i'm a college student in North Carolina, who orignates form Northern Virgina, right out side of Washington DC. I give good advice according to all of my buddys. I cant spell worth beans. My lifes gole is do do some thing with my life that helps people., and to find a guy who relly loves me. My area of best advice is love problems, ihave been around once or twice and know a lot.
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Anyone care to explain why so many dumb***es insist on having sex before they turn 18!!!!!!!!! It's bad enough they don't wait until after marriage, that I can live with easily, but COME ON PEOPLE, it's illegal. SOMEONE TELL ME WHY!! (link)
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i don't wanna sound lose or NE thing but sex befour age 18 has been around for a long time, it's just now it's more in the spot light, so ya teen pragnancy rates have increased but more than likely thats because most teens are not taught how to use birth controll proprley. AND don't go and blame it on tv shows eather, fact is kids like to do taboo things and right now sex is taboo.when you just gives up and says sex is ok has long has you use protection, the amount of kids "doing it" will will decress i bet ya.
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My friend told me that me an dmy boyfriend make a good couple but he never talks to me even though we just started goign out like a day ago.. But still.. Shouldnt he be talking to me, maybe he is juts shy like me.. Im really shy and I think Im gunna just talk to him (try) tomorrow anyways... but I needa know why he isnt talking to me.. !!! (link)
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guRl just dump him, even if hes shy he still shoud should hbe talking to you. Don't wanna sound neg. but chances r migh not like you that much, guys will some times like you at frist and than a day or 2 later, thay relly don't like you like that NE more. But you do need to talk to him, find out wuz up with him.
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Yeah, so I don't usually ask questions, but I'm curious as to what you all think I should do.
I've been thinking about, er...going all the way with my boyfriend. I'm sixteen. He's seventeen, turning eighteen in late May. I know I'm young, but...eh. He hasn't been pressuring me at all, so that's not an issue. He loves me, I love him, we're planning, if all goes well, to live together when we graduate. I trust him and everything, but I'm concerned about the risks involved. I could get pregnant...I'm not worried about STDs because no one in either of our families has ever had one. Oh, and we're both virgins, in case you couldn't tell...Lol. I'm also just thinking...my mom has always told me "if you ever want to become sexually active, you should come to me so we can get you birth control. I wouldn't be happy with you, but I'd get you protection. If you ever got pregnant, I'd make you have an abortion." I can't imagine actually talking to her about it. It would be so horridly awkward, and she'd be so unhappy with me...My mom and I are fairly close. I'm also not sure if I'm ready. I mean, we've come close a few times, and I sorta panicked. I've just been thinking about it more lately and it's starting not to freak me out so much. What should I do? (link)
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I'm 19 and was in youer postion earlyer this year, youer mom no matter what she says DOSE NOT WANT TO KNOW YOU ARE HAVEING SEX, no matter what she says. I suggest going to planed parenthood, or youer local health deprment to get get birth controll, because you are under 18 thay might require a perantal concent form, to percribe you aney thing. but what happens between you and a doctor stays between you and the doctor. Sex is all so a big step in a realshinship, make shure even with birth controll pills, that you use a condom, pills are only about 75% effective on by them sels, with a condom it gos up to about 99.5%.
And just so you know STD's usally don't come from some on in youer family. A STD comes from what is's named for Sexually Transmitted Dease. That means you get it from having sex, wichis why even with clean people it is important to all way use a comdom. Having sex is a big responsiblity too once you start haveing sex you need to go to youer doctor to have a pelvic exame at lest once a year, and if you have maltple partners, if not now but in the future, you need to get tested for STD's regulary. ok well i don't want you to think this is some lecture saying sex is bad if its pre-marital, thats up to you. you should just know the facts befour you do aney thing. ok? and be SAFE. this is planed parenthoods web sight, http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Please don't think i'm a nut job just cuz i cant spell well, i have been thear and done that.
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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well you smile and flirt with girls, get to know some girls. Find one who you like, and ask her out. if she says no start over agen. And once you find a girl, do NOT try to sleep with her right a way, and do not stalk her if she says no. because if you do things like that you will have a bad reptation and never get a girl frend.
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If *males* would answer this it would be great, but females with knowledge are good too. Please.. How do you know if a boy likes you? Or doesn't like you? Is it true that if they're kinda rude, they like you then? I have NO idea whether I should ask this person out.. But I don't think he likes me. I know him a *little* more than he does me..? (link)
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it depends on the boys age if hes mean to you, and hes older like 15+ hes a a$5 hole. If the guys youner than hes most likley flirting. The best way to find out if the guy likes you or not is to be up front and ask him to hang out with you.
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hi really like this kid and i think he likes me but whenever i ask him out he says he likes me kinda as a grlfriend and he wont tell me yes or no (link)
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well having been in this situation, i'm telling you he probily just dose not want to hurt youer fellings by telling you he dose not like you. he sounds like he might make a good ferend thow. ^u^
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