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Hey, I love getting and giving advice, so anyone including guys, gals, or whatever can get advice (and give) anytime! I appreciate it, and will always give you a respectful answer! Luv ya lots, Chicitatoxalot! :)

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Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.

Why should you care if someone else says or thinks something about you. If you like someone, you shouldn't be ashamed of it even if you are shy. I know how it feels to be that way, I just recently changed, and I am a very outgoing person now. Just become friends with him at first. Invite him to go with you somewhere or something. (If your parents don't want you dating, then tell them that you're just going out with your friends... DONT LIE TO THEM!!! Really go with your friends, they'll help to break the ice with him.) Maybe you could get to know him by writing e-mails or something.
Best of Luck,
Chicitatoxalot :) Love ya lots!!!

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I really like this guy, he usually stares at me during the classes we have together but my friend asked him if he liked me and he said no because i have small eyes! what do i do to this kid so he likes me?!! please help!! wb asap!

IF the guy doesn't like you for your "small eyes" then he doesnt deserve you. Someone who looks at you and judges you for your personallity is just a stereotypical tyrant. You need to be confident about who you are. The thing I'm worried about is that the guy might just be using that as an excuse. USe the brown, tan, and beige colors if you really need to excentuate your eyes.
luv ya,
Chicitatoxalot!

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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean?

Well, this might not be very helpful, but do you like him back. I had this exact same problem, except I was the one who liked the X... I told my friend, and she was a little steamed at first, but then she realized that her relationship was over and that she couldn't keep him forever. As far as I was concerned she was (and still is) one of my best friends. Since we were (are) so close, she understood. but the guy didn't like me anyway, and you know what, they almost got back together again after I asked him out! Maybe if you get your friend and him to be friends again, they can get back together. A happy ending for all of you. right?

Oh yeah! If you don't like him, tell him! It'll get him off your back, and onto someone else's... sorry, that sounded really crule...

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