Ok i am an 8th grader and everyday after all of my classes are over i go and see this 7th grade teacher bc he is like the bestest teacher ever lol but there is this boy in this teachers class that is like in love with me {{lets call him "bob"}}. "Bob" has had a BIG CRUSH on me since he met me and he is really weird and it is embarrasing bc everytime "bob" sees me he is stuck up my but and everyone thinks i am going out with "bob". But he has known me for going on a year now and he is always like omg i cant believe you are gonna leave me and go to high school and he is always talkin about how he dreams about me and stuff and it is really creepy bc "bob" scares me and everyone says he rights on his arm a heart and mine and his initials and i dont know what to do bc i want him to leave me alone bc "bob" gets on my nerves but im not tryin to be me i am really nice but its just he wont leave me alone and i have done everything i can >:| What should i do to make him stop?!?!?!?
OK, I think maybe you should tell bob the truth, but as nice as possible. He has a crush. It's sorta cute, but it can get very annoying. Just pull him aside and say, listen bob you're so cute and all but I want you to know that you're one of my good friends, and we should stay friends when I go off to high school. Won't that be fun? It may be a little harsh, but sometimes you can't hint these things if you really want him gone just let him down as easy as possible. Unfortunately there is a huge possibility that he's going to get hurt. The great thing about people is that they get over these things sooner or later.
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okay well i have feelings for my guy friend. i dont know if he feels the same way though. he is a sophmore and i am a freshmen. we talk on the phone and on myspace. he usually wants me to call me and stuff and suggested us hanging out just the two of us ,but i got so nervous that i changed the subject. he says he cares about me and he is the nicest guy i have ever met. how do i hint that i like him? Does he fill the same way?
Guys don't get hints unless you spell it out for them. Tell him you like him, and that you want to date him. That you care a lot about him. He sounds like he already likes you. Don't be afraid is he feels the same way or not what really matters is how you feel about him. Just tell him the truth.
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MY MUM WON'T LET ME HAVE A BOYFRIEND!
am 15yrs old, ad my mum won't let me have a boyfriend!
All my friends have boyfriends, but i did'nt care i could'nt have one because i never saw it as a big deal....
Then...about a year ago i started to like this guy, i knew i could'nt go out with him, and was'nt upset i could'nt, because i thought, 'why would he like me? But about a month ago he asked me out, i told him i would think about it.(And hes saying take as long as you want, how cute is that)
I find it really unfair i can't go out with him, my mum says i need to concetrate on my studies but i am, an a/b student-and hes kinda more clever the me!
i don't think she trusts me either, but i know not to do anything stupid, i mean things like sex, am going to defo wait till am married.
I know she wants me to be safe and everything but, i really like him, and i wish that she would let me go out with him.
Is she being fair?
It's hard to say if a parent is being fair or not. Better safe then sorry. Yet that still doesn't change things. Maybe if you ask her to bring over some friends, and you bring him over let him meet her. Let them talk and get to know each other. When they're done ask nonchalantly what does she think of him, if she asks why say, "Mom, I love u. I want to respect you, and for you to trust me. Instead of dating behind your back I decided for you to meet the guy I liked first, please! I promise that I will be responsible. I know you're just worried, but I think it would be best if you let me." Sometimes when someone says no to something it's bound to happen. If you show her that you respect her she might soften up, and also make sure you let the guy know what's going on.
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okay.. so this guy that i used to hang out with a lot... (like a month and a half ago) used to like me... but then he told me he didnt like me.. but now i just want to try to be friends with him.. and i gave it time.. and so tonight i was with my friend and i called him.. and i talked to him like normally and he said he was free sometime this week and so we are supposed to hang out sometime soon.. but im just scared that he wont remember or he wont want to or something like that.. but i just want to see how it goes.. so yeahh. i dont know what to do about it. but my friend also talked to him and he was being really goofy(hes like that a lot) and he was like "u and katie should come over and we can jump on my trampline and play ping pong!" and my friend was like "haha okay...." kind of weird i know.. but it wouldn't be horrible.. i just don't know if he'll remember it.. cause then i texted him and i was like u me and gabby next week ur house.. kayy? and he texted back alright! so i dont know. what do you think??
That's great! Just try to continue your friendship with him. Just keep reminding him, continue to hang out. Maybe he has allot of stuff on his mind, or maybe he's just forgetful. If he's silly he probably is. If you want to keep hanging out with him don't be scared to send him a text message and say, "Hey! don't forget we have plans." If he forgets it's ok. Don't feel scared, he seems to still want to hang with you so just take your chances, sooner or later he'll be able to remember things on his own.
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16/f
ok so me and this guy hooked up for like a week mabye 2 right after me and this other guy ( who i really really really liked ) stop talking to each other. so obviously i was a little depressed and everything and a few days ago the new guy kept asking me like what do you want out of this and im like give me time and hes like ill wait as long as it takes blah blah blah he tells everyone he really likes me.well yesterday i found out hes calling me a slut and he found out that the last boy was an asshole to me so he was like mabye if i treat her like an ass hole shell like me more. so i comfronted him about it last night and hes like i dont want to deal with your drama and walked away. i cried for like a minute and then i was just really mad at him for thinking he could get away with what he said. what should i do? and do you think im sad about loosing him or just mad at him??
It was totally wrong for him to say those things! It doesn't matter what a girl does, no one should ever say those things about someone, even if it was out of anger. And if they do make sure no one with a big mouth is around to hear it and pass it along like some dumb game of telephone! What you should do is forget about him! I know harsh, but why do you want to be with a guy who will say those things about you? You shouldn't it was uncalled for there are better ways to handle your feelings then to take them out on someone in that manner. What you should do is take a step back from the all the drama and sort your feelings out. You probably didn't get over the last guy that you really, really liked and you do need time. So give yourself time, write down how you feel get it out of you and when you're ready move on, go for it. I think you are sad and mad about loosing him. A part of you wanted to start things yet you are still on the last guy. Yet you shouldn't be angry with yourself, you told him how you felt and he got angry and took it out in the wrong way. Yet maybe without knowing maybe to get over the first guy you hooked up with him. Of course that's not how things work, but you maybe tried. Next time if you are still in a crush with a guy try not to jump into another relationship.
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I'll make my story short. I like this boy, and no I'm not an immature little brat who's too young to date. Anywho, I have a crush on this boy very much and this guy rejects me saying that he doesn't feel that way about me. But he's been hanging out with everyday and says he misses me and hugs me plenty of times. I like him so much but I really want him to like me back but all I get from him is that he says I'm like his little sister which is totally embarrassing and lame. I don't know how to get this guy to like me, when he likes to hang out with me all ready, and I don't get why he wouldn't like me! It's just hard and I need someone's help. How would I make this guy like me more than a little sister? He's not like any other guys. He's very blunt and shy to share his emotions but when it comes down to it, he does say what he feels. And I want him to like me more than a friend really badly. If he hangs out with me so much, I don't get why he doesn't like me more than a friend. Please help! Thank you.
It's very hard to MAKE someone like you. Truthfully you can't change someone's feelings. A person must do it on their own. It may seem hard, and it may hurt to know that he may never feel the same way about you. But if you truthfully do like him, don't you think that maybe, just maybe, you should accept being friends, and let it go? I believe that if you truly like someone you will take being friends then not having them in your life at all. Maybe someday he'll wake up and say "OH WOW! I LOVE HER!" But for now it's best that you don't push anything, it might ruin the friendship. I'm sure if you don't push anything, his sisterly love for you will grow into something deeper, but remember feelings are feelings and you can't change them unless they're yours.
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Hi,
I sort of have situation right now between two guys("G" & "J"). I find that i like both of them, and im having a problem choosing!! I feel like i should, because i wouldnt want to falsely lead any of them on.
lets start with "G": i talk to him like everyday, and yet he still mystifys me. i want to know him so much more, and i really like him. i just can't stop thinking about him. I dont know though, what he would be like if i asked him out, or if he even likes me. (but i get the feeling he might)
and then, theres "J": i also talk to him everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really nice. all my friends think he's my perfect match. I know he likes me, its really obvious and it makes me feel good. I like him too, but im at a crossroads now between G and J.
Can you help me out here?
It's always hard picking between two guys. In situations like this you can never tell how it's going to turn out. So it sounds like G is a giant mystery. It's always fun going into the unknown, but what happens after the unknown becomes known? What happens when all those feeling begin to fade, and you can't do anything about it. I say you find out more about G, and make sure he is no longer the mystery, because in relationships the unsolved mysteries becomes solved. You sound really happy with J though! He's also a little bit more obvious. I can't really tell you who to pick unfortunately, but I can tell you to get to know G more, and when you do compare him with J. Write both their qualities out on a piece of paper. Whose ever qualities you like more, that's the one you should go for. Don't be afraid to hurt anyone's feelings! This is your life. Good Luck :)!
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AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.
So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm not ugly, but I don't know how to look at myself/what to see in myself from the side. I don't know what guys think of me.
How can I better the chance of this working out? =( Thanks so much in advance.
Playing Match maker is so much fun! But don't you think you should be the one to come out of your shell and ask him out?If you have some confidence issues, don't you think this could bring you out of your shell? Its ok to get rejected EVERYONE DOES!It's ok, and don't be shy. Sometimes boys can admire a girl that can speak for herself, and be bold enough to make the first move. You have to start learning more about yourself, it may be an online personality quiz or zodiac signs. But don't be afraid. Makes sure that he treats you with respect and makes you feel good. You can do it! Deep down inside, there's a great interesting wonderfull girl who's just dying to tell that boy how she feels. Should we keep her locked up any longer?
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18/m
okay well about 7 months ago i got out of a 8 month relationship and with that girl i found myself always trying to pick a fight just so i could be mad and angry with her
and i hated it but i figured it was just because our personalitys clashed or something because it seemed like she did the same thing sometimes (that wasent what ended our relatinship tho)
oh and i never loved her only liked
but now i have a girlfriend that i absolutly love more than anything and i have been with her for about 5 months but i have been good friends with her for a cpl years
but anyways im finding myself starting to do the same thing i did with my ex. where im starting a fight for no reason
and im hating this so much because i dont want to hurt my girlfriend.
is there something wrong with me?
is this normal?
please help!!!
Hav you ever felt little relationship scared? Though some people may say "No way! I have had tones of relationships!" that might not be the case. You can have a million relationships, but if pattern begins to form its a reason that goes way deeper into you. Think, are you soemtimes afriad of commitment? Have you seen a relationship that ended badly? Maybe not, maybe life was pretty perfect in seeing love and feeling love. If that's the case then great! Yet your subconcious mind is pushing these girls away. That's why you keep picking fights. NO nothing is worng with you! This is normal in cases of fear. If something was wrong with you you wouldn't be screaming HELP! This may take some time, but when you find yourself beginning to pick fights with your girlfriend stop! Breath! And tell yourself, look at her, you love her she's beautifule, and you don't want to hurt her. Think of a good memories, or inside joke. If she notices and asks what's worng? Why are you acting strange, an easy way to cover that up with a girl is a mind boggeling kiss, and saying "You just make me feel so great! I love you." That will put all her suspicions to bed. Yet this is easier said then done. Sometimes you won't catch yourself, but this is trial and error, and the best thing you can do is reason with yourself.
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hey everyone dis will be pretty long but i justreally need a answer quick.. please.. ok
well i really like this boy and all and last year he always used to look at me always used to talk to me and stuff and i really started ot like him i mean badly anyway he went to amerrica and stuff and then he came back
and asked for me and stuff and my sis told him when i ws comin to skool anyway this year you kno when you first go to skool and stuff and you havnt seen people in a long tmie and you get nervouse and scared and you kno what im saying anyway i was like to him heeey then i saw my friends behind him i was soo dammn exited to see them and stuff and so then BY MISTAKE honest mistake i just ran away from him and hese like why are you runnin and i totally ignored him but i swear i so did not mean it i just didnt think anwyay i told him i was sorry and now we talk and stuff and whatever happend happend lol but i duno man.. i feel that he doesnt like talk to me as much as he used to everyone finds him the same somehow i find him diffrent and like i find him we dont talk as much andhe never looks at me alot like he used to we shake hands everytime we walk buy and stuff but i duno please dont tell me hese prolly still mad that u ignored him cause i kno hese not i mean we talked today normal laughing and stuff and he told me he wasnt mad and stuff.
But what do i do to get him to talk to me more i dont wanna always come up to im cause he will find me annoying any suggestings?? please?? thanks
OK! Boys are weird! Weirder then us sometimes. You may feel that he acts differnetly twards you becuase he might still be mad. If you think thats it the best thing to do about it is keep talking. Keep being friendly keep opening up to him. Sooner or later time will heal his anger. Also it sounds like you still like him, and you seem maybe even a little nervous around him, becuase he went away. Maybe you're a little afriad of feeling rejected by him, which is probably how you feel. If he felt rejected, or if you felt rejected the only way to get over that is continue to talk and play around act like nothing! If he still continues to act weird it may be stress. School, parents, work, friends, family...all can be stressfull. Give him some time. It might not be you that has him acting weird. Try to open up as much as possible, and don't be afraid to feel rejected.
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