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I have brown eyes and blonde hair. i am 5 foot 7 inches. i love the color green. i have tons of friends. i love my family. i am 14 years old. and i would love to be able to answer you questions to my fullest. and i will not lie to you. i won't be mean, but i give out the truth. so go ahead and ask me a question. i would love to help you out.

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I know this is weird but i am 14(girl) and i think i just got like a HUGELY MAJOR crush on this guy. only prob. is that he is my BFF. i can't believe that i like him it is a really weird feeling when i talk to him and i actually cryed when he didn't talk to me for a while! WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME?? How do i ask a guy out. i am new to this and need some ADVICE!!!!!! HHHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

okay calm down. there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. i like giving examples to help someone so i hope this helps you feel more normal. (you are 100% normal by the way)

me and my best guy friend just told each other that we like eachother and we have been together for almost a year. but when i am not aloud to talk to him on sundays i feel so lonely. and just a couple of days ago it was my b-day. he called and said that he had a present for me that he needed to give it to me. we go to different schools and so when my bus goes to pick his school up (we dont ride the same bus) we see each other sometimes. and i was expecting him to give me my present then. but he never did. i felt so disapointed. and then one day i was babysitting, not expecting him at all, he showed up on my doorstep. my heart started trying to jump out of my chest and when i opened the door my heart stoped altoghether. it was so romantic. i asked him to the dance my school is having. that is a good way to go out with some one.

sorry this is so long i just wanted you to know you're not the only one who behaves so wierd. if i didnt answer your question right or if you have anymore questions go ahead and inbox me!
hope i helped,
caitlin1492

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uhhh well i have this friend and i think that i might have fallen in love with her but im not sure. She likes me as a friend, but i think i like her more then that. I really do not know if i should tell her, or how to tell her.

This is tough. i qill give you an example of my life.

On the last day of school i asked this guy that i really like who he likes. he told me that if he told me then i had to tell him. at that moment i knew i had to take the risk and tell him i like him. and then when he told me who he likes i was shocked! he likes me too! i told him and we have been together ever since. so about a year.

i guess what i am trying to tell you is... dont go right out and tell her but ask who she likes. and this is the hard part. if she doesnt like you then you know her feelings. but if she does then right on!

good luck... hope i helped. if you have anymore questions go ahead and inbox me.
caitlin1492

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Can anyone tell me what love is like? Decribe it to me please.

love is when you get all mushy. and you cant stop thinking of that person.you smile ALL the time. it is one of the most best feelings in the world.

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if a guy is always calling you and there a you know wat i mean (horney). and they call you and tell you they love and all that crap wat should you do?

tell him your house is bugged and the police know who is calling and then hang up.

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15/f

sorry, i had to use my friend's account... but just to say that she already knows that i'm using hers. so yeah, anyways.... i'm just going to get to the point.

my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. and it hasn't even been 2 months yet. i told him when i'm ready, and he's already ready. but then he said he'll give me time, he's the type of boyfriend that doesn't pressure a girl into anything. he says that i'm the best girlfriend he ever had and that he hasn't felt like this to anyone besides me. i want to do it, but the problem is some things are holding me back.. like i'm scared my body won't be looking the same (because thats what i hear all the time), i'm scared i'm going to regret it, i don't want to end up like my sister(her boyfriend took advantage for her and used her for her body), and it's too early. should i just take the risk? or should i just not do anything at all. because part of me does want to loose it to him, but part of me wants to not loose it. >.< help me?

love, jenny.

i know you probably hear this all the time but.... you are too young to loose your virginity. i wouldn't have sex with the guy. wait at least another 6 months and see if he means what he said. that you are the only one he has felt this way about. keep telling him you aren't ready. you do want your first time to be with someone special and you do want it to be special, don't you?
i hope this helped,
Caitlin

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14/f

sorry this is long;

my boyfriend says that he doesn't take his ex's back, but this one time me & him broke up and like 11 hours later we got back together. i was the first girlfriend he got back together with. turns out i was basically the first out of everything, besides being the first girlfriend. but he's already planning to marry me.. to me.. OHH YEAHH its kinda early for that.. but i guess that js says he likes me alot... right? but he started talking to his ex again.. and before he told me a LiST of things he doesn't like about her.. and sometimes everyday i hear her name at least ONCE. out of the BLUE. -_____-" because his ex and i don't get along... me & her used to be best friends but then she talked about me behind her back for a couple of years now. but we finally became non-friends this year. and others still tell me that she talked about me behind my back. but my boyfriend said that she stopped along time ago.. even she told him herself. but i'm not sure if she's saying that because he's my boyfriend. and she was talking behind my back in front of him and he didn't even notice. (my boyfriend's kinda slow in the head) so i don't really know what to believe anymore.. but i'm pretty sure she didn't stop talkking behind my back A LONG time ago. because she's been for a while. like a few days ago, she aimed OUR friend up and told him that i was a bad girlfriend and that i was a bitch. -______-" and that person told me. but the person she told i can't trust him that much either.. cause he seemed a bit bipolar to me when he was telling me about my boyfriend's ex and then he got happy then got mad again. he's basically two faced... between me & her he's two faced..

ex: he told me i was his bestfriend and then he messaged her and asked if she hated him. and she said "i don't hate you." and then he said "oh, because mary said that i should be her bestfriend & etc." ...... wtf?!

but then yet... he also tells me the truth sometimes.. like she started cussing him out for backing me up, and then she'd tell my boyfriend that she doesn't really like him. but either way that pisses me off. because she talks about EVERYONE behind their back... so i'm not so sure what to believe anymore.. my sister says that i should be careful because a girl like her is close to my boyfriend and thats my enemy i might get heartbroken, and i don't want to lose him like what she did BEFORE. -______-" help me please?

okay. i agree with your sister. seeing how she is your worst enemy you shouldn't trust anyone she hangs out with. besides. if your boyfriend knows you and her don't get along then he shouldn't be talking to her. a good boyfriend would respect your wishes and not hang out with her. and if he can't do that... then he isn't worthy to be your boyfriend.
hope this helped,
Caitlin

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