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hey everybody! My name is anna. I know life can be confusing at times, so if you ever get down and want some questions answered. ASK AWAY! I'm here. I'll listen. Thanks.

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Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....

Boys are very Confusing :(

Sweetie if you really like your boyfriend you will try and make it work. It will only work if you make it. So don't just give up on it because "normal" relationships see each other once or twice a week. Thats terrible thinking. Be happy with your relationship, because maybe that couple that sees eachother one or twice a week is extremely miserable. Think about it? And if this guy that lives in your town is def. making you happier then dump your boyfriend and go for it. BUT! Don't dump your boyfriend because this guy just happens to live in your town and you're just looking for an easy way out. When really you may not even like this kid, but since he lives in your town you feel a bit angry that your boyfriend isn't there. And you go off running to the next boy you see. This is a very complicated decision. And i woudln't just take a second to think about it. THink about your boyfriend, didn't he make you happy? Does he still make you happy? And maybe even once your boyfriend can drive he'll be able to come visit you every day! I mean its only an hour away, its not too bad. So think about it, okay? I hope i helped. Rate me? =)


anna

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I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will?

First of all how do you know he's not lieing? Maybe he is. You have never been close to him, you dont know if he is lieing to you or not. What he tells you, is all you know. Trust is a major key in internet relationships. I never actually believed in them, although i tried a couple times. I think if you've known him for that long a person couldn't possible continue lieing for 2 years, he'd get caught up in them somehow. Maybe he's actually telling you the truth, and my dear if he is...GO FOR IT! Don't miss out on this, this may be a perfect guy for you. Just whenever you can talk to your parents and go visit Calgary! Take a family vacation and kinda make a plan to meet up with him.=) See if he's anything like you thought. It'll answer a lot of questions for you. Have you showed him your picture? KEEP IN TOUCH! Rate me?

anna

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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

How does that one song go?
oh yeah!
"I know when he's been on your mind
That distant look is in your eyes
I thought with time you'd realize it's over, over
It's not the way I choose to live
And something somewhere's gotta give
A share in this relationship gets older, older

You know I'd fight for you but how could I fight somone who isn't even there
I've had the rest of you now I want the best of you I don't care if that's not fair

Cuz I want it all
Or nothing at all"


I think you need to talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you love her so much and you dont want to share her. So you're sorry but she'll have to pick between you and your bestfriend. You dont mean to be rude, but its way to painful for you. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Nobody deserves to be treated like this. Hope it all works.

anna

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ok this is the same person who wrote the question about how i dont know how to tell my mom i have a boyfriend.....well she caught us together.(we werent doin nething but we sat close)...well i went for a walk and he met up wit me so we made out then sat next to each otha watchin the sun set...when my mom pulls up and asked me if i was ok and asked who was that kid sittin next to me....i told her he'd fallen off his bike and was hurt so i just sat and talked to him......she gave him a ride home but still didnt think of me likin him........now i definatly cant tell her bc now shes gonna think i go for walks everyday just to see him....now how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend?

I told my mom i had my first boyfriend by writing her a long letter and leaving it by her door. Try talking to her, telling her that you really like this guy. And he's a great guy for you. He wont do anythign stupid, hes a proper boy. =) Make her understand how important this is for you. Hope it helps.

anna

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Ok so im going out with this guy... lets call him Aaron. And well idk i really like him but im not sure if he likes me at all. He always hangs out with this group of girls and they all r nice to me but 1. And thats fine with me cuz i dont like her either but anyways... im not sure if he likes me . but i hav another problem. His bestfriend um... lets say Bob. likes me he is my Ex. and so like everytime he sees me or talks to me online he is like "hey Sexy" and im mean is that bad. Him and my boyfriend are like bestfriends. and i kno "aaron" is gonna get mad.
but the thing is i kinda like "bob" too. idk wut to do im so confused. help
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I think you need to take some time and think really about who made you happy. If "bob" is your ex then there had to be a reason for it.Right? "Aaron" is probably a very outgoing guy, he likes women. Theres nothign wrong with hanging out them. And think about it, if he liked one of the girls why woudl he be dating you? Why would he go out with you when he has all these girls he could flirt with? Maybe because...they're just friends? And he likes you like a "girlfriend"? =). Its okay to be close with "bob"...unless the closeness can cause some trouble between "aaron" and "bob". Don't ever go on those grounds, the ground between best friends. Egh terrible. Bring too much trouble. Heh. Take some time and think about who you really want in your life. Or you could just be friends with both and have the advantage of flirting with each without worrying about a boyfriend? Take sometime and think about it. Rate me?

anna

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If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do?

Try apologizing, guys can be stuburn and dumb at times. Just give him sometime, he'll be over it soon enough. i've have plenty of "guy" friends like that, they'd get mad over something stupid, but after a while just get over it. Try talking to him, and telling him that you're sorry and that you're friendship means a lot to you and you wouldnt want anything to ruin it. You promise not to hurt him again.

=) All the best,
anna

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