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i have a crush on this one guy. we hang out as really good friends like every weekend. i really want to take it a step further. how do i tell him. and im scared if i tell him it will ruin a great friendship. plus, he lives like a half hour away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
U should just trust your heart and go ahead and tell him. What is the wrost thing he can say "NO". If he does at least in your heart that you told him.


Im 14. Theres a boy names Justin, hes also 14. i like and he likes me too.
I'd never EVER reject anyone so i decided i'd go out with me because he's really nice, and almost always calls me pretty:D

So, hes going to a different high school, and he doesnt know if we'd "work out" so i gave him some time to think about it...

well, that was yesterday, and he said he'd have an answer for me in the morning, and its 1:30 in the afternoon, and he wont reply to my text.
I dont LIKE LIKE him, but hes got me going crazy!!
and i cant help but want to kiss him... but my only fears are
1)Hes not a virgin.
2)I AM a virgin, and what if we get carried away?
3)Does he just hate me, because he wont talk to me? I only texted him 2 times, because i dont wanna be annoying, but will someone tell me whats up?
i dont know whats wrong with me, but advise would be good! (link)
So the boy doesn't like you for you he likes you for your body. So tell him that you don't want to be in a relationship with a person who doesn't like you for you. WE should break up.


So ive been with my fiance for awhile and i really want to get married. I already have baby fever. I am moving 400 miles away from my family to live with him which to me would be a big deal if i was him. Hes going to college as a freshman everytime the topic comes up he says he cant. He is capible but doesnt want to. I dont know why he doesnt want to get married but it sucks. Can anyone help me. Is it me? Should i not be moving? What else can i do to show him i want to get married!! (link)
Just take slow with him. Guys like to take slow when it comes to being married beind a father.
Just take baby steps with him.


I need to think of a going-away present for my boyfriend who is going to California for a surfing competition, and right after that college in another city. I need something that he'd actually like or use. Some of his interests are surfing, photography, frisbee and music.

ANY suggestions are helpful, because I don't have a clue...

btw, I have very limited time to think of something (link)
GET him a surfboard than tell him you love if you do. If love him i don't want rush in to things.


Hi, I'm from the UK, hope you can help! I began dating a guy a few months ago through facebook (However, he is from my hometown and I did already know him). He is 26 and im 25 and he lives about 2.5 hours away from me. We got on so well in every way, we are perfect for each other, but the distance was a stuggle. We were emailing and texting every day, but only getting to see each other every 2 weeks which was really hard. He wanted to move back but couldnt find a job in his profession. Then about 6 weeks ago he rang up and said we should not see each other anymore as its too hard as he is skint, falling behind in his job (he has a professional job) and hates the idea of me paying to go up there all the time. He insisted he still really liked me, but i was sceptical. That was around 6 weeks ago and i was gutted, since then we have emailed around once a week, until last week when he text me saying he would be home on the weekend...would i like to meet for a drink? So i met him on Sat and we were together all night, and things were exactly the same - we still got on so well and he said things like if he lived here he would be saying 'l love you' by now! It was so nice, then Sunday he said he would try and come down in two weeks time...i just dont know waht to do though, im worried he'll change his mind again etc. He's text me a couple of times since the weekend, but nothing yesterday(its wednesday now), but it's so confusing. He is a nice, genuine person so i know he isnt using me. My friend said perhaps i should move up there, but i dont feel that i know him well enough and would be scared. Long distance is really hard, but i really, really like, even love him. It's taken so long to find someone I like, usually I just date and end up finishing with them pretty soon after. I hate feeling like this, it's so much easier when I don't like anyone and am single! Sorry for babbling on so much, but i would appreciate your advice - thank you!x (link)
OK you don't want to move and when he tryed to move with he didn't his professional job so just tell him that live him and your hard to stay in this relationship but it is hard because far away and maybe you two can another place to be.


15/f
This guy i like is in one of my classes and we talked for like a week over the summer but he ended up having to go do something so we couldn't talk anymore. I don't know if he still likes me or not but today in class he waved to me and said hi and we had a short convo. But i am SUPER shy and every time i talk to someone i'm comfortable around my stomach hurts and my voice is REALLY shaky. He came over to me and my friends to talk to us but he was mainly talking to my friends because i was just standing there not talking. I get really shy.

Also, this isn't really part of the question but he has ALOT of friends that are girls and i will see him talking to them all the time and i know i shouldn't be jealous but he put his arm around my friend today just like a little hug time thing. I was like, "i wish that was me" but anyways, what should i do? (link)
ok when he comes around your friends tell them to tell him to talk to him. Try to find what type of club he is in then try to join have in. Then both of would have to say "Hi"




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