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My names britt. I love school for some reason its really easy. I love my friends Britt(lol) && Tiffany (who looks like my twin). I'm pretty athletic even though I don't play sports. I'm really easy to get along with;unless i hate you, then i could be a bitch. But generally I'm a nice person. I'm 13 and have two dogs who are chihuahuas: && They are my babies

advice

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months today. this weekend we are going to his cousins house and there will be no adults. i am a virgin but i think i am ready for sex. how do i know if i am or not? do i know at all? should i do it?

Don't do anything that you'll have second thoughts. You say your ready for sex, but are you really? Is he the right guy? You've only been going out for 4 months, if you don't want to, you dont have to. I heard people who say their ready, but usually arent, unless you are in your case.

Theres no way you know you are ready or not, but should be like in love witht he person you give your virginity too. It's something you can never get back.

Remember, don't do anything you dont want to do, and if you do, then use protection. But it the condom breaks or slips off, think of the life-changing consequences.

hope i helped :]

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damn man I'm embarassed...my partner wishes me to have a larger penis, but hey...I don't want any pills for it...so does anybody have any natural at home techniques one can do to enlarge a penis???

help would be apprecaited

Well, thats not nice of your partner, shes supposed to comfort you and make you feel comfortable.

Pills only erect the penis for sexual intercourse/activity.

And, sry no, there are no natural ways that i know that can enlarge your penis. But I heard that when sexually arroused smaller penis's get larger than big ones so it like evens out. I dont know if its true or not.

hope i helped. good luck

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17/F
My boyfriend, 20/M, and i have been dating for 3 months now. last night when we were fooling around, he asked me to tell him what i like so that he can do it. I told him that i didn't know. I told him that he was the first guy i'd ever been with, and that i don't experiment myself. (I'm very conservitive). Anyhow, this got into a huge discussion about it and now things are awkward between us. We had a huge sex talk and i found out that he has done alot of stuff before with other girls. i really want to do stuff with him, but i;m afraid of going beow the belt. How can i overcome this fear, and is there any way that i can make things not awkward between us?

dont do anything you dont want to do.

"waiting til marriage seems pointless, but when you do get married, wouldnt you want to give them something as important as your virginity, and not whats left of you"

you've only been going out for 3 months, thats wayyy to early to have sex. and even things before the waist. how would you feel if u guys did stuff and then he dumped you the day after?

oh, and to answer your question, dont do anything you feel awkward doing or you dont want to do. it seems as if your not ready, but still want to. to make it seem less awkward, you could dim the lights or even ask him to try and make it seem less awkward.

i didnt help much, sryy.

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okay well im thirteen tomorrow and my boyfriend is a year older than me and yesterday my boyfriend told me that his best friend which is my best friend's boyfriend kept asking him how far me and him have gone but he wouldn't tell him. then they made a bet that my boyfriend would finger me by the 27. and last night i asked my boyfriend if i was just a f**king bet to him and he was like oh how do you know about the bet? and no your not just a bet. and we only made it because he wouldn't leave me alone. and then my boyfriend told me that it was also because he feels weird because my two best friends and their boyfriends have sex and stuff and he feels weird because we haven't and he feels left out. and then i was like well what are you trying to tell me ? and he was like well maybe we should do it because i want to because i love you. and i was like no. and he was okay with it but then he kept asking why and stuff and dont i want to know what its like and stuff like that. and i was like yeah i'm curious but i'm not ready to find out. we have only been going out for almost three months. it would be 3 january 10th. and then he was like well i love you and i want to go farther with you. and i was like " okay, i want to go farther but not all the way " and he was like "would you feel comfortable with 3rd?" and i was like yeah i guess and then i found out today that my best friends boyfriend bet my ass that he wouldn't finger me and my boyfriend bet my best friend's tit's that he would. i don't know wahat to do. i don't want to let him finger me if its all just because of a stupid fricken bet. im not a whore or a slut but i'm also not prude. a little advice please?

Don't do anything you dont want to, nor regret.

If he would break up with you after, you'd probably feel horrible. and just because he wants to, and you dont want to. dont let him.

Its not being prude and whatever.


"i want to because i love you" sounds like its more of a bet.
No ever let anyone take advantage of you by telling they want to or you have to do something to show you love them. such as "if you love me you'll let me do it" just simply say. "if you love me. you'll wait"

something like that.

hope i helped :]

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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]

i guess thats a good thing.

making him "hard" is him getting sexually aroussed.

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ok. i really like this kid.
& like i dont think he likes me.. but idno.. i wanna see what other people think

At this party..everyone screamed JACIS HERE! (thats me)
& my one friend, told me that the kid i like, got a really big smile on his face & looked at me & then looked down.
& then he was really shy around me.
like he'd talk to every girl but me.
(which i thought was bad but idno)
at this big dance..
all of his baseball friends were like..
are you jaci? do you like colin? or theyd just go are you jaci? & then smile at the kid i like, & he would just look down.
everyone said he looked over at me when i would be on rides or something & watch me.
& then at this like baseball field..
he was with this one kid.. & they kept whispering & the kid i like, would just say sshh shut up , she might hear you.

& stuff like that.
so do you think he likes me?
or no?
& if he does.. how can i make him tell me or something? without telling him i like him?

It sure sound like it.
He's just probably shy or might think you don't like him, might hve low self confiendence, etc.
I would go for it. Go and talk to him, maybe ask him out.

You'll never know until you do.

Hope I helped.
Good Luck
xoxo

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this is for everyone to answer.

what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?


i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.

None of each yet.
My parents= mocho strict.
and im 14.

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okay so me and my boyfriend are perfect for eachother we have been together for almost a year and a half... well he really wanted this snowmoblie coat so i ordered it for his ,, it was $250.00 tho so i dont just wanna give it to him like in wrapping paper i want it to be special but i cant think of anything cute to give it to him for christmas? any ideas

i do this for my friends presents. put it in a box, then wrap it. then put it in another box and wrap it again. and keep doing it, its cute and funny.

Good luck
♥britt

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I bought my boyfriend of two months, an Ecko tshirt, an earring, & a 10 dollar gift card @ Barnes and Nobles. I didn't want to go overboard since we've literally only known each other 2 months, but do you think that seems like enough?
Thanks.

Yeahh thats good.
good luck
♥britt

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hey, i really need help finding a gift for my bf. we've been going out for 3 months, and this is my first real relationship so ive never done this before. i know from his friend that hes getting me glass ornaments that he made, but i have no idea if hes getting me anything else or not. got any suggestions? thanks so much, i rate

Maybe get him his favorite cologne or a mix cd you can make with his favorite songs on it

good luck
♥britt

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I will rate fives for all answers! In about 12 days it will be my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I was really low on ideas so I got a fleece throwover blanket embroidered for him, it has our names and December 22nd, 2004 on it and it also says I LOVE YOU. I dont' know, is this a good idea and if it is, what also can i get him to go along with it. I bought all kinds of things to make him a card and I just think maybe a lil' something else will do. thanks! -sahara

Awe thats such a cute idea. I would buy maybe his favorite cologne with it.

good luck
♥britt

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well. i'll try to make this real brief.
we were "more than friends" for one month.
he asked me out. we went out for a month.
everything was awesome. and then,
he dumped me for NO reason. he told me that too.
we didn't talk for a week.
on monday (the 5th) we started talking about getting back together.
i said "i just want to be with you, but whatever makes you happy i'll do."
he wants to be with me too. he asked me out again.
i said "i know it's not what you want"
the next day we got back together, but he never OFFICIALLY "asked me out"
he's called himself my boyfriend twice.. i don't know it was just a slip of the tongue.
and he always refers to our "relationship"

would you say he's my boyfriend?

Its up to you and him;;sounds like it. If I was you i'd ask him if you were more friends

good luck
♥britt

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Okay, i'm 13. I like my friends Josh and John.They are both 13 too. John has a girlfriend but Josh doesn't. Sometimes I think Josh likes me because one time when we were on the way home from playing a concert from school it was around 9p.m and I was tired. I sat with Josh and started falling asleep. Josh then started to hold my hand and tell me to lay my head on his shoulder. In school he would give me hugs and sit with me. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me and I'm the kind of person who is shy to say that kind of stuff to guys. What should I do? Does he like me?

Awee thats so adorable.
If I were you i would take my chances && ask him out or ask him if he likes you..what'd you have to lose.. Also it sounds like he likes you.

Hope it works out;;good luck
♥britt

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ok, so there's this guy that i REALLY like!!!
we went out last year and he has gone out with like 2 different girls since me and he goes out with them for like a couple months, dumps them because they do something wrong and then gets back with them, but he broke up with me and never even tried to get back with me. I don't know if he even really likes these girls and he is just trying to make me jealous or what. How do you REALLY get over someone and is it even POSSIBLE???
PLEASE HELP!!
I rate high for GOOD ADVICE!!
~fellow advicenator

I kno. Its hard to get over someone. And almost impossible in some cases. Maybe look at the bad sides of him;;he uses people. Maybe even try and like someone else. Yahh i kno its hard, and it will take time.

good luck
♥britt

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