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Im a friendly, bubbly confident girl with an outgoing personality and a good sense of humour.
i am very ambitious and hope to one day have my own writing column. Im very sociable and enjoying spending time with my family and friends. I have a daughter who's 3 years old and i love doing fun activities together and making life long memories together :). I like going to festivals, bars, reading, and writing my blogs and advice blogs.
i like outdoor activities too aswell as swimming and watching my fav movies and tv programmes :)
i am a great listener and i am very open minded to things. Im very trustworthy and try and help give advice or just listen to people who confine in me. I have been through alot in my life and i would like to give advice and help others as best as i can. My column is to give people advice with whatever problems they may have, and i will try my best to help them. I will give advice from anything such as sex, relationships to parenting, friendship's, family to jobs and housing :)
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Age: 21
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Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do? (link)
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Feeling lost in a relationship can be very hard and stressful on someone, but you need to ask yourself is this relationship worth surviving and if so then you need to have a serious conversation with her, ask her why she wants to always fight with you? And if she wants the relationship to work. Once you know why she is acting like this whether you are doing something unintentionally or she just stressed whatever it is you will know what the next step is you also need to make her aware of how she is making you feel it is very important. But if you ask yourself if it isn't worth surviving then you need to make the next step of going your seperate ways.
Hope this helps and i hope it works out whatever you choose to do.
Carrey Anne x
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Me and my boyfriend have just started dating, and he already wants a kid. I am 17 and he is 18, I love kids, BUT I'm not 100% I'm ready. I am a girl to likes to go out and have fun. Any suggestions on how to handle it? (link)
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Firstly you both have only been dating not long so having a child isn't a wise idea as having a child can cause alot of pressure into a relationship but the main thing is it sounds like he is moving abit fast in your new relationship and that you do not want a child is a fair statement for your age but you need to talk to him about this if you want to carry on in this relationship and just tell him your not ready for a child you feel your to young and want to live life abit more before you consider children, and ask him does he truly think its wise to have a child so young and in such a new relationship? Can you financially bring a child up and support a child? And that will make him think more realistically about the decision. Hope it goes well
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Hey! So I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 23!
So my boyfriend if about 5 and a half years decided to join the navy. This is amazing news and I am very happy for him! He went to normal bootcamp about 2 weeks ago and I've really missed him. I know I have a long road ahead though because his scores actually qualified him to continue after bootcamp and go to California for BUDS, which if he completes will further him on his way to become a navy SEAL.
I'm really happy for him and think this is awesome! Plus I'm just finishing up my senior year in college and will be applying to PA school in December so I've definitely been busy! We've done long distance so I'm used to the not seeing for a bit at some points but am a little scared of not knowing the process.
Has anyone known someone whose gone through this and can tell me if during BUDS they have weekends off? It's 7 months long and I'm wanting to maybe visit! I know I can ask him all of this in a letter but I'm still waiting for my first one. And I also don't want to stress him out too much cause he has so much on his plate.
I wouldn't trade him for the world and I know that this process is just beginning but I thought the support from y'all would help :) I'm really lucky to have such a good family and friends and that I'm a fairly independent person.
Any kind of advice/support will help! Thank y'all for reading and responding! (link)
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I wouldn't stress yourself out about it too much as its only the beginning and if you stressing now what are you going to be like when he gets i to the navy? Long distance can be hard and put pressure on the relationship especially when its lengths of time. He will be able to get a weekend off for you to vist if its 7 months long. But the best advice is to keep yourself busy and maybe try and ring him or get him to ring you if thats possible and that will keep your mind at rest, regular contact whether is over the phone, or internet is always very reassuring. I was with someone in the army and he would go away 9 months to a year at a Time sometimes and i found it hard but what made it better what the regular contact we had whether it was once a week it put my mind and rest. But keep up the support your giving him and it will all fall into place one way or the other, but try and find out about the regular phone calls or internet if he has access ect and your find yourself relax alot more :)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Today is my 23rd birthday and he didn't even get me anything. I don't even want much just something to feel special but no. We have a long distance relationship and I had a party Saturday that he wasn't able to come to because he couldn't afford the 500$ ticket but he was able to go out that night and spend over 100$ on drinks. He told me he feels like an awful boyfriend but then today on my birthday he tells me he's going to the casino on Thursday... So I'm guessing he doesn't feel that awful. On his birthday I made a huge deal I sent him a care package, visited him, and bought dinner and some other things for dessert. But he can't even send a card or anything. Am I just over thinking this and being a brat? Or is it time to rethink my involvement in this one sided relationship (link)
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No you are not being a brat or over thinking this and you have every right to feel that the relationship is all one sides, Before you start considering whether to end your relationship or not i would raise the issue you have within the relationship with him and explain how you feel that you make the effort and that you feel he doesn't make the effort and see what he has to say. You never know he may have a surprise for you as its your birthday. I also think that the long distance is putting some pressure on your relationship as i can relate to this. But you will be able to decide whether you should carry on with this relationship or whether to end it by what he has to say when you raise the issues you are having in this relationship. And on the money side of thing maybe he has a good explanation as to why hes going to a casino when he told you he had no money, but on the other side him going out and spending only £100 and not being able to afford the £500 ticket to your party is a big difference in the price so maybe he had enough to go out but just not enough to get to your birthday, i would speak with him before you make any decisions that you may later regret. I hope this has helped x
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