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he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?

16/f

he probably does still care about you & love you, but you shouldn't love him back. care for him as a friend, but more than that? no. he cheated on you, so maybe he's realizing what he's missing. tell him that his jealosy is really annoying & that he's got who he wants, so he should really stop with the games.

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me and my bf broke up like a week ago. i broke up with him actually because things were getting really serous and i never liked him in the first place. i liked that he liked me and he liked that i liked him. well wehenever we could hang out i wouldent be so into him but afterwards when i was thinking about it i did like him so basically i liked the idea of him. 2 days after we broke up he asked out my bestest friend. she asked me if it was okay. me and her are 100% truthful with eachother and i really was okay with it so i said it was fine. he was what youd call a "good boyfriend" who never forgot to call me back and whatever. now whenever i see them dancing at partys or whatever it kinda hurts because i knew 2 weeks ago that was me. i dont want him and i dont mind him not liking me, i just dont want him to like anyone else. how do i get over this? most of the time im good just being with my friends but somtimes it really gets me. its kind of bringing down my self confidence and i hate it because i used to think i was the hottest thing ever. if your gonna be mean about any of this please dont answer. thank you

don't take this the wrong way, but, you're not the hottest thing ever. nobody is what they think they are. they're not better than anyone else, prettier than anyone else, or smarter than anyone else. nobody's hot shit or the hot shot. nobody's the best or the coolest. nobody is. so nobody should be flattering themselves & making themselves out to be more than they truly are.

it sounds to me you just like being liked. you'll get over it eventually. he's not with you, so you shouldn't care about it. you told her you were fine with it, but now you miss being liked. i'm sure someone else likes you, but you just don't know it. and before you date someone, make sure you really like them first.

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ok soo there's this boy who likes my friend.. and he told me that he's going to ask her out tommorow since its valentines day tommorow... well he's always flirting with me.. like he'll tickle me and hug me.. and my friend told me that she doesn't like him.. and he probobly likes me... but im not sure.. and im confused.. i've never had a valentine/ boyfriend so yah...

so what should i do? i need an answer a.s.a.p.

he might have just told you that so he'll surprise you when he asks you out. i think he likes you, but if not, then he's just a little friendly & you should let him know that if he's not interested, then he shouldn't send off the wrong vibes.

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something happened with my boyfriend (ive been dating him for almost 3 years) and his dad and now he's moving to his mom's house in indiana (i live in illinois). what can i do to not be so upset over this? i'm afraid he's going to forget about me and leave me for someone else.

if you're still under eighteen, then get a job & save up all of your money. when he's eighteen or when you're eighteen, you can move there or he can move back to illinois & you guys can have an apartment together.

until then, write lots of letters & emails. talk on the phone a lot, and use IM to talk too. and trust your boyfriend. if he's stayed with you this long, i doubt he wants anybody else. a relationship is nothing without trust, honesty & communcation. and love of course.

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So...I am 15 (soon to be 16) and this past Saturday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 months. His Dad found out and now I have a feeling that he is going to tell my mom. I want to tell her. I really do, but I think that she will be really disappointed in me. I was going to tell her tonight but I couldn't do it. Something told me that it wasn't a good idea, but then I get the feeling that I should because if she finds out from his dad, then she will be even more disappointed in me for the fact that I didn't tell her myself. I don't think she'll trust me ever again. And I have a feeling that she won't want me to see him anymore. I can already see what she is going to say. "You're only 15." or "How could you be so stupid?" or she will call me a slut...I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? Or not...

if you don't want his dad to do it before you, or at all, tell her yourself. because you're right, she will be more disappointed in you if she hears it from someone else & not the person she was supposed to hear it from.

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