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I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. I grabbed a tissue and got up to throw it away..I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled at him he was all smiling at me oh and prior to that he wispered something to his friend...

my big question is do you think he was trying to flirt with me?

do you think he's interested?

what should i do now?

Yes he was probably flirting with you. Hopefully he didnt do something bad to the strawberry though and was tricking you ( thats a worst case sanerio though) :] How much older is he than you. If he's whispering to his friend and smiling at you he was probably talking about you. I think he was trying to flirt with you. Thats just my opinion though. Do you like him? Just because someone flirts with you doesnt mean you have to act on it. Just next time you feel hes flirting with you strait up ask him ( Are you flirting with me) That will catch him by surprise. :]
hope i could help

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We'll, let's see I'll start off with my age and gender. I'm a seventeen year old female. I've had a rough time with this thing called "love". I thought I had loved two people within the past four years. The first was too controlling so I forced myself out of that relationship, got over her meaning I never really did "love" her. The second was abusive and controlling, this time I wasn't the one to end the relationship. I stuck around getting hurt for six months with this girl, I fell for her within the first week or so, and she broke up with me. I know that wasn't love because as much as she may ahve hurt me she taught me that love is a two way street. Each person has to return the favour. In my case she lost interests in me. Now I also believe that anyone can "fall in love" but it takes two to "be in love." Now I've got a new girlfriend. I've been with her for a month in a week from now. She's not abusive, she's sweet, adorable and actually treats me equally. My only problem here is, she has an ex girlfriend. Whom was the only girl she ever told she "loved" and meant it with all her being. They dated for about four months and the girl dumped her without any hints I'd suppose. Then was majorly harsh to her. Sadly, the girl isn't a threat, she passed away about two year's ago from an OD. But my current girlfriend still loves her. After just leaving my last relationship, and thinking I was in love has me confused about what love really is. With this newer girl I feel so comfortable around her, and sometimes just feel that I love her, and the feeling comes to just say it naturally. But of course, I don't, knowing for sure she doesn't share those feelings back. I'm worried I'll "fall in love" with this girl, and if I tell her she might leave me or something because of her past. I'm also afraid to get hurt again so close to just getting hurt. I'm not sure whether or not to tell the girl I'm with all of this, and wing it, at least then she'd know. Or sit around not telling her, and see if her feelings for me grow any stronger.

Sweetie you cant stop yourself from falling in love if you fall in love with her it was just meant to be. You dont have to compete with the deseased. Let your girlfriend know how you feel she may be worried about the very same thing i also know where you are comming from. I've THOUGHT i was in love twice. I had a 3 year relationship and the other was 7 months. I really got to the point where i didnt think i could live without that person but you know when that person is gone you tend to grow farther from them. You will never really know what love is untill you find that one that just really stops your heart. After those two relationships i thought i could never fall in love again. (the truth is actually i didn't want to fall in love again) I was sick of being hurt. Two years later i met an amazing guy, i expected us to just date for a little bit and it would be over. Well we are going on our 3rd year now and i truley know what love is. The moral of this story is just dont be afraid to fall in love again, dont shut someone out just because of your past experiences. Who knows you may really have the love of your life right now. Just dont force it. Love falls into place beautifully and when your truley in love you will know.

*catieannmiller
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Thanks but its not about me :], i hope everything works about for the best for you. If not DON'T give up. LOVE will find you when you least expect it.

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So there is this guy, he's my 2nd and he lives far away. he might be able to come to where i live soon and i recently asked him how far he would go with me and he knows that i want him to go to second i wanna know what bra [eg back close, front close], t-shirt etc would would be best to wear for make-out sessions
13 female if that helps
seriously i love this guy, the only reason that we would break up is if he broke up with me

I think your a little to young for this but it seems this generation is growing up faster than i did. (im 18) Your saying hes your second meaning (kiss) or (sex) If you are having sex please be carefull. ALWAYS HAVE A CONDOM. What clothes you wear really doesn't matter just make sure you have fresh breath haha :]
but seriously be very carefull

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Ok so my crushes brother is about to tell me he likes me, and he doesn't know that I already know since he's so bad at keeping shut with a secret now I really don't want him to like me more than a friend because then my crush will obviously find out and then will respect his brothers feelings and stop flirting, talking, etc with me how do I turn him down nicely without sounding mean and still keep our friendship?

Just let him down lightly tell him that you really like him as a friend and you wouldn't want to jepardized the friendship that yall have. If he's not good at keeping things to himself its a possibility that he has already told "your crush". Dont sweat it though if your crush really likes you he want let some little crush his brother has affect yalls relationship.

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Okay well my boyfriend is going to be out of town for 3 days. I have been checkin out this really hot guy and I have the feeling he's into me so how should I approach hanging out with him? Should I be like Hey ___, _____ is out of town we should hang out! Or what that would be kind of weird. How should I approach this!!

So, What are you looking to do with this guy. If you want to be with someone else whats the point that your even with your boyfriend. First break up with your boyfriend or else you'll look like a liar,cheater and a skank. So think about what your doing. Don't be so quick to make decisions.

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It doesn't matter if thats the answer you were looking for. What did you wan't me to say... Oviouslly if you know the answer you WANT you already know the answer.

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ok i like this boy and he likes me to he told that to my face and then said to me that he didnt want to go out with me because he thinks ima going to get as fat as my sister but im not and my sister aint even that big so some one help me and please dont tell me to forget him theres other fish in the sea because i cant forget him its like hes part of me now and i cant get away from him i see him every where i go and i cant avoid him so please some one help me before i go crazy!!!!!!:[

Okay first of all if hes worried your going to get "fat" you don't need to be with a guy like that AT ALL. So basically hes saying if yall did happen to date and you gained weight he would no longer date you. You deserve someone who isn't shallow. Your 13 right? Focus more on school and doing things for yourself. You have the rest of your life for boys.

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

OK for starters, if he's your best friend you shouldn't care what people think about yall as a couple. but if you really arent ready for a relationship let him know how u feel.. u cant let him standing in the dark.. you wont be breaking his heart, you'll be giving him Your feeling and if he cant accept that then he's not that great of a friend then.. I've been in your place PLeanty of times.. i had a friend named cody, well we decided to become more than friends one day and things were going great till we got in a big argument..and i lost him so not only was i loosing a Boyfriend I was loosing a BEST FRIEND... and we havent talked since...and i regret ever being more than friends w/ him now!!!
just do what your heart leads you to do..
+*+*catie+*+* Goodluck**

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

Well in this case he hasnt said he likes you back .. and you cant force a relationship to happen. if he knows you like him and he hasnt done anything about it then he's probally shy OR hes just not intrested..no offince to you but some things just cant be forsed.. but you can try by getting to know him a little ..ya know to grab his attention.. that might work for you.
+*+*catie+*+* goodluck

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

Ok here the plan .... Ok first get up the nerve to tell him....then confront him when he's NOT around his friends (guys tend to git cocky around their friends) and DONT just bust out with hey i like You... let him know your into things he is and that You'd think it would be great if yall could hang out sometime...and im sure u can take things from there.............ps...if things dont work out w/ it, he'll at least accept the fact that your open and can express your feeling on an openly level and he'll respect you for that!
+*+*catie+*+*+* GOODLUCK!!

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