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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 years off and on. Just recentley we found out that we were FOURTH COUSINS! it really bothered us both. we broke up cause of it, and im so upset, cause i really wanted our relationship to grow, and i wanted us to be together. he wants us to be together also. but i jus tell him no, cause i dont want my family to know. and it wood just be too secretive, ya know? but i really want to be with him. i honestley do love this boy. is that nasty? whats your opinion on this situation? what would you do?

Okay you guys are fourth cousins....count that, FOUR. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating him! I mean, for God's sake woman, he's your fourth cousin! Royale families used to marry their brothers and sisters and even their Parents! So yeah, If you love him, So be it! Carpe Diem-Seize the moment
-Abra

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This guy is flirting with me, and I don't know how to take it! Does he like me or just want something else...I mean he's a great guy, but idk! Should I talk to him About it or what?!?! I really like him and i love the way he flirts! But again, IDK!!! What do i do?

Ok chill. He wouldn't flirt if he didn't like you. I don't know the guy personally, but all I can tell you is that alot of guys flirt for the wrong reason...they DO want something a little more. I'd talk to him and figure out his intentions if I were you...And I hope that he isn't one of those guys.
-Abra

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So theres this guy at my school, and me and him have been really good friends for about a year. so today after school he comes up and attacks me, gives me a hug, then kissed me on the forehead. i kinda like him but my sister hates him so i could never date him. or me and my sister wouyld like nevr talk again....what should i do???

Date him. Explain to your sister that he is the guy you've chose to date and tell her how much she means to you and how much you hope that she will trust you. You're sisters, and sister's should give support, even if they don't agree.
AKA play the sister card on her!
He obviously cares for you and since you've made that bond, you shouldn't keep him in the dark!
Hope I helped!
-Abra

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I dated this guy lets call him hoops. well hoops and i dated for about a week. i broke up with him becuase i thought he was moving way to fast. and well when we were dating we never talked to each other only by texting he wouldnt comeup to me at school or anything and well like during spring break he invited me to go to the island but my best friend wanted me to go with her to this carnival but to not offend any of them i didnt go with either. but i really like him still idkkk why? i really liek him still and i dont know what to do becuase he only talks to me over myspace or text messaging and well our parents are they same when it comes to dating which is STRICT! so yeah we hardly even talked over the phone. and well i dont kwno if he likes me or not how do i find out if he likes me and how do i start talking to him like to go out agian because i really liek him and i dont knwo what to do.

please help me........please i seriouly liek him still but i dont know what to do to get his attention any suggestions?

Okay, I've been there, done that. You could start flirting again...like eyeing him from across the room or biting your lip when he looks at you...But to be truthful, My ex went too fast, we broke up, got back together and he still pulled the same shit. He may still be the same so be prepared.
-Abra
Hope for the best!

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15. female... My ex and i have had some rough times..In june we broke up and then got back together and then again and one more time..In septemeber i finally broke it off for good. Hes been trying to get back in my life and he wont leave me alone, and im one of those people who is nice to everyone...Again, recently he was trying to get in my life..i just cant take him back, on top of everything hes done to me, he lives 60 miles away. What should i do?
please help thanks in advance =/

Tell him the distance is too much for you and that you haven't had time to heal b/c he is always on ur case...My ex was like that and I told him that I wasn't ready to trust him again...He moved about a month later.
Hope I helped!=)
(oh tell him you need breathing room if he continues to bug you)

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My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?

Sadly, most guys are like that. My ex-boyfriend was like that. All big and bad around his friends, but a totally different person when it was just me and him. Is your b/f like that? Me and my ex still occasionally talk to eachother, but he's still rude and obnoxious around his guy friends...and he still is acting totally different when it is just me and him.
Let him know how you feel and tell him how much it bothers you that he does that. If he's a man and respects you enough to quit the dumb shit, stay by his side and be proud that he 'took it like a man'...And if he lashes out at you, well, you know how it should be. He's not gonna change.

Sorry that I'm so blunt, but i've been there, done that. And if he is not willing to listen to you and stop being immature, then he isn't worth your time. Trust me.

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