanna be with you.
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ok so i am with this girl we have been dating for a while now and things are absoloutly amazing i love her so much.... so whats the problem? well ok i am 15 years old ill be 16 on june 22 but my gf is.... 13 and in seventh grade i dont see whats so wrong with that but my dad hates it and no one approves not even my best friend... but i love her so much plese help someone idk what to do..... (link)
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Dont worry about what your family and friends think of her. just cause they're not happy doesnt mean anything. cuz in the end, if you end up dumping her, all you did was made everyone else happy, besides yourself. and how you feel is what truely matters. i think you should just tell your friends and family that you love her and they're gonna have to get over the fact that shes younger. if they cant accept it, then they're gonna have to deal with it.
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Hey, thanks in advance -
I'm 14/f. My boyfriend of 2-ish months just turned 16.
He's a really cool guy, and he's totally chill about our relationship, as am I. But, the thing is, for the past week/a little longer, after school he usually tries to give me a goodbye kiss. He usually says something like, "alright, well I gotta get going...I have to go see 'so-and-so teacher'," or something. then he gives me a nice hug, which i like :) But then, he's tried to lean in and give me a quick kiss, which I know most people would be completely normal with...but I just tend to be really personal about those things, I guess. So, there always happen to be lots of people in the hall right there, and I'm really not a fan of PDA...I guess I just don't feel comfortable with that at this point. Kissing in front of others, I mean. I like hugging. I'm all for that =P.
Anyway...I feel like such an awful person, because I have been soo nervous when he's tried, as in...I just don't know how to tell him I'm not into that, without sounding mean or anything.
So, instead...Ive kind of just been turning my head..kind of just turning around, looking around or something...I really feel terrible about this.
I just don't know how to bring it up, and I'm sure he'd be totally understanding and cool about it. But I know he PDA'd quite a bit with his last girlfriend ( of like, 2 years...the only other girlfriend he's had). So, I think he's just used to it. See, I'm not...I'm all for it in private.
Let's just say I'm more into pDA with a lowercase "p"...if you know what i mean =p
Thanks so much - i have to bring it up to him, but i'm afraid he'll try to do it again before i get a chance to talk to him alone. and I definitely don't want him to think that i don't like him anymore!!! which is what i'm afraid will happen, since i keep kind of avoiding the kiss...
how do i bring it up? what do i say/do?
thank you sooo much!!!
:) :) :) (link)
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just tell him that you'd love to kiss him, just not in front of everyone just yet. maybe after a little while longer of dating you'll feel comfortable with it. but for now, ask him if it'd be alright if you guys did that stuff during your alone time.
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okay so my boyfriends parents don't like me, and i don't know what i did for them to hate me so much. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months. I have only gone to his house 2 and he's been to mine 2 and he said his parents really hate me and they act nice when im around but when im not i guess they talk crap about me? i really cant understand why, its mainly his mom, i say hello to her and offer to help with stuff. My boyfriend thinks its because she is blaming the fact that he has bad grades on me? but my boyfriend has had bad grades since before we went out and i don't even have any classes with him so i know im not effect him and he said so himself i wasn't the reason, he just doesn't do anything. His mom lets his little 13 year old sister go out and hang out with her boyfriend all the time she just wont let him hang out with me.. i really cant think of anything why she could hate me i didn't do anything wrong? How can i get her to like me or at least approve of her sons relationship with me?? (link)
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well, i would have to agree with jessica. it is about you and your boyfriend. Maybe they favor his sister cuz shes younger. His parents will have to accept you sooner or later, and if not, then at least you and your boyfriend are happy. dont stress over it hun its okay. my parents hated my sisters boyfriend and she did not care. she is just happy that her and her boyfriend are inseparable. and now that they've been goin out for a while, they have actually come to like him. they just have to get to know you more
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