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Hey everyone my name is Calie. I am 13 years old and I am from Oregon.I have auborn blonde hair and blue eyes. I have a boyfriend and alot of friends,lol. Oh yeah and I am an only child. Also I play the drums.My friends always ask me for advice and whenever I do give it to them it does usually work. I mean I love to help people with problems. I promise you I will help so feel free to ask me for advice. Ciao for now!
~Calie~

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There's this girl in my p.e. class, and I think she might like me. She hugs me every day, and she seemed really excited today when she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. We always joke around, and she's kissed my neck before, just playing around though. The question is, do you think she likes me, should I ask her out, and a random question I'm throwing in: I just got braces, how would making out with someone work?

Well if you like her definately go for it. Also I have braces and if you try to keep your mouth closed and put your lips over your teeth it will be okay. Well Good Luck! *Calie*

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is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you.

Well he needs to hang out wi th you more to get to know you. Just don;t force yourself on him. *Calie*

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ok so im dating this guy well call him ryan but i used to be best friends with this other guy well call him tyler and me n tyler used to stay up on the fone til like 4 in the mornin every nite 4 a year and he was like in love with m e but i was always to busy trying to make him jealous wen i really did like him so anyways last january Tyler pretty much gave up on me and we decided to be friends but it mademe sick i relized what a big mistake ive made and yea then not that long ago tyler told me he loved me but he likes this other girl wat the hell does that mean and i no me n him belong together wat could i do to get him bak and o yea im dating that 1 guy and weve been goin out for like 3 months and he really likes me but all i can think about is "tyler" but i really wana no how i could get him bak

Well first of all you need to tell the guy you're dating the truth. I know it might be hard, but it's the right thing. Then tell Tyler the truth and how you really do like him. Apologize to him and you never know if hes sweet and really does love you. He will consider it. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out Okay. *Calie*

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Well I meet this girl from Duke University who is like a mirror image of me but some things I tell her she has a haard time believing. She is such an amazing girl who I really wanna know everything about and im already falling for her. Any one have ideals on how I can prove myself to her and make her happy cause the number 1 thing I want is her happy. Btw she lives 8 hours away while in school but across the US when not. Hope to hear from ya cause your all such a great bunch of helpers :)

Ask her why she doesn't believe you, and why she would think you're lying. Also tell her if she doesn't believe you that's her problem and that you know what you're saying is true. That might make her realize that you probably aren't lying. Good luck! ~Cal~

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well i like my bf... kinda the think is i just broke up with him and hooked bak up..... and now i am having second thoughts... what do i do?

Well go out with him and see how it turns out, if you still have second thoughts it's probably not the right ting to keep going out with him. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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Picture this:
There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my boyfriend might have been feeling. I don't understand boys... lol. Thanks!
~Elyse

hey you are just not ready, it took me along time to before i first kissed my boyfriend. The thing is I am in 8th grade and I didn't kiss my boyfriend last year so yeah maybe you should wait more. I hope I helped. ~Calie~

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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?

If you like him just say yes if you feel weird about the age difference don't go out with him. but don't say no if you are worried about what people think. ~Calie~

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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!

You need to just tell him. In a nice way, but still seriously. Like just say "How come you keep lying to me?" Or be like "Please stop lying to me, I don't mean to be mean, but you reall y need to stop okay". hope I helped. ~Calie~

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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

He likes you. That's sweet. Just talk to him. ~Calie~

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I really like this boy. (lets call him Popcorn) But...the thing is I met him online. Not in a chatroom. Actually, I met him on advicenators...and...I started talking to Popcorn and we never made a connection really until during this past summer. We started talking a lot on AIM and I really like him. I told him...and he said he likes me too (this happened in the summer) He told me we shouldnt get into anything serious though because we live across the country from each other.
It's hurting.
I mean I thought it was all okay because my friend Brian asked me out...and we started going out and I thought that was better and stuff because Brian was someone whose actually here (not across the country and not someone I just talk to online)...and I really really liked Brian (we started going out in November)
Ever since September my computer has had a virus so I wasnt able to go online and talk to Popcorn for months...the only time I talked to him since my computer crashed was when I was over my friends house and we were online. So then Popcorn came online and I told him that I've been going out with someone named Brian for about a week, and he's like "really?!? I was just gonna tell you that I had a girlfriend."

And the freaky thing is...me and Popcorn both started going out with someone in the same week...and so we notified each other that we were going out with someone else...and we were both fine with each other going out with someone else I guess...

Then on Dec. 3 I broke up with Brian, (not because of Music) but just because it wasn't working between me and Brian and Brian said he still loves me (but I never loved him...I just liked him)...and we are still really really good friends...and since I broke up with Brian I cant stop thinking about Popcorn...and I really dont know if Popcorn still has a girlfriend.

And this may sound terrible, but I hope he doesn't...cuz I really like him again. I feel so selfish. I don't know why. Last night I was thinking about him and it just scares me that I really like him this much and I've never met him, although I love his personaility and his voice when he talked to me on mic before.

I just don't know what to do. My internet at home should be fixed soon...and I'll start talking to Popcorn again hopefully...but what if he still has a girlfriend?...and even if he doesn't, what can I do? I like him and I was thinking about him last night and you know how when you like someone you think about being with them and holding hands or kissing or something?...well...lets just say that's how it is with Popcorn. It was all of a sudden too. LIke I thought I stopped liking him and I still liked Brian after I broke up with him (I broke up with him because of a certain reason thats too hard to explain)...and yeah its just all confusing now...

But all I know is I still really like Popcorn, and I dont know what to do because obviously if he has a girlfriend he doesnt like me anymore...and even if he doesnt whose to say he likes me then?

Im sorry for it being so long of a question...please just help me with anything you can do...
I'm also a cutter, and I'm afraid to think about this too much because if I get upset I'm afraid I may cut myself more...and I cant because my family knows that I do it and every once in a while they check my arms.

okay sorry Im done now. Please help asap I have to get off this computer in about 30 minutes.

Thank you if you help.

-Me

Well I can see you really like popcorn and all, but how will you meet him and all. For instance if he doesn't have a girlfriend any more he cnat exactly go out with him on the computer. You might have to tell your parents and he might have to tell his so you can meet. Also you should get his number and talk to him on the phone so you can get to know him better. Also send him your picture, and ask him to send his s you know what he looks like. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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ok i just broke up with my ex-boyfriend..and i was going to ask him back out, but then i find out that he likes my best friend,a few days ago my best friend was like freaking out and was like what if he ask me out what if he tells me he likes me what should i say and so on. I was pretty upset bout it b/c she is my best frined and before i went out with my ex she used to liked him..so how do i know if she doesnt like him or how can i tell she is lying bout liking him..thanks and i hope this makes sence
-me

Just ask your friend if she likes him. She is your bestfriend just ask her and tell her you wont be mad at her for telling the truth. You need yo move on though. Get a new guy, so your ex knows that you aren't still sobbing about him. If your friend does like him, be happy for her because you and your ex are over with. Sorry for sounding harsh, but I am serious. ~Calie~

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the other night i had a dream that i made out with this cute guy i know. i used to have a crush on his cousin, and thats how i met him. after that dream, i can only think about making out with him. does that mean that i like him or is it just a dream and im over-reacting or WHAT?? i am so confused?

-nikki

Don't worry it's nothing. I mean you were probably thinking about him in the past few days or so. If you do like hm that's a different thing, but i don't think you do. ~Calie~

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I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????



* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too

Well you need to break up with him, but be gentle. Tell him that you don't feel a connection btw you two. Tell him you still want to be friends though. Good Luck. ~Calie~

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Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice?

Well who does this girl like more. I mean it seems like she likes you more cause she hangs out with you more, and if I did that with a guy I would probably be into him. I think you should ask her if she still likes your friend or not. Also do you think your friend would get pissed if she would rather go out with you. Idk your firned, but if he gets jealous and if you want to saty friends with him, maybe you shouldn't go out with her. I still do think that she likes you more though. Good Luck and hope everything turns out okay. ~Calie~

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my bf broke up with me about a week and a half ago, but then we got back together a couple days ago. i was never able to figure out why he broke up with me in the first place, he just said he was confused. when he asked me out again, he said he was being stupid and he was really sorry for doing that to me. i want to find out why he broke up with me. i also need 2 ask him if things we talked about doing, are still things he wants 2 do....but i dont no how to bring up the question....please help...

I think he broke up with you because maybe you guys were taking it too fast, idk. Just ask him about what you want to find out. I mean if he gets offended tell him you were just wondering, and ask him some other time. I hope everything is okay. ~Calie~

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hey i was wondering if anyone here watches one tree hill? i love that show. does anyone know where i can get make up tips/hair tips so i can look like brooke or peyton or haley. i want to act like them, dress like them, make up, hair. any tips would be greatly apreciated. thanks, ill give you all 5's.

For clothes, you should try Abercrombie and Fitch and Hollister. For the tops just places like Express and Charlotte Russe. Good Luck. By the way I luv that show. ~Calie~

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Hi, I asked you a question yesterday about my brother's friend Seth and he is 16 and I am 13 turning 14 but we would be perfect for each other. He is not like other guys we both want to wait for sex until we are married. I love that about a guy. Is there anymore advice you could give me if so please reply back! Thanks!
Jess

Well you should talk to him and I don't know what to tell you, but older guys like 16 aren't interested in girls who are younger, but since there isn't too much of a difference you hould hang out with him and talk to him. I do that with guys I and like we get closer than we were before b/c we get to know each other. Let me know what happens. ~Calie~

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Ok, well a while back before homecoming, my neighbor for over a year had a old friend to go with. He is a sophmore, and ii am a freshman. Well, my sister is a sophmore also, and she was talking to him and he said that if he would have went with a freshman, it would have been me or my friend. Well, we talk every once in a while and it gets kind of awkward, but kinda seems like he likes me. I am not sure though. Well, what do yuu guys think. I know that there is probably not enough info here, but just what do yuu guys think? Thanks so much, i'll rate!

I think he likes you, but you should try to find out. Good Luck. ~Calie~

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I really like my brother's friend, Seth. Everyone says he likes me too, but sometimes he can be rude in front of me. I don't know if guys do that asa flirting sign or what. I mean we are perfect for each other, we are both christians and we are waiting to have sex until we're married. How perfect would that be to be together for the first time when we're married. I just like him so much and I need help getting him to notice me and I need to know signs that guys give for hints that they like me. Please help!

It depends. How old is he? Any way you should get to know him better and hang out with him. Maybe he might not be what you expected. Hopefully everything will turn out good for you.
~Calie~

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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!!

Get him something that has meaning between you two. Something special. I really don't know what kind of guy he is, but mayve like a jacked our something. I really hope I helped. ~Calie~

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